On April 12, actor Guan Ling posted on social platforms that he had symptoms such as angina pectoris and difficulty breathing after tutoring his child's homework, and needed to go to the hospital for cardiovascular disease, which attracted the attention of the majority of netizens.
As a representative child star of the post-90s, Guan Ling became an instant hit with "I Love My Home", and while her acting career was going well, she also obtained a master's degree from Beijing Institute of Technology.
Therefore, Guan Ling, who felt powerless to help primary school students with their homework, said bluntly that he felt very frustrated as a graduate of a master's student. This incident reflects the dilemma of many parents in tutoring their children's learning, and also makes people reflect on the essence of family education.
辅导作业难,家长先天压力大
Guan Ling revealed that she only tutored her daughter