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Introduction:
Have you ever encountered this situation?
When I was taking the sleeper on the train, I found that someone had hung a curtain and separated my small space tightly.
What happened
Recently, an aunt became angry because of this! She complained about two young people on the train, saying that they hung a curtain on the lower bunk to prevent the 70-year-old from sitting in it. As soon as this incident came out, everyone exploded, but guess what?
To be honest, my first feeling is that this aunt is too lenient? If you think about it, young people spend more money to buy tickets for the lower bunk, and the lower bunk is their private space. It's like when you close the door at home and don't want someone to break in. Is it wrong to hang a curtain just to want a little privacy?
But if you think about it carefully, Auntie is probably also kind.
Respecting the old and loving the young is our traditional virtue, and seeing the elderly standing, in fact, we don't feel good in our hearts. But that doesn't mean it's okay to just invade someone's private space. If the aunt communicates well with the young people, maybe they will take the initiative to give up their seats?
But she was good, she directly posted a video to complain, and began to preside over justice! She also felt that she was doing the right thing, but when she made a fuss like this, not only did not solve the problem, but also made everyone unhappy.
Click to play the video and see what Auntie had to say
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I think it's really a matter of communication. If the aunt could change the way, such as: "Young man, you see that this old man is old and can't stand steadily, can you let him sit for a while?"
At the end of the day, it's just a difference in perception between the two generations. The older generation may feel that everyone should help each other when they are away from home. But young people are more concerned about personal privacy and freedom. There is no right or wrong between these two ideas, the key is that we must learn to understand and respect each other.
Let's take a look at the hot discussions among netizens:
Speaking of which, this should actually be blamed on the place where tickets are sold, after all, some elderly people are really not in good health, and priority should be given to arranging them in the lower bunk, otherwise it is really inconvenient
Yes, everyone prefers the lower bunk, and some netizens questioned that his mother was in her eighties and bought tickets 15 days in advance, but she didn't buy the next ticket in the end
Of course, saying a thousand things and ten thousand, this aunt's approach is definitely wrong, after all, young people also bought their own tickets, and it is love to let you sit there, and it is no problem not to let you sit there, and there should be no moral kidnapping.
It's not easy for everyone to go out, but sometimes it's better to be considerate of each other
12306 customer service response:
As the incident became bigger, the customer service of 12306 also responded to the matter, saying that the curtain could be used without affecting other passengers. As for the aunt's original intention, it should also be good, I hope that the young people can give the old people a place to sit, but the method is not appropriate.
Finally, I would like to ask you: If you were that young man, what would you do? Do you insist on your own personal space, or do you give up your seat to the elderly? Or do you have any good way to balance this contradiction and conflict?
Hey, I really miss the old days! I think when I took the train, everyone was like family and friends, chatting, playing cards, and having fun. Now, they are all hiding in their own little worlds, not interfering with each other. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing, but then again, everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, so we still have to respect and understand!