A few days ago, a mother complained online that the carousel in the playground was too expensive.
It only takes a few minutes to play once, but it costs 25 bucks.
So even if his son wanted to play very much, he was not allowed, so he could only stand by and watch.
Unexpectedly, the short 15-second video was criticized by the whole network.
Netizens also agreed that poverty is the most failed education for a child.
After all, is 25 yuan really expensive? Will you go bankrupt if you spend it, or will you not have enough to eat?
I have to say that the Internet is too developed, and you will get some unbelievable things anytime and anywhere.
In order to make their children's lives better, some parents sew and mend their own clothes, but buy the most beautiful new clothes for their children. Even if you eat two less, you will do everything possible to fulfill the wishes of your children.
Because they feel that no matter how bitter they are, they can't be bitter to their children, and they have to work hard to make their children have no regrets about the life they didn't enjoy when they were young.
Unexpectedly, the mother who was complained about by everyone this time deprived the child of the happiness of childhood just because of 25 yuan.
In the original video that was complained about, a 98-year-old mother took her child past the roadside amusement facilities during a night walk. In the face of the colorful lights and the laughter of the children playing, his son was quickly attracted to it.
If this kind of thing were put on other children, they would have already made a fuss and wanted to play.
But this mother's child is obviously only three or four years old, but she just stands obediently outside the guardrail, as if waiting for the adults to see his mind and take the initiative to invite him to play.
But it's a pity that this mother knew that the child wanted to play, but she just took a picture of the child's lonely back and shared it on the Internet, and at the same time didn't forget to laugh at herself as "the most slamming mother".
In the eyes of this mother, the 25 yuan amusement ride will end in a few minutes, which is really not worth the price. If the child wants a toy for 25 yuan, then he will definitely agree to buy it without saying a word.
And very self-righteous to say that he will never let him play when he takes his child out.
may seem to this mother, her exercise is to teach her children to be diligent and thrifty at home, but she didn't expect to step on the minefield of netizens.
In an instant, "don't have children if you can't afford it", "don't save money if you don't have children", and "not everyone is suitable for having children" occupied the entire comment area, and there were even thousands of likes for these comments.
Because in the hearts of the new generation of parents, raising children is no longer like the older generation, just give food and can't freeze.
Rather, I feel that if I am not ready to be a qualified parent and do not have sufficient funds to give my children a better life, not having children is the best choice.
After all, children exist on the will of their parents, and if they are born to suffer, then why make decisions for them?
And the mother who posted this video was born in 98 and is only 26 years old, so that netizens feel like they are from their parents' generation.
In addition to the issue of money, today's parents and young people will be more concerned about their children's mental health.
Because now it seems that there is the 25 yuan left, and the child does not cry or make trouble, but he lacks a chance to experience it. But this small decision will leave an eternal shadow in the child's heart, and it is also the lack of childhood memories.
It may be that after many years, the child will make money and even become a rich man, but he will no longer be able to spend 25 yuan to buy the happiness of childhood.
And is that 25 dollars really a huge amount of money?
Nowadays, many amusement parks will have card discount activities in order to retain customers, not to mention that she has two children at home, so a card can make two children happy at the same time, why not?
repeatedly makes decisions for children based on the psychology of adults, and the children educated in this way seem to be obedient, but in fact, they are the result of being suppressed.
Once it breaks out one day, what was forbidden back then will become a lifelong obsession.
And for what Bao Ma said: 25 minutes of merry-go-round is not worth it, if it is a 25 yuan toy, I am willing to buy it.
Netizens have always maintained a skeptical attitude, because since it is not worth spending for the 25 yuan to comfort themselves this time, the next time the child asks to buy a toy, he will definitely say that 25 yuan is enough for the family to have a good lunch.
Parents will always have their own excuses and will always think that the things that the little ones like are not worth it.
And 25 yuan is just a cup of milk tea for himself and a pack of cigarettes for the child's father.
In fact, for children, going to the playground to play and toys are their own happiness, but parents have made a division for them without authorization. For children, happiness has no value, in fact, it depends on whether the child is willing to give it to them.
Under the accusations and persuasion of tens of millions of netizens, he finally took the child to sit on the carousel he was thinking about a few days after the incident, and shared it with netizens.
But when everyone saw his copywriting, they couldn't help frowning again.
It turns out that in his heart, there is no need for children to play with this. If that's the case, is it true that these things exist for adults?
After taking the child to experience it, the mother took the initiative to ask the child if he was having fun, and the result was of course positive.
But when asked if the child would like to play again, the child refused.
He described the child because he felt that his father was making hard money, and at the same time, he did not forget to sigh that the child was sensible and sorry for the child.
In just 16 seconds of video and this sentence, we feel the shortcomings of traditional Chinese education - "guilt education".
"Working hard to make money is just to make a better life for you. ”
"I don't want to eat these good things myself, I give them all to you, so cherish them. ”
"If it weren't for the children, I would have been divorced a long time ago!"
It seems that everything is for the sake of the child, but in fact, it wants to cause a sense of guilt to the child and carry out "moral kidnapping" on the child.
But whenever the children make a retort, feeling that their parents did all this not at their own behest, they will definitely hear the classic sayings "something without conscience", "white-eyed wolf", and "wings are hard, right?"
In fact, everyone understands that parents have good intentions, but they choose the most wrong way, so that the children are unable and unwilling to accept the love they impose.
Because these are too heavy and burdensome for children.
It is precisely because children have this experience when they are young that young people nowadays are very afraid of getting married.
On the one hand, I am afraid that I will not be able to become a better parent, and on the other hand, I am afraid that I will become the person I hated when I was a child.
So everyone will feel that instead of being entangled like this, it is better not to give birth. If you let yourself go, why not let go of the children?
But in the eyes of parents, it has once again become a symbol of unfilial piety, and it is also irresponsible for oneself, after all, "raising children to prevent old age"......
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