Recently, many colleges and universities have issued regulations prohibiting students from hanging curtains in the dormitory, on the grounds that the curtains are flammable, and the inside is not ventilated after hanging the curtains, which is easy to breed bacteria, and also affects the lighting and beauty of the dormitory, hinders the communication between students in the dormitory, and so on.
However, these regulators ignore one of the most important factors, and that is the issue of student privacy.
Some people say that a student has any privacy? Wrong, very wrong, college students are generally about 20 years old, which is the period of life when they are most energetic and need to have independent space.
Unlike elementary school students and middle and high school students, they are basically not yet adults, do not have much privacy, and do not need much personal space. But college students are different, they are already completely adults, and adults should have their own private space and personal life.
There is a contradiction in modern society that people are getting earlier and earlier in their sexual maturity, but they are getting married later and later.
Ancient people generally began to develop at the age of fourteen or fifteen, and began to marry at the age of sixteen or seventeen, so in ancient times there was a saying that twenty-eight years old (16 years old).
Today's young people, in order to study and work, are still in school in their twenties, so we can't simply see them as students, but also know that they are already adults and should have their own space.
Biological studies have found that animals, especially higher mammals, must have their own living space once they reach adulthood, and if the cubs grow up and are still huddled together, all kinds of fights will occur.
The most prominent manifestation is that adult males have their own territory, and other animals are not allowed to approach or invade, otherwise it will be a life-and-death bite.
In addition, there is a concept of interpersonal distance in interpersonal communication, that is, the physical distance between people should not be too small, otherwise there will be tension and depression.
As far as college students are concerned, there should be one room for one person, but due to the limited conditions, only four or eight people can be in a room, which is crowded enough and saves a lot of social resources.
Therefore, college students use curtains to separate their beds, which is to create a private space where they can laugh, get angry, or be in a daze or cry......
In short, as long as it does not affect others, you can do whatever you like, you don't have to worry about being discovered by your roommates, and you don't need to look at anyone's face, which is very important for their physical and mental health, and they are happy and stress-free, and it is also conducive to studying hard.
As for the reasons why the relevant authorities prohibit the hanging of curtains in student dormitories, it seems a bit ridiculous.
For example, isn't it a joke to say that bed curtains are flammable? Are bed sheets, quilts and clothes made of iron, non-flammable? Say that the air is not circulating? The dormitory door is closed as a whole, do you have curtains, the air is still circulating in the dormitory, how can you get the air not circulating?
As for the breeding of bacteria, this has nothing to do with hanging curtains, and students who do not pay attention to hygiene will be a dirty mess even if they live in a luxury suite.
Do you think that without a curtain everyone can communicate happily together? On the contrary, without personal privacy and independent space, students will only dislike each other, let alone interact with each other.
Therefore, even CCTV can't stand this kind of practice of playing the piano and conducting blindly, and criticizes: "Colleges and universities prohibit hanging bed curtains in student dormitories": a ban on it makes some sense and reason, and there is no need to treat college students as high school students.
CCTV pointed out sharply: Today's college students, some are married, some are entrepreneurs, some travel around the world, and they have a lot of experience and knowledge, so don't take them as junior high school students and high school students, this is a lazy political behavior, a self-dwarfing behavior, and a simple and blunt management thinking, which must be changed.
If any manager is not satisfied, let them live in a dormitory for a month, and feel what it tastes like.