How long did you get married before you got pregnant?

I never thought it would be so difficult for my sister to have a child. Every time I think of the grievances she has suffered for so many years of trying to conceive, the psychological and physical suffering, all the difficulties add up, and I can't help but choke.

The road to pregnancy is too hard.

My sister graduated from a prestigious university with a master's degree, and worked in a local foreign company, with outstanding ability and no shortage of suitors. My brother-in-law is a customer of my sister's business, and I have become acquainted with each other since I came and went. Although my brother-in-law has a bachelor's degree, he has rich work experience and a good vision. Later, my brother-in-law pursued my sister with all his strength, both of which were local, and the two families were not far away, so they could be regarded as a good match. Both parents were more recognized, and it didn't take long for them to get married.

After getting married, my sister thought that she had only graduated for two years, and when she officially showed her talents, she was not in a hurry to have a child first, and it was not too late to discuss with her brother-in-law that she would work for another stage and then have a child. So I pushed back the plan to have a child.

My sister has outstanding ability, and after 1 year, she was promoted to the deputy section chief of the department, and her work is getting busier and busier, and the plan to have a child can only be postponed again and again.

I originally planned to have a child in the third year after marriage, but the unit issued a dispatch to send my sister to the Guangdong branch for a year, and when she came back, she was promoted to the head of the department, which was almost a very exceptional promotion at that time. My sister didn't know about the unit's arrangement before that, and waited until she knew about this notice. If you want to refuse at that time, it may stop the future of this unit.

And we don't have a few units in the local area, and if we change units, we will hardly have the current development and salary benefits.

Therefore, even though the in-laws had a lot of complaints at that time, my sister decided to go to work in Guangdong after thinking twice, and repeatedly promised that she would have children naturally. But my sister also knows very well in her heart that in charge of a branch outside, big and small things have to be run-in, and a year is far from enough, and it is impossible to have the energy to get pregnant and give birth.

But with expectations for the future, thinking that this is also to create better material conditions for the future baby, I went to Guangdong without hesitation.

The days in Guangdong are as busy as my sister expected.

I will come back for a reunion during the National Day and the New Year, and my brother-in-law can only go to see my sister every year when I am on annual leave, and I have to make an appointment with my sister in advance, because there has been a thing where my brother-in-law has pounced in the past, and my sister is based in Guangdong, but she still has to travel all over the country.

Soon, a year has passed, my sister has not been transferred back as she wished, and the relationship between my sister and brother-in-law is also a little contradictory because of this, but my brother-in-law is also in the same industry, and it is not easy to know my sister, and my parents at home are all kinds of comforts, plus my sister does earn a lot more than my brother-in-law, so the backyard is not on fire.

After another year, my sister was finally transferred back.

I thought that the contradiction was gone.

I didn't expect this to be the source of my sister's pain. At this time, it has been 4 years after marriage, and it is time to have children, and my sister is also 31 years old.

The neighbors are about the same age, and the children are almost in kindergarten. At this time, my sister also wanted to have children, and I also thought that I couldn't have children for the rest of my life to work, and it was unrealistic.

It just so happens that the job has been stabilized, and the cost of raising children is also affordable.

However, a year has passed, and my sister has no signs of pregnancy, and her in-laws can't bear it, so they ask about the situation after three days of knocking on the side. My sister herself is also very annoying, and the pressure is getting bigger and bigger.

Finally didn't stand it, and took my brother-in-law to the hospital for a full body examination, and the mentality was still relatively optimistic at that time, thinking that now that technology is so developed, what is the cure. Moreover, my sister has always been clean and self-conscious, and she has no bad history such as miscarriage.

However, sometimes life always has to give you some color.

The result of the examination is that my sister's bilateral fallopian tubes are blocked, why did it cause this, I didn't study it in depth, and I didn't understand it very well, when I learned the news, I saw that my sister was very sad, and I could see the traces of crying, think about my sister is such a strong person.

At first, it was hidden from his mother-in-law, and the young couple embarked on the road of slowly seeking medical treatment. I have slowly heard the terms salpingogram and water access, and just by listening to my sister's number of visits to the hospital, I feel that it is not easy.

It's not that my brother-in-law is inconsiderate, and this doesn't mean that it's okay to accompany you for a day or two, and I usually accompany him as much as possible. And my sister's pressure at home and my brother-in-law blocked it by himself, and there was no situation where other mothers-in-law spread out to urge her, and my sister was also lucky for this.

As soon as I got close to my sister after eating Chinese medicine, I asked about the taste of Chinese medicine, and after several years of Chinese medicine, my sister's complexion was getting worse and worse.

In the middle, I also experienced various home remedies, what coarse salt was applied to the stomach, but I couldn't grasp the heat well, and my stomach was burned.

Jumping rope, jumping dizzy, limbs weak.

The list of physiotherapy is endless.

There is also moxibustion, just like a female star said not long ago, "All the methods you can think of, have been tried"

What reminds me of the guinea pig in the lab, my sister trying over and over again, disappointed again and again.

I can't imagine how my sister felt every time she faced failure.

In the 7th year, my sister gave up.

chose a test tube, so I embarked on a blood draw over and over again, downgraded, and went to the hospital again and again during the period.

After years of tossing, my sister has lost hope, and her body is about to collapse.

Later, it was a booster injection, which is said to be several injections a day, which is also due to my sister's poor health. Report to the doctor twice a week.

I heard that I should eat more high-protein foods during the stimulation period, and my sister forced herself to eat crucian carp soup that she usually doesn't touch.

Every time my mother talked about this, she couldn't help wiping her tears and muttering, "Girl, it's so bitter, why do you have to suffer this, let's not give birth, okay?"

The first time I retrieved 10 eggs, my sister was so weak that she could blow down like a gust of wind, and my brother-in-law was also very distressed, but he couldn't say anything. It's not realistic, and the old people in the family are already very complaining.

My sister said, "My stomach looks like someone has pulled it and it's not my own", and my stomach hurts and swells.

After my sister took it, the urine was so painful that it was difficult to urinate, so I went to the toilet more than 10 times, and drove the water dragon car for a long time to pee out. It was more painful than I got out of bed the day after I gave birth to a C-section. That time, my sister's stomach pain was relieved for 5 days in a row.

The next step is to observe embryo cultivation, there are failures and successes.

The success of the test tube can only be said to be the lucky one, but unfortunately, my sister failed. Over and over.

My sister is a powerful female leader in the unit, and she is full of spirit. Later, because of pregnancy, her health was extremely bad, so my sister covered it up with makeup, even if it was the first time she was so painful that she couldn't stand up, she still insisted on taking a taxi to the hospital. My sister sees it in her eyes and hurts in her heart.