In the past, when the bride left her mother's house, the mother's would pour a basin of water at the gate. It means that the girl who marries out, the water that spills out, will have little to do with her mother's family in the future.
This is a bad habit, for girls, marriage does not mean complete separation, because marriage is not only the union of two individuals, but also the marriage and trade-off of two families, and a good mother is the strongest backing of the woman in the marriage.
Although girls with younger brothers are often labeled as "helping younger brothers" and are at the bottom of the blind date chain, not every family needs a sister to help a younger brother, for a family with harmonious affection, the younger brother will not only not become a burden to the sister, but also can become her strongest backing.
At a wedding scene in Henan, the performance of a pair of sisters and brothers was deeply moved, and many people said that the most touching thing about the wedding was not only love, but also family affection.
The elder sister married the younger brother with a reluctant face, hugging her with tears in her eyes
Marriage is a festive thing for many people, especially the man's family, because the family has to increase the population, which means a great joy of prosperity and prosperity, but for the woman, it means to face separation, so even if it is a happy event, it will inevitably make people sad, so there is a crying marriage from ancient times to the present.
We often say that "nine out of ten sisters will beat their younger brothers", in the eyes of younger brothers, sisters are generally more violent, maybe she can't unscrew the outer bottle cap, but she is absolutely unrelenting when she beats herself at home. Because of this, many sisters think that the happiest person on the day of their wedding should be their younger brother, but the younger brother's performance at the wedding scene was completely unexpected by the sister.
On the day of the wedding, the house was very lively, the bride looked high-end and elegant in a beautifully made phoenix robe, and the man's convoy came to greet the family in a long line at the door of the girl's house, which looked very dignified.
Seeing that the groom was already standing in front of the wedding car and waiting, the girl planned to go directly to her mother-in-law's house, but at this time the younger brother suddenly rushed out and hugged her, maybe the younger brother's appearance was too sudden, or it could be that he was a little strong, so scared that the bride leaned back, if it wasn't for the younger brother's quick hand to catch her, it is estimated that the whole person would have to fall.
I saw my younger brother wearing a denim jacket and combing a big back hair, looking ruffian, but very affectionate. Thinking that his sister was about to become someone else's wife, his eyes blurred with tears in an instant, and he patted his sister's shoulder to signal that he would protect her at all times and would not let anyone bully her.
The younger brother pointed to his brother-in-law to give him a beating, and netizens accused him of being ignorant
After saying goodbye to my sister, I thought it would be over, but the guy still didn't seem to be at ease, turned around and rushed to his brother-in-law violently, and then pointed at him with his finger and said, "Be kind to my sister in the future, otherwise beware of me cutting you." ”
Facing the dismount of the brother-in-law, the brother-in-law was obviously confused, and the arm holding the doorknob froze. Although the brother-in-law's momentum was very strong and he didn't look very polite, but considering that he couldn't rest assured of his sister, the groom accepted it very calmly, not only not angry but also very cooperative and nodded.
After pointing his finger at his brother-in-law and finishing the cruel words, the young man was still not at ease, and immediately crossed his hands on his waist and continued to explain to his brother-in-law: "If I let me know that my sister has been wronged at all, I will not let you feel better." ”
Although he knew that his brother-in-law had no malicious intentions, seeing his menacing appearance, although his brother-in-law understood, he still couldn't digest it for a while, so his whole face was not very good-looking. However, his brother-in-law was not angry, in order not to delay the auspicious time, he quickly nodded and promised his brother-in-law that he would behave well.
Since his brother-in-law has spoken, it is not good for the guy to teach him all the time, and after saying these cruel words, he immediately turned around and walked to the side, giving the space to his sister so that she could get in the car.
In the last second, the guy was still angry and looked domineering, but the next second he couldn't hold back at all, and he was about to cry when he leaned against the wall and watched his sister get into the car.
"It's good to have such a brother, but you can't point your finger at your brother-in-law, your sister still has to live with him. ”
It can only show that the groom is in a big pattern, and he is still nodding there, such a younger brother is too impolite. ”
"Although my brother loves you, I can't accept the finger, my brother-in-law is the one my sister chooses, and it's their business what the days are, not from my brother's threat to not bully my sister. ”
After seeing the young man's performance, although many people said that the bride was really happy to have a younger brother who protected her like this, there were still many people who felt that the younger brother's behavior and practices were a bit inconsiderate, not only impolite but also ignorant.
Sentiment Analysis:
I think so. Although it is a kind of happiness to have the support of the mother's family, but the protagonists of marriage are the groom and the bride after all, and the relationship between husband and wife in marriage is the anchor of the sea at any time, whether it is the mother-in-law or the mother's family, it is better not to be overly involved.
I have seen many cases around me, once a woman is wronged, she goes back to her parents' house to cry, and then her mother's family directly comes to the door to beat her son-in-law, which seems to give women a backer, but not only does it not solve the problem but also intensifies the contradiction.
However, the guy may also be emotional, so he pointed his finger at his brother-in-law without thinking about it, just point out such a problem to him in private, and there is no need to go online, after all, most families are still more reasonable, and they will not really hurt people indiscriminately.
Today's topic discussion: What do you think of the guy's approach?
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