"Things gather by like, people by groups",
It's real.
Some people,
Consume your emotions and corrupt your pleasures;
Some people,
Be the benchmark of your life and help you transform yourself!
different people,
Bring you different influences,
So, in our interpersonal interactions,
To know how to distinguish and choose,
Closer to whom, far away.
How to choose?
When a person gives you these 3 feelings,
It's God reminding you to stay away from him!
01. More and more inferiority
Really good relationship,
won't give you a feeling,
The other party is particularly difficult to speak,
You are always careful for fear of offending him;
The other party is particularly difficult to communicate,
You're always worried about his displeasure.
Actually, when you have this kind of performance,
You should be vigilant,
Maybe the other party doesn't really treat you,
It's suppressing you, denying you, doubting you,
and even creates a feeling for you,
You are worthless, only He is willing to accept you.
He's controlling you with his spirit,
When you meet such a person, you have to be careful,
Learn to keep your distance from him,
Let your confidence come back slowly!
02. Unilateral payment
Some people make you feel like
That is, you are tired of associating with him.
Why are you tired?
Because you give, he thinks it's as it should be;
You are good to him, and he never goes to his heart.
Even if you communicate patiently with him,
He's all about you.
Such dealings are unfair,
Because obviously,
Your feelings are deep, his feelings are shallow,
The more you revolve around him,
The more he doesn't take you seriously.
Your good, too easy to get,
So much so that it was taken as commonplace by the other party,
How will it be cherished?
No restaurant will be right for one,
Customers who always give themselves bad reviews are respectful!
Sometimes keep some distance,
On the contrary, it makes people value you more.
03. A lot of negative emotions
When you meet such a person,
After every time I get together with him,
You're going to feel tired,
Even very unhappy.
At this time, you have to be careful,
The person across from you, he's consuming you.
There is a kind of person who is especially fond of denying others,
Speaking of grievances and discouragement.
When you meet this kind of person,
You will find that
No matter how enthusiastic your encouragement is, no matter how sunny your smiling face,
It can't infect him, and he still has a sad face.
Such a person,
often makes you feel exhausted,
Bad mood and increased anxiety.
So, try to keep your distance from it,
Don't be consumed by his negative emotions!
People who give you positive energy,
It must be someone who respects you and doesn't let you feel inferior;
It must be someone who gives back to you and doesn't take advantage of you;
It must be the same kind of person as you, and it doesn't consume you.
When you meet the above three types of people,
Don't get close, stay away as soon as possible.
There is a high probability that such a person is not a good friend,
Staying away from consumption is equal to staying away from harm,
Let getting along no longer be tiring,
Let life go more and more smoothly!