In the relationship between the sexes, how a woman can make a man love herself is an eternal topic. Every woman wants to find a way to flip a switch on a man's body and make him die for herself.
So, what exactly is this switch? In this article, I will combine my own views and experience to introduce you to three switches that turn on a man's body and help a woman win a man's heart.
1. Turn on the switch of men's inner conquest needs
Men seem to be born with a strong desire to conquer, and they are keen on the process of challenge and conquest.
When a woman is able to subtly arouse this desire in the heart of a man, he will involuntarily develop an extremely strong interest and a strong curiosity about her.
In the TV series "A Piece of Wood", there is a character named Luo Yan, she was born pure and moving, and at first she felt ignorant of love. But in reality, she knows the secret to motivating men to conquer.
She always displays an enigmatic temperament that makes men elusive, and in turn succeeds in arousing their inner desire to conquer.
In a man's cognition, only by conquering this woman can he show his charm and ability.
However, stimulating a man's desire to conquer is only the beginning, and it is more important to continue to maintain his inner desire for conquest.
Once a man has successfully conquered a woman, his interest will gradually wane if he finds that she has become too docile or has lost her challenge.
Therefore, women need to learn to maintain their own independence and mystery, so that men are always curious and conquering about themselves, and cannot easily take their eyes off themselves.
2. Turn on the switch of trust and respect: the cornerstone of men's emotional world
Trust and respect are undoubtedly the cornerstones of gender relations, and they are crucial.
If a woman can skillfully turn on the "switch" of trust and respect in a man, then he will really feel your sincere feelings and meticulous love, and then his feelings for each other will become deeper and deeper.
For example, when a man encounters difficulties and setbacks at work, the woman gives him full trust, believes that he has the ability to solve the problem, and listens attentively to give him understanding and encouragement when he needs to talk;
In family decision-making, women respect the man's opinion and discuss it with him, rather than acting arbitrarily.
Such behavior will make a man feel that he is respected and trusted, and he will cherish this relationship even more.
When a man feels the trust and respect that a woman gives, he becomes acutely aware that he is needed and of great value.
This recognition will make him more confident and full of motivation to move forward, and at the same time, it will also make him cherish this hard-won relationship.
In the future work and life, no matter what kind of problems and troubles are encountered, they will take the initiative to tell the woman, so as to establish an effective emotional connection with the woman.
When encountering problems, solve them together, and be able to respect the suggestions and opinions given by women, so that in the future emotional life, the two can go further, so that men can get more sense of value, existence, and responsibility.
3. Turn on the switch of support and encouragement: stimulate men's potential and self-confidence
On the journey of men striving to pursue their careers and dreams, the support and encouragement of their partners are like sweet rain and dew, nourishing their inner desire and strength.
When a man encounters difficulties or setbacks, the support and encouragement of women will make him feel very warm and empowered.
This feeling will make him more determined to pursue his dreams, and it will also make him cherish the relationship even more.
For example, when a man encounters setbacks at work, a woman can give him some advice and help to make him feel supported and encouraged by you.
When a man is successful, a woman can give him some praise and affirmation to make him feel your appreciation and adoration.
This kind of support and encouragement will make men feel that they are needed and valued. This feeling will make him more confident and motivated, and it will also make him cherish the relationship more.
In short, in the relationship between the sexes, women should learn to turn on the three switches on the man: stimulate and maintain the man's inner desire for conquest, turn on the switch of trust and respect, and turn on the switch of support and encouragement.
Only in this way can you win a man's heart and make him love you and never give up. Of course, these methods are not achieved overnight, and women need to continue to learn and practice. At the same time, women must also learn to love themselves, only in this way can they love others better.