The age problem has always been a big problem in people's love and marriage, and it has always attracted people's attention, especially the kind where the age gap is too large, and people are more curious.
The combination of old husband and young wife can arouse people's gossip the most, such as Su Shi's ridicule of his friend Zhang Xian's concubine and wrote "Drama for Zhang Xian":
"Eighteen brides and eighty langs, with pale hair and red makeup. The mandarin ducks are made into a double night, and a pear flower presses the begonia. ”
The huge age gap between the old and the young has aroused people's criticism and opposition, but if two people really love each other, then the age gap may not be an obstacle, but I am afraid that such feelings will be mixed with other things, it will easily cause people's criticism and discussion.
At a wedding scene in Gansu, the 52-year-old groom married the 28-year-old bride, which caused a great sensation, and many people were even more embarrassed after learning that the groom gave a bride price of 400,000 yuan.
A 52-year-old man married a 28-year-old bride, and the bride's face was green and heartwarming
In some TV dramas, we can often see the bride wearing a red hijab when she gets married, and this traditional custom is still preserved in some places today.
On the day of the wedding, I saw the groom wearing a suit with a red satin tie on his shoulder, and he looked energetic and festive with a smile on his face.
The bride, on the other hand, sat quietly on the edge of the bed, her eyes closed, waiting for the groom to put a red hijab on her. Although she was wearing a white wedding dress inside, the temperature was still a little chilly due to the light rain that day, so she wore a black leather coat as a layer.
The height was not enough to set up a platform to make up, in order to facilitate the bride to put on a red hijab, the groom deliberately climbed onto the bed, only to see that his skin was dark, and the traces left by the years on his face became more and more obvious with his smile. The bride has fair skin, a youthful and sweet appearance, and delicate facial features, she looks exceptionally pure and delicate. The two people, who are already 24 years apart, look less like husband and wife than father and daughter because of the huge difference in appearance.
With the advantage of height, the groom not only found a sense of superiority, but also looked at the bride up close, seeing her shy, the groom smiled so much that his mouth couldn't close, and in the face of the groom's enthusiasm and initiative, the bride was obviously a little shy, and quickly buried her head deeply.
The bride looked at the bride with a doting expression, but the bride wanted to keep her distance
After putting on the red hijab, it means that the bride is ready to get married, and the bride's younger brother has been accompanying him before the wedding, although he has not spoken too much, but he has been holding his sister's arm tightly and expressing his reluctance in his own way.
Accompanied by her younger brother, the bride was ready to sit up from the bed after taking a deep breath, and saw that the bride's wedding dress was relatively large and not very convenient to move, so the groom hurriedly shot out and wanted to help her, but before he touched the bride's hand, she immediately grabbed the wedding dress herself and avoided it.
Seeing that the bride was not very willing to have close contact with her, the groom did not insist anymore, but decisively grabbed the other side of her wedding dress and led her out.
There was a light rain outside, and the ground immediately became a little slippery, and the groom's younger brother was very intimate to help her hold up an umbrella, and at this time the groom's opportunity also came, and he almost pulled the bride's whole person to his side, giving her a sense of security.
Judging from the environment of the bride's mother's house, although the yard is clean and tidy, but it is very simple, especially the daughter's marriage This kind of major event does not see the figure of the parents at all, according to the bride's family, the girl has been dependent on her younger brother since she was a child, in order to raise her younger brother She married so late, although the groom is older, but gave 400,000 dowry, so the girl did not hesitate to agree to this marriage.
"The second half of my life is only crying. ”
"Find such an old person, whatever you want him, this man can be her father. ”
"A man is rich and a woman is good-looking, and he gave birth to a noble son early. ”
"I've got a crush on his money. ”
For this marriage, most of them are not optimistic, after all, the age difference between men and women is too big, and the bride price of 400,000 is indeed not a small amount, so many people say that the motive for the girl to marry is for profit.
Sentiment Analysis:
In modern society, the phenomenon of "old husbands and young wives" seems to be becoming more and more common. There are many young women who tend to choose older men as partners, some of them are more attached to older men due to the influence of their childhood, and they want to make up for the lack of childhood, some feel that older men are more mature and attractive, and their experience and conversation can make them feel more secure, and some simply feel that older men are more financially powerful, and they can work with such men for many years less.
Whatever the reason, if the age difference between men and women is about 10 years, it is easier to accept, after all, modern people are properly maintained, and there is basically no difference between the age difference of about 10 years old. But once the age difference is more than 10 years old, it will make the public feel a little unsuitable.
For a girl, perhaps because of the lack of parental love in childhood, she also longs to be cared for and cared for as the head of the family at an early age, so she is more accepting of older men. On the other hand, the 400,000 bride price is not only decent and important for her, but also can directly help her brother solve a lot of worries, so this marriage is like a charcoal in the snow for her.
Every relationship has a lot of helplessness, in the face of reality, we will indeed consider comprehensively, this relationship may seem to outsiders to be a benefit transaction, but for girls may be the best choice at the moment.
Judging from the groom's doting on the girl, maybe they will suffer a lot of controversy in the future, but the girl can also get a lot of love, and I hope they can get over it as well.
Today's Topic Discussion: What do you think of this marriage?
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