Recently, I was watching a very popular TV series "Thirty Only".
Wang Manni inside is an urban fashion woman, her life is exquisite, tasteful, and pursuing.
But she will also be confused, will cry in the middle of the night, and will be overwhelmed in the mall.
But she is also an ordinary person, and she also has seven emotions and six desires.
That's why she can become mature after some experience and know how to behave in the world.
- Don't panic and deal with things calmly
In this world, nothing is impossible, and there is no difficulty that cannot be solved.
A high-level person knows how not to panic and deal with it calmly.
Just like Wang Manni, when she was buying a bag, she met a woman who looked very rich, and she wanted to buy the bag. So Wang Manni said to the woman, "I can buy your bag." ”
But the woman said contemptuously, "Do you not want to buy it, or do you not want to buy it?"
Wang Manni was very angry, but she still replied calmly: "I can buy your bag, but can you also tell me?"
The woman said, "There is no need. ”
So Wang Manni stopped paying attention to her. Later, Wang Manni sold the bag.
In fact, in this matter, Wang Manni was not angry because of the woman's money, she was just because there was no need to be angry.
In life, we will encounter all kinds of things, but we can't affect our mood just because of one thing.
- I don't care what other people think
There is a debate in "Strange Sayings": "What do you think true maturity looks like?"
Among them, Li Dan's views are very eye-catching.
"True maturity is when you don't change yourself for the sake of other people's opinions," he said. ”
In the past, he had a nickname on the Internet called "The world is not worth it".
He once participated in the variety show "Tucao Conference", and at that time he said a sentence that was impressive: "The world is not worth it, but I am still alive".
Although this sentence sounds negative, life is like this, everyone carries a load.
In real life, many people live a very tired life. Change yourself for the sake of other people's eyes, and live to meet the expectations of others.
This makes them lose their self, the value of their existence.
On the contrary, people with high levels will live very clearly. They know what they want, they know what they live for.
So they won't care what others think and say about them, and they won't live in someone else's world.
- Try to be good
Gu Jia in "Thirty Only" is a very good woman.
She will learn, she will work hard, and she will make herself better.
She founded the company with her husband, helped him squeeze into high society, and attended various occasions with him.
She also learns English to help her husband integrate into life abroad.
So she was successful both in marriage and in her career.
Gu Jia is such an excellent person, so she can start a business with her husband, have her own company, and even have enough ability to hire a private tutor when her children go to school.
And such an excellent Gu Jia has also attracted a large number of excellent men.
- High-level people know how to precipitate themselves
Someone said, "Women just have to be themselves." ”
Indeed, if you don't want to be tormented by life, you have to live for yourself and don't waste yourself when you're young.
In fact, when people reach a certain age, they must know how to precipitate themselves.
We must constantly enrich our knowledge and make ourselves more connotative;
Learn to control your emotions and don't bring them to work;
Learn to control your desires and don't enjoy them when you shouldn't.
Life is just a few decades, in fact, many things are fleeting.
Only by knowing how to precipitate ourselves can we make ourselves stronger.