Before reading, I would like to remind you that although this article is interesting and philosophical, it is for entertainment purposes only, so don't be superstitious!
It is still permissible for heaven to do evil, and it is impossible for you to live if you do it yourself.
This ancient admonition is like a morning bell and a dusk drum, alerting the world. When God sends a calamity, people may be able to avoid it with wisdom and effort, but if they do it themselves, there is no escape.
Life is like a play, it all depends on acting, and everyone plays a variety of roles on their own stage.
But in this complicated drama, we must not only pay attention to our own performances, but also learn to observe words and colors, and gain insight into the changes around us. When God has given you a hint, it is an important guide to the direction of your life. At this point, we have to ponder these hints in order to conform to Providence and avoid going astray.
"The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and muscles. This is a reminder to be brave in the face of life's difficulties and challenges, and at the same time learn to go along with God's will.
In modern society, with the development of science and technology, human beings seem to have more and more ability to change and conquer nature, but we must also realize that any behavior that violates the laws of nature will eventually be punished by nature.
Therefore, when we are faced with a choice, we might as well think more about the wisdom of the ancients, learn to conform to the will of heaven, and observe words and colors, so that we can go further and more steadily on the road of life.
Today, let's talk about the five hints that God may want to "abandon" you, and see if you have stepped on the "minefield".
When it is the talk after dinner, don't sit down!
The first hint: embattled, popularity plummeted
When you find that your former friends are estranged and your co-workers are delicate, it's like you're embattled.
The laughter and laughter of the past have become today's cold bystanders, and this change reminds people of the sentence in "Dream of Red Mansions": "People are warm and cold, and the world is hot and cold".
At this moment, you may feel an inexplicable loneliness and confusion, as if you are in a huge labyrinth, running into walls everywhere and unable to find a way out.
But as the saying goes, "the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear", at this time, you have to reflect on whether your recent behavior is something inappropriate, or whether you have offended people verbally.
Getting along with each other is an extremely complex university question.
As the saying goes, "A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people and is cold in June." Perhaps your unintentional words or actions have touched the sensitive points of others, which has led to the estrangement of the relationship.
Looking back at the long history, it is not difficult to find similar examples. For example, Guan Yu in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", he is brave and good at fighting, and is known as the "martial saint", but because of his arrogant personality, he eventually led to the dilemma of being embattled. When he was besieged in Maicheng, his friends and colleagues left him, and this isolated and helpless situation is a portrayal of the sudden decline in popularity.
When you find yourself in a situation where you're embattled, it's a good idea to take a moment and reflect on what you're saying and doing.
Remember, "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Only by respecting others can we earn the respect of others.
Learn to cherish those who are still there for you in your adversity, because "adversity sees the truth".
The second hint is that the body is the capital of the revolution, but when your capital starts to "strike", then you have to be careful.
This is clearly mentioned by our ancestors in the "Yellow Emperor's Neijing": "If the form is weak, the essence is insufficient, and if the essence is insufficient, the spirit is sluggish."
In other words, once the "capital" of the body starts to "strike", and you often feel tired and have minor illnesses and pains, it is a serious warning to you: Hey, you have to take good care of me!
At this time, you have to act quickly, as the old saying goes, "small illnesses are not cured, and major illnesses are difficult to treat".
Adjust your routine and stop staying up late to swipe your phone or working overtime late at night. Intensify your workouts, whether it's a morning jog or the gym, you have to get your body moving to stay active.
Otherwise, the "capital" of the body will be completely "abandoned" you, and at that time, it will really be "crying every day, calling the earth and the earth unspiritual".
Think about it, the famous foreign book "The Weakness of Human Nature" also mentions that a healthy body is the foundation for achieving life goals. Without health, everything would be empty talk.
Besides, the body is our own, so we have to take good care of it.
Just like the ancient poem said, "Since ancient times, heroes have suffered a lot, and they have never been a great man." What successful people don't go through all kinds of hardships to get to where they succeeded? But what they all have in common is that they all have a healthy body to support them through those difficult years.
"Stay in the green mountains, not afraid of no firewood." As long as you are in good health, anything is possible!
The third hint: I encountered Waterloo in my career, and I have worked hard to the point that I can't do anything, but I still look like I am now destitute.
As the ancients said, "bad luck is bad luck, and bad luck is bad." You may have done your best to fight until the last minute, but you are still in trouble, looking destitute.
The state of mind at this moment is probably no different from "thousands of mountains and birds fly away, and thousands of paths and people disappear", loneliness and despair are intertwined.
According to ancient legends, the phoenix needs to be nirvana in the fire before it can be reborn. This is just as the "Treatise on Typhoid Fever" says: "If you can recuperate after illness, you can recover as before." ”
The trough of your career is just a "typhoid fever" in your life, as long as you take care of it properly, you can be like a phoenix nirvana and regain your life.
