In these fast-paced times, the relationship between husband and wife is being put to the test. Especially when people reach middle age, married life feels even more boring, and the rest of their lives are just living together, is this true?
In fact, middle age is a special stage in the journey of life. The children are growing up, and their careers may have entered a stable period, and the relationship between husband and wife seems to have changed a little over the years.
It's as if life has entered a new phase. Between husband and wife, from the initial passion overflowing to the current plain as water, it seems that everything has become boring.
The passion fades and life becomes plain as water. A woman after middle age often feels lonely, because as soon as she opens her eyes, she is surrounded by people who want to rely on her, but there is no one she can rely on. Couples may also fall into a habit and dependence rather than true passion and love.
Look at the middle-aged couples around you, how many of them are gradually losing their attention and enthusiasm for each other in the trivialities day after day. They eat and sleep together, and they are silent, but they rarely really communicate and share their inner feelings with each other.
Thinking of the neighbors Brother Wang and Sister-in-law Wang, they used to be an enviable couple. But now, he has become the most familiar stranger. Every day when I come home, I hold my mobile phone and do my own thing, and there is very little interaction. It's not that they don't have feelings, but they are replaced by a new way under the weight of life, and have forgotten how to love.
There are also many celebrity marriage stories in China that make people feel emotional. For example, a well-known actor experienced the twists and turns of his marriage in middle age, and finally chose to separate from his partner. They also had a good time, but under the test of time, they still couldn't make it to the end. This also reflects that the life of middle-aged couples is not all smooth sailing, and many times it takes the joint efforts of both parties to maintain it.
However, this does not negate the breakdown of the relationship between middle-aged couples. In ordinary days, there are still many couples who stick to each other and manage their marriages with their hearts.
They understand that love is not only passion, but also responsibility and companionship. Just like Mr. Yang Jiang and Mr. Qian Zhongshu, they have walked through the wind and rain hand in hand, and still maintain their deep affection for each other in their ordinary lives.
The life of middle-aged couples may not have the romance and impulse of their youth, but they have a kind of stability and tacit understanding that has been precipitated over the years. They have experienced the ups and downs of life together, and they have paid for their families together, and this shared experience is irreplaceable.
Although the days may be a little dull, the tacit understanding and trust between each other are getting deeper and deeper. They may not often say "I love you", but they will not hesitate to lend a helping hand when the other person needs it.
As the old saying goes, "Young couples are old companions." "Middle-aged couples are more likely to find happiness in the ordinary and feel warmth in the trivial. As long as both parties are willing to make efforts, communicate more, understand more, and tolerate more, they will definitely be able to get back the beauty that once was.
Epilogue:
When people reach middle age, there may be some changes in the life of husband and wife, but this does not mean that they live together. Every marriage has its challenges and difficulties, and the key is how we face and manage them.
Let us cherish the people around us, feel each other's love with our hearts, and create our own happy future together in ordinary days.