I used to think that my marriage with her would withstand any storm, but I never imagined that she would deviate from our vows because of the impulse and desire of the moment.
Now, I would like to use my personal experience to warn all men and women in marriage: if a woman betrays her marriage, she often ends up with only four words - regret for not being at the beginning.
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My ex-wife and I used to be a loving couple, and we went through many ups and downs in life together. We struggle together, grow together, and plan a better future together.
However, as our careers gradually got on the right track and the pressure of life gradually increased, my ex-wife began to become anxious and restless. She complained that I didn't have enough time with her, that our lives were too dull and there was no passion.
At first, I also tried to make up for her dissatisfaction with more companionship and care, but slowly, I realized that all this seemed to have nothing to do with me, but that her mentality had changed radically.
During that time, she began to go out frequently and socialize with people I was not familiar with. Whenever I asked about her whereabouts, she always prevaricated me for various reasons and even started lying to me.
It wasn't until one day that I accidentally found an intimate photo of her and another man on my phone, and I realized that she had already betrayed our marriage.
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I was angry, sad, and even wanted to take revenge on her, but in the end I chose to sit down with her and have a good talk.
Under my questioning, my ex-wife finally admitted her mistake. She told me that the man had brought her a sense of freshness and made her feel like her life was re-energized.
She said that since I had found out about it, she was willing to leave the house and divorce me.
To be honest, at that time, I really didn't expect my ex-wife to even divorce me for his sake and abandon our relationship for many years.
After listening to her words, I told her that marriage is not child's play, and it is not something that can be abandoned casually. If she really thinks that man is better than me, then I will fulfill her, but I hope she will not regret it later.
My ex-wife eventually divorced me, and the day after the divorce, she couldn't wait to throw herself into the man's arms.
However, it didn't last long, and after only a few months, she came back to me crying and told me that the man had betrayed her and abandoned her. She regretted it and hoped I could forgive her and give her a new chance.
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Looking at her haggard appearance, there was no trace of turmoil in my heart. I know that she has tasted the bitter fruit of betrayal of her marriage, but who can blame her?
I told her that I had given her a chance, but she didn't cherish it. Now, she has to bear all the consequences herself.
In this way, there will be no more relationship between me and my ex-wife, and this past has also made me realize more that marriage is not only a union of two people, but also a responsibility and commitment. And betraying a marriage is undoubtedly a betrayal of this responsibility and commitment, and will only end up plunging oneself into endless pain and remorse.
So, I want to say to all men and women in marriage: cherish your marriage, cherish your partner. Do not betray your oath because of the impulses and desires of the moment.
I also hope that my ex-wife can learn from this lesson and find her own direction again. Although we can't go back to the past, I hope that she can find true happiness and never repeat the mistakes of the past.
As for me, I will continue to move forward and find my own happiness. I believe that time will heal all wounds, and I will meet someone who truly knows how to cherish me and is willing to spend my life with me one day in the future.
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Message from the setting moon:
In fact, happiness is very simple, it is on the first day of our ordinary life, happiness is to get up on the weekend, a family of three sitting at the dining table for breakfast, and playing around the sofa with their lovers and children at night, so that a harmonious and simple daily life is the happiness we look forward to.
And the greatest wealth of marriage is not how much money you have in your hands, but when you are old, your wife has always been by your side, holding your hand together on the seashore of the sunset, quietly holding hands and watching the sunset.
So, as long as we can all be faithful to our marriage, then your marriage must be happy.