#精品长文创作季#
On April 16, a video of an old man accusing a young man on the train caused heated discussions.
In the video, an old man pointed to a guy who hung a curtain in a hard sleeper car and complained that "young people hang curtains and don't let 70-year-old people sit" and wanted everyone to comment, but this time netizens actually stood up one after another.
Netizens believe that the old man who took the video tried to kidnap young people with morality and find empathy, but he didn't expect to put himself in dire straits and mistake virtue for what it should be.
Spicy comments from netizens: Young people don't eat that set for a long time!
1. Netizens unanimously stood in line
Railway 12306 responded: There is no clear provision that it cannot be used.
Netizens have complained about "whether this is a moral kidnapping" and "the problem of not letting it come again".
Netizens think that there are no clear regulations that the sleeper car cannot hang a curtain, and whether to hang the ticket that you spend money on or not is purely a personal choice.
In fact, the problem of hard sleeper curtains is not the first time that the public has appeared, some people think that this behavior affects the beauty of the train, and some people think that they can buy tickets themselves.
This curtain incident is back in the public eye, and the focus is on the young people who did not give up their seats to the elderly.
But this time, the wind direction of the public has made a 180-degree turn.
This time, everyone did not stand up with the old man, and blamed the guy together, thinking that this behavior had no public morality.
After the incident, after the Internet fermented, the young people concerned also responded: there was no refusal to communicate, it was the old man who directly scolded and abused.
Many people think that there is no problem with not giving them the tickets they bought.
Netizens believe that politeness is mutual, and if the old man politely asks to discuss the change of seats, and takes the initiative to make up the difference, the young man is happy to let it.
It is not the duty of others to let it not be allowed to do it completely.
This topic again involves intergenerational moral issues, and once again pushes the issue of "respect for the elderly" of young people to the forefront.
2. Respect for the Elder or Moral Kidnapping?
In recent years, on the issue of intergenerational issues, all young people who do not make regressions for the elderly will be labeled as disrespecting the elderly.
But why didn't everyone stand old this time?
Whether it was a woman on the subway who was beaten by the old man for not giving up her seat, or a man who was abused by the four old men for not giving up her seat.
Young people said that they were tired of facing this problem for a long time, and they were even afraid that they would not want to go to places where there were many elderly people.
The young people were also puzzled: Do you have to give up this seat?
When the elderly are in public places, young people must be polite, otherwise it will undermine public order and good customs, and there is no respect for the elderly.
But most people think that it is their duty not to let it, and it is love to let it go, not necessary.
The old people should also not force the young people to be angry and accuse without giving up their seats, thinking that this is the right thing to do, relying on the old and selling the old, and disrespecting the old.
Back to the curtain incident itself, everyone also said that there is no problem with hanging curtains for this behavior, and you can buy tickets by yourself, you can do whatever you want, and there is no prohibition in the law.
Even the older aunt thinks that there is no problem with this behavior, and if she buys a ticket and wants a private space, she should hang a curtain.
Netizens said: People have bought out the right to use the driving section of the ticket, and others can't kidnap people with morality.
Netizens think that the old man can give priority to the lower bunk, even if he feels inconvenient, he should ask politely instead of directly accusing, he has no obligation to let it, this is his private space.
Respecting the old and loving the young is a virtue, not an obligation.
However, it has also been suggested that this would lack warmth, and that if everyone were like this, society would become cold and terrifying.
When it comes to public transport, we all need to be understanding and inclusive, respect everyone's rights and needs, and work together to create a harmonious and comfortable travel environment.
3. The views of legal experts
Legal experts interpret this: according to the provisions of the Civil Code of the Mainland, passengers have obtained the right to use the berth when purchasing the ticket, and they can control their own berth without violating laws and regulations.
Access to the seat or berth is limited to the ticketed passenger.
In the long long journey, for the public environment of the sleeper car, if the passengers in the lower berth can appropriately cede some of their own space use rights, the passengers in the upper berth will also negotiate politely, understand each other, and create a harmonious travel environment.
Rather than seeing it as an obligation that must be fulfilled, and asking the other party to do so, virtue is a fashion, but not an obligation.
When the public morality becomes a requirement, it will inevitably be counterattacked, causing the intensification of contradictions.
Nowadays, there is more and more controversy, which is actually a resurgence of people's self-consciousness, focusing more on self-interest, personal privacy, and the protection of personal feelings.
When we need others to make concessions to our own rights and interests because of our own interests, we should also make appropriate compensation for the concessions of others' rights and interests.
In order to make the long journey full of human touch, when meeting people who are really in need, lower berth passengers should also lend a helping hand and create a harmonious atmosphere in the narrow train space.
Resources:
Smart Life Daily 2024-04-17 13:06
Beijing Daily 2024-04-18 17:27