01
I used to be the woman who was "not a good daughter-in-law" in the eyes of my mother-in-law, and I suffered endless cold eyes and troubles. At that time, my mother-in-law always looked at me with her sharp gaze, as if I was the worst enemy in her life.
However, now that feng shui is turning, the mother-in-law who used to dictate to me has been treated obediently by the new daughter-in-law.
I remember when I first married into this family, I was full of anticipation, hoping to integrate into this new family and live in harmony with my mother-in-law.
However, my mother-in-law didn't seem to be satisfied with me as a daughter-in-law, and she always picked and chose from me, from housework to dealing with people, everything that didn't make me feel stressed.
She often complained about my inadequacy in front of her family and friends, and even tried to break up my marriage with my husband.
In the face of my mother-in-law's difficulties, I chose to be tolerant and tolerant. I thought that if I tried hard enough, I would be able to touch her heart one day.
But I was wrong. My forbearance did not win my mother-in-law's understanding, but made her bully me even more unscrupulous. Finally, after countless quarrels and cold wars, my marriage with my husband also came to an end.
02
After the divorce, I didn't have a good time. Every time in the dead of night, I think of those days when I was harassed by my mother-in-law, and my heart is full of endless pain.
A year later, I learned that my ex-husband had remarried, and driven by curiosity, I quietly inquired about my new daughter-in-law. I heard that she is a woman with a strong personality and will never be angry with others.
To be honest, when I heard about my mother-in-law's new daughter-in-law, I secretly rejoiced in my heart, maybe this new daughter-in-law can teach my mother-in-law a lesson and let her understand that not all daughters-in-law are easy to bully.
Soon after, I heard from a friend about my mother-in-law's experience.
Sure enough, her mother-in-law's new daughter-in-law is not a bully, and as soon as she entered the door, she set a rule to let her mother-in-law not care so much.
The mother-in-law tried to use the same tactics against her new daughter-in-law, but was met with a strong counterattack. The new daughter-in-law not only spoke sharply, but also acted decisively, leaving the mother-in-law powerless to fight back.
03
I heard that once, my mother-in-law was picky about her new daughter-in-law because of some trivial things, but the new daughter-in-law directly replied to her:
"Mom, I know that you have always had a good position in this family, but please don't interfere in my married life with your son in the future. We have our own way of getting along with each other, and we have our own privacy. If you're always interfering with us, then I think it's better for us to live separately. ”
The mother-in-law obviously didn't expect the new daughter-in-law to be so direct and tough, and she was stunned for a while. The new daughter-in-law continued: "I'm not targeting you, I just want you to respect our marriage. If you really have any complaints or suggestions, you can communicate with us well, instead of talking behind your back. ”
These words made the mother-in-law feel unprecedented pressure. She realized that this new daughter-in-law was not a bully, and if she treated her daughter-in-law like before, I was afraid that it would really make the family uneasy.
Now, the mother-in-law no longer dares to look for a new daughter-in-law.
Although the mother-in-law is still a little unwilling in her heart, she can only choose to compromise in the face of the new daughter-in-law's strength, because she is afraid that if she angers the new daughter-in-law, the new daughter-in-law will let her move out of this house.
It wasn't the ending she wanted.
04
When I heard the news, I felt a little relieved that my mother-in-law had finally tasted the taste of being bullied by others, and this time she would definitely remember how she had bullied me before, and perhaps she would regret breaking up my marriage to her son in the first place.
However, life always has to look forward. Although I had been hurt in that family, I also learned to be strong and independent because of it.
Looking back, I would like to thank the mother-in-law who once wronged me. It was her difficulty and pickiness that made me more aware of my worth and dignity, and also allowed me to meet a family that was really good to me.
Now, my future husband and in-laws who are about to get married, they all love me very much, saying that after marriage, I will be their daughter, and after I get married, I will never let me suffer any grievances.
So, thanks to the unbearable days in the past, in the future, I will definitely live happier than in the past.
Message from the setting moon:
Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inevitable in married life, and if they are not handled well, it will be a big blow to a family. Some mothers-in-law always look down on their daughter-in-law after their son gets married, feel that their daughter-in-law is not worthy of their son, or feel that their daughter-in-law has snatched away their son.
Therefore, some mothers-in-law try their best to break up their son's family, but whether it is successful or not, the final outcome will definitely be a bad ending.
In the end, he often harmed his son and himself.