Love this thing, need to wait, it is not a step earlier, there is no step later, it is just a process of good encounter, just like the fate of fate, can not escape.
A young Zen monk said, "All things in the world are in the great web woven by fate." Fate has not yet arrived, although it has gone through a thousand disasters, but it cannot meet; fate has arrived, and on the grassland, you can wait for a ship. ”
The real fate is like this, a ship on the grassland is very slim, but when the fate comes, it can't be stopped, you feel that it is impossible to meet, it is impossible to fall in love, but this is how you met, fell in love, and can no longer be separated.
Many people will be too anxious before the fate comes, feeling that they must not meet the destined person, and even choose to settle, and in the end, they should insist on waiting for the destined person, only that person is their fate, is their own happiness.
Therefore, don't be too anxious, the fate of fate, sooner or later will come, will not be absent.
Some fates need to wait
Last year, her friend Lin Lin finally got married, as an older leftover woman, she really felt that it was not easy, but she was glad that she chose to insist, and only waited until her current fate.
Lin Lin is 35 years old this year, before, she was also very active in love, going to friends parties, going to various blind date bureaus, only hoping for one more chance, but the results were quite disappointing.
There are a few she likes, but others can't look at her, as soon as she hears about her age and family situation, she even shakes her head, and then she doesn't leave her contact information, and she walks away without looking back.
There are also some who are interested in her, and she feels that the other party is not interesting enough, and the two people always can't talk together, what can be done after this?
Sometimes, she also wonders if she is too picky? But in the end, she still chose not to settle down, even if her age is getting older and older, even if she will not be able to wait for that person in the end, she does not want to find someone to marry.
Fortunately, her reluctance to wait for her fate, when that person appeared, she only had one thought in her mind, "It's him", and the other party had the same thought in her heart, the two people only had a feeling of seeing each other and hating late, but they felt that it was just right now, at least they met.
Lin Lin was really grateful, grateful that heaven did not let her miss her fate, grateful that she did not have a choice, grateful for the right person, although he was late, but not absent.
Not everyone, who was lucky enough to find that person in the beginning, had some fate and needed to wait.
Don't rush, it's yours and yours
There is a saying: "Not yours, don't force it, it's yours, you can't run away", which fully shows that the fate of this matter is predestined.
Some people will be very persistent when the fate has not arrived, she will feel that she can no longer wait, she will force those who do not belong to the love, and finally make herself scaly;
Some people choose to wait when the fate has not arrived, she believes that it should be yours, it is useless to be anxious, and finally wait for their own love.
Lin Xinru was nearly 40 years old, waiting for her Prince Charming- Huo Jianhua, to complete her fate, so many years before, she was also anxious, and also thought about who that person really is in the future, and fate this thing, is to surprise you inadvertently, just like Huo Jianhua to Lin Xinru, just like she waited for so many years.
The two have known each other for ten years, but they have never been in love, let alone married, but they did not expect to go around, the two people still came together, formed a family, and lived a happy and happy life.
I have to say that some fates that no one can think of, it is likely that yesterday was still a stranger, and today for some reason has become a very important person around, which is a bit like the sentence "Five hundred times of looking back in the past life, in exchange for the passing of this life", and the fate is generated in that rubbing shoulder again and again.
Sometimes, fate will come later, but you have to believe that it will come sooner or later, as long as you wait patiently, you will wait for your love, what should be yours is yours, and what is not yours is not demanding.
I have to say that the fate of this thing is really predestined, everything is the best arrangement, so don't be too anxious.
The world says that big is not big, and small is not small, but why is it that you are the one who meets you, and it is you who loves each other? What is it that is not unclear to say this, is it not fate?
The wonderful thing about love lies in this, when it comes, you can't stop it, it belongs only to you, but when it doesn't arrive, you are anxious and useless, and demanding is only self-disorder.
Chen Kun wrote in the book "Suddenly Coming to Tibet": "Life is one encounter after another, all are fate, there is no good or bad, there is no right or wrong. Fate comes, treat each other well; fate is exhausted, and it will be separated. ”
Fate allows us to meet, fate makes us love each other, there is no right and wrong, when fate has not arrived, wait patiently, when fate comes, cherish it, so enough.
Finally, let us wait for a fate, as if expecting spring to come, flowers will bloom, I believe we will eventually meet!