Today, I saw a girl complaining: She just commented on a certain Douyin that she only ate one bun and soy milk for breakfast, and was scolded by two unknown passers-by.
➤ The reason why passers-by scolded the poster was: it is impossible for someone to eat so little for breakfast, and the poster must be pretending, in order to show off his small appetite.
I don't know when some people on the Internet preached such a concept: If you have a small appetite, you will eat less > you will be thin if you eat less, and if you are thin, you will be thin, and > thin is equal to self-discipline, so those who twist and turn will hook up their small appetite and self-discipline.
↓There will really be people who go to great lengths to support their small appetite↓
➤ The kind of person who brags about his small meal and takes pride in it is indeed offensive. Because it is not normal to be thin for beauty, and it is not worth advocating to do things that harm your body for the sake of thinness (such as dieting to reduce your appetite).
Not to mention that the poster may be born with a small appetite, just say that in the case of not understanding others, when I hear others say that they only eat a bun and a cup of soy milk for breakfast, they say that they are pretending to be and scolding ugly, which is somewhat overreacting, and very unqualified.
▽ The key is a cup of soy milk and a bun for breakfast, which is not too little, many people are like this, I sometimes eat an egg for breakfast. I feel that those two scolding people have no common sense of life, just for the sake of scolding.
➤ Many people who write headline articles and read headline articles may have met people who like to scare people. Sometimes these people don't even read the whole article, and before they understand what the article wants to express, they begin to spray the author for deliberately creating contradictions to guide public opinion. Many headline creators only have dozens, hundreds, and thousands of fans, and they really can't stand such a big hat as a guide!
(I originally wanted to post a screenshot, but I thought about it or forgot it)
➤ I haven't met a few people like this in reality, but I often meet them on the Internet. Maybe this is the two-sided impact of online non-real-name realization!
▽Let's talk about the benefits first! Those who love people (the kind that is brainless) may be more depressed in life, dare not say a lot of things, or usually a small transparency that no one pays attention to, the Internet gives them a channel to vent, and also gives them the opportunity to highlight themselves. They are scolding people on the Internet, at least it is good for personal physical and mental health, and at a big point it is good for overall stability.
If everyone vents their negative emotions by "attacking" others on the Internet, once a trend is formed, the anger on the Internet will become more and more serious. It will be all of us who will be hurt when the time comes.
➤ Overall, I don't think it's wrong to scare people. After all, in this society, there are really many people and many things that people can't bear, and it is normal to scare people at this time, and it seems abnormal not to scare people. For example, many people have scolded their colleagues and bosses who have no sense of boundaries at work, and they have also scolded each other with some strange people on the Internet, right?
But if the other party does not provoke you and has no contradictions with you, they still indiscriminately scare people or even escalate to personal attacks, it may really be a bit psychologically unhealthy!
When encountering this kind of situation, my experience is to ignore them and never have internal friction. He felt that he was bored, so he naturally shut up.