Uncle Wang, a neighbor, often said, "Failure is the mother of success." This is not empty consolation, but the crystallization of wisdom after the storm.
How many heroes and heroes in ancient and modern times, after encountering setbacks, did not choose to sink, but fought to catch up, and finally went down in history.
In folk customs, there is a saying of "destroying wealth and eliminating disasters", which is a positive change of mentality.
When you lose something, maybe it's for a better future. As the proverb goes, "If you lose your horse, you won't know if you're blessed." ”
Remember, "there will be a time when the wind and waves will be long, and the clouds will sail into the sea", as long as there is a dream in your heart and a road under your feet, you can get out of the predicament and meet your glorious moment!
The fourth hint: the mentality is getting worse and worse, and the negative energy is bursting.
used to be a calm and positive self, but now he can be angry for a little thing, and he is full of complaints about people and things. This change in mentality can't help but remind people of the saying: "Mentality determines destiny".
In ancient tales, there was a wise man named Seon who lost his horse but was then blessed with misfortune. This story teaches us that there are two sides to everything, and the key is how we look at it. When we face setbacks and difficulties, if we can maintain a positive attitude, we can often turn danger into safety.
Aunt Wang answered at this time: "Life is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you, and if you cry at it, it will cry at you." "It's a vivid illustration of mindset. When we approach everything in life with a positive attitude, we will find that the problems that bother us in the first place become less intractable.
None of us can have smooth sailing on the road of life, and it is inevitable that we will encounter setbacks, big or small, and we can draw wisdom from ancient books when dealing with setbacks.
There is a saying in the Book of Changes: "Heaven is strong, and the gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement." This sentence tells us that no matter what kind of difficulties we encounter, we should maintain the spirit of self-improvement and move forward bravely.
The Tao Te Ching also teaches us: "Good is like water, and water is good for all things without fighting." "Learning to be tolerant and humble like water is also an important way for us to adjust our mindset.
When we find ourselves becoming more and more negative, we can draw on the stories of celebrities to motivate ourselves. For example, Thomas Edison experienced numerous failures before inventing the electric light, but he never gave up and finally succeeded in inventing the electric light. His story teaches us that if we persevere, we will be able to overcome setbacks.
We can also divert our attention by cultivating some hobbies and hobbies to free ourselves from the whirlpool of negative energy. For example, drawing, reading, exercising, etc., these activities can help us relax and adjust our mind.
Uncle Wang said: "There is no hurdle that cannot be passed, only the mood that cannot be passed." When we find that our mentality is getting worse and worse, we must adjust it in time.
Remember, a positive mindset is the key to beating all odds!
The fifth hint: that things are not going well, as if the whole world is against you.
What you want to do is always in the way, and well-crafted plans are always not up to date with the ever-changing situation.
This kind of experience, as the saying goes, "the house leak coincides with the overnight rain", it seems that all the misfortunes converge at this moment, which makes people feel frustrated.
However, at this moment, we might as well look back at history and find solace and strength in the wisdom of those ancients. In "The Art of War", Sun Tzu once said: "A soldier is also treacherous." This means that in war, the situation is ever-changing and requires flexibility.
The same applies to the dilemmas we face in life. When things don't go our way, we need not only tenacity, but also flexibility.
Take the story of "encircling Wei to save Zhao" in ancient China as an example, when Zhao faced a difficult situation, he successfully diverted the enemy's attention through clever strategic layout, and finally resolved the crisis. This tells us that even in the face of adversity, we must be good at using wisdom to find a turning point.
Let's take a look at the story of "Hannibal crossing the Alps" in ancient Rome. In order to achieve his strategic goal, General Hannibal chose the seemingly impossible route - to cross the Alps. Despite the difficulties along the way, he succeeded in the end. This story teaches us that when faced with a dilemma, sometimes we need to have the courage to try unconventional solutions.
Back to reality, when we encounter "everything is not going well", we might as well learn from the wisdom of these ancients.
Remember, "life is like a play, play is like life", sometimes you think you have reached a desperate situation, maybe you can meet new hope around the corner. Don't give up easily, because "the mountains and rivers are full of doubts, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village".
There is a good saying: "When God closes a door, He always opens a window for you." This is a vivid interpretation of "desperate survival".
When you feel that the whole world is against you, you might as well calm down and re-examine your surroundings, and maybe the "window" that has been opened is waiting for you to find it not far away.
Remember, "there is no end to the road", as long as we do not give up hope, we will always find a solution to the problem.
"God abandons people, there are omens", although these hints sound a little mysterious, they are actually common episodes in life.
As long as we maintain a positive and optimistic attitude to face them, we will definitely be able to turn danger into safety!
Finally, I would like to give you a word: "Life is like a dream, years are like a song, no matter in good times or bad, you must laugh at life!"