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The way of life for self-preservation

author:Song of the Brave

The main leaders have changed, and many interpersonal relationships have undergone subtle changes. You can't despise others because of their downfall, and you can't be blindly optimistic because of your own advantages. It is good for you to always be cautious, and you must know how to protect yourself.

Our job is to have an income that is enough to meet family expenses, a platform where we can reflect our own value. Human beings are social beings who need to obtain their needs for survival from the group.

There is no right or wrong in this world, only strength and weakness. Don't think that what is strong now will always be strong, and don't think that what is weak now is always weak. At some point, these will change as the situation changes. Let's not make the wrong choice because of the appearance of the here and now. We don't bully anyone, and we don't get picked up by others, that's it.

No one will always be your backer. Those who once relied on it, with the trust of others, have their eyes turned to heaven. When we lose this support, we will find how weak the fox and the tiger are. As soon as the new leader is in place, the style of painting is reversed, how beautiful it used to be, and how embarrassed it is now. Therefore, you should look at the trust and appreciation of others for yourself and do what you need to do well.

Gather and scatter with fate. Relationships between people, especially co-workers, tend to be short-lived. People who get along well today may be transferred to another place tomorrow, or they may have to leave because of something. Life is like that, no matter how reluctant we are, we can't change it.

Confiding is the stupidest thing in the world. When we can't control our desire to talk, we are controlled by this force. Confiding may seem like a decompression, but it's actually self-destructive. We always have to know that good friends have good friends. Why do some things get so loud as soon as they have some eyebrows? Not everyone is as tight-lipped as we are.

A colleague is a colleague, and a friend is a friend. Even if there is no interest relationship between colleagues, there is a certain competitive relationship. This is especially true when the economic situation is deteriorating, and the competition is particularly fierce. Those who can stay are those who have been through a lot of battles, or have a certain foundation and relationship. At this time, if someone wants to be eliminated, it depends on who makes the mistake first. Friends can easily convert into competitors at some point. Treating a colleague as a friend is actually reserving hidden dangers and troubles for your own failures.

Don't mess with people who are less than us. Those who seem to be very relaxed and very idle often have a certain amount of resources or a certain amount of dependence. To provoke them is to make yourself unhappy. Maybe we will have such a delusion, and there is nothing special about the other person. When you really understand, you will find your own shallowness.

Don't feel like you don't have many friends. It is said that the road is easy to walk when there are more friends, but in fact, if we have a good road, there will naturally be more friends. Many relationships are exchanged, and when we have enough resources and utility, this mutually reinforcing relationship is much more reliable than that of friends.

We are responsible for our lives alone, and it is important to choose how we spend each day. It is a kind of life to waste time, and it is also a life to be diligent and diligent, and to struggle every day. The level of effort we make today determines what kind of life we will live in the future.

These ways of self-protection need to be constantly strengthened and reaffirmed in the current situation, because taking precautions can better cope with different crises and avoid panic.

The way of life for self-preservation
The way of life for self-preservation
The way of life for self-preservation

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