This is an emotional story about children, and through the experience of the protagonist, it reminds everyone that no matter what kind of partner they choose in the end, they need to find out the three details. Let's listen to the protagonist's mental journey.
I'm Li Hua, 36 years old, living in an ordinary small city. Although my family is not wealthy, my parents are hardworking and kind, and they have created a warm and happy environment for me and my younger brother to grow up. I have a stable job and live a dull and happy life every day.
The first type of background: family background
When it comes to family background, this can be said to be a crucial part of marriage. I remember the experience of my friend Xiao Jing, who married a man who was as beautiful as a flower, and the two of them fell in love for a few years and finally entered the palace of marriage. However, after getting married, it turned out that her husband's family had a strong family concept, and the way of doing things was very different from the local customs of Xiaojing's family. This led to a conflict between them in dealing with certain things, which eventually led to the breakdown of the marriage.
The second kind of subdivision: personal character
In addition to family background, personal personality is also a factor that cannot be ignored. I still remember one of my college classmates, Xiao Gang, whose wife was very beautiful in appearance, but very willful and selfish. After getting married, Xiao Gang gradually found that it became more and more difficult for him to get along with his wife, and her willfulness and selfishness made him feel exhausted. In the end, Xiao Gang chose to divorce, and he realized that the difference in personal personality was an important reason for the failure of their marriage.
The third type of background: living habits
In addition to family background and personal character, lifestyle habits are also factors that cannot be ignored in marriage. My friend Xiao Ming had such an experience. He married a wife with very different living habits from his own, and he liked a neat and regular life, while his wife was very casual. After marriage, they often quarreled because of incompatible living habits, which made Xiao Ming feel exhausted. In the end, they chose to separate and found a more suitable partner for each other.
Through the above stories, we can see the importance of finding out the three details of your partner's family background, personal personality and living habits. No matter what kind of partner you choose in the end, only if you really understand each other and can accept these details of each other, can you build a happy marriage.