Since the reform and opening up, transnational marriage has gradually emerged in Chinese society, and the combination of Chinese men and Vietnamese women is particularly eye-catching. However, many Vietnamese women choose to leave China after marriage, what are the reasons behind this?
First of all, economic factors play an important role in transnational marriages. Some Chinese men are troubled by the difficulty of marrying a wife and the high bride price at home, and the relatively low bride price requirements of Vietnamese women have become their "saviors". But such marriages based on financial interests often lack a real emotional foundation, and Vietnamese women may choose to leave once faced with life pressures or temptations.
Secondly, cultural differences are also an important reason for Vietnamese women to leave. Although China and Vietnam belong to the same Asia, there are still significant differences between the two countries in terms of culture and living habits. After marrying into China, Vietnamese women need to adapt to a new family environment and social customs, which is a huge challenge for them. At the same time, due to poor language communication and different cultural backgrounds, they often find it difficult to integrate into the local society, and feel lonely and helpless.
In addition, intermediary fraud is also a problem that cannot be ignored in cross-border marriages. Some unscrupulous intermediaries take advantage of the plight of Vietnamese women to commit fraud in the name of marriage brokerage. After charging a hefty intermediary fee, they introduce Vietnamese women to Chinese men, and then look for opportunities to leave after the women get the money. This kind of fraud not only causes financial losses to Chinese men, but also makes them distrustful of transnational marriages.
In addition to the above reasons, personal factors also influence the departure of Vietnamese women to a certain extent. Some Vietnamese women may choose to leave their Chinese husbands due to personal reasons, such as family conflicts, emotional discord, etc. At the same time, there are some Vietnamese women who have lived in China for a period of time and find that life here is not as good as they imagined, so they have the idea of returning to China.
Overall, although transnational marriage provides an opportunity for some Chinese men and Vietnamese women to get to know each other, there are also many hidden problems and challenges. For people who want to try their hand at transnational marriage, they need to fully understand each other's culture and living habits, build a solid emotional foundation, and be wary of possible fraud risks. At the same time, society should also strengthen the management and supervision of transnational marriages to protect the rights and security of both parties.
However, we should also see examples of successful happiness in transnational marriages. After marrying in China, some Vietnamese women have successfully integrated into the local society through hard work and adaptation, creating a happy family life with their husbands. Their stories show us that transnational marriage is not entirely impossible, but that the key is whether both parties truly love each other and are willing to tolerate and give to each other.
Therefore, we should maintain an objective and rational attitude when dealing with transnational marriages. We should not only see the problems and challenges existing therein, but also see the opportunities and possibilities in them. At the same time, we should also respect everyone's choices and decisions, and provide them with the necessary support and assistance so that they can find true happiness and a home in their transnational marriage.