Unlike the chicken babies, their efforts do not rely on the strong support of willpower, but from the fun gained in the learning process, as well as the satisfaction brought by the performance and the persistence of future goals.
Let children fall in love with thinking and maintain a state of learning with spare time. Within the scope of students' ability, an appropriate amount of expansion is carried out, small goals are achieved, and a certain amount of positive feedback is given to help establish interest in learning.
The state of learning with spare energy: many parents are reluctant to let their children waste a little time, always thinking that they can run a little longer, the advantage will be greater, starting from primary school or even kindergarten, to the children's various courses arranged in the vast dangdang, with the intensity of high school children, to put pressure on the children in primary school, the difficulty of learning in primary school is really nothing, the child's grades will also be excellent, and even ahead of the curriculum learning, but the negative impact of learning interest is much greater.
Children in the continuous learning, will only indigestion, learning is a gradual process, most children do not have the ability to be significantly ahead, too much intensity of lower grade learning, will only overdraft the potential of learning.
The expansion of the real Xueba in the primary school stage is driven by interest, not by the forced indoctrination of parents. In the appropriate amount of development, they continue to improve their thinking ability and experience the corresponding fun.
In the process of children's growth, a certain amount of positive feedback is inevitable, including the embodiment of grades, as well as the teacher's affirmation, but most children often can't do the positive feedback brought by the top grades, and the encouragement and affirmation of parents are particularly important.
Learning and happiness are not opposites, and establishing interest in learning and getting positive feedback in learning can be a kind of happiness in itself.