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As night fell, I was dressed in my wedding dress, and my heart was full of anticipation and joy. I had just entered the palace of marriage, and I thought I was about to start a wonderful new life.
However, what I never expected was that on the night of the wedding, my mother-in-law gave me a dismissal, which made me completely feel the indifference and ruthlessness of this new home.
On the wedding night, Lao Zheng and I were immersed in a sweet atmosphere, but my mother-in-law suddenly broke into our new house and said with a serious face: "Tonight, you need to accept our family's family training, which is our family's tradition and a test for the new daughter-in-law." "My husband and I looked at each other, a little overwhelmed.
When I got to the hall, my mother-in-law asked me to kneel down and start reciting the family motto. Those cold and harsh words pierced my heart like a needle.
I felt humiliated and angry that my new home had been so disrespectful to me that I had been treated like this on my wedding night.
When my husband saw that I was wronged, a trace of anger flashed in his eyes. He stood up, pulled me up, and stood in front of me, and said to my mother-in-law, "Mom, you have gone too far, we are here to get married, not to listen to the family motto, please respect my wife." ”
02
The mother-in-law listened to her husband's words, and her face became even more gloomy. She said angrily: "What's the matter? This daughter-in-law of yours wants to turn the sky upside down as soon as she enters the door? Our family has our family rules, and she must abide by them!"
The husband did not flinch and said firmly: "Mom, times are different, what we need is mutual respect and understanding, not this old rule." If you treat us like this again, then we will leave tomorrow. ”
After speaking, my husband turned around and comforted me and said, "Don't be afraid, I'm here." Tomorrow, we will leave here and be angry with this again. ”
Hearing this, I couldn't hold back any longer, and tears welled up in my eyes. I feel incredibly fortunate to have such a brave and determined husband. He stood by my side when I needed it most, holding me up.
Once we were back in the bedroom, we packed our bags and prepared to leave the apathetic home the next day. Although my heart was full of confusion and uneasiness, I knew that as long as my husband was around, we would be able to get through this difficult time.
03
In the days that followed, we rented a small house in the city and started a new life. Although life was a little difficult at first, my husband has always been by my side to support me, making me feel warm and caring.
We worked hard together, planned the future together, and gradually, our lives got better and better.
I still have lingering feelings when I think back to the experience of my wedding day. That dismount made me deeply realize the indifference and ruthlessness of this family, and also made me cherish my current life even more.
I am glad that I have a husband who loves me, who stood by my side when I needed it most, and who gave me strength and courage.
Now, my husband and I have gone through those difficult days, and our lives are getting better and better. We have proved our choice right with our own efforts and struggles.
Some time ago, my mother-in-law called us to go back to our hometown to see, and said that she would not ask us with old eyes in the future, which is not in vain.
Finally, I would like to say to all my unmarried friends: when choosing a partner, you must carefully consider and understand the other person's family background and family relationships. Don't make bad decisions because of impulsiveness and emotion.
Marriage is not simply two people who can come together by loving each other, but requires the support and understanding of both families. If there are conflicts and conflicts between families, then the marriage will also be greatly affected.
Therefore, when choosing a partner, we should not only consider the other person themselves, but also understand the other person's family background and family relationships.
04
Message from the setting moon:
Although the arrogant and domineering mother-in-law will make her daughter-in-law obey her in a short time, in the long run, the daughter-in-law will definitely be dissatisfied with her mother-in-law.
This will lead to two outcomes: one is that the daughter-in-law will choose to divorce, and the other is that the temperamental daughter-in-law will rebel against the mother-in-law.
Either way, it's bad for the family.
Therefore, the mother-in-law should not treat her daughter-in-law too much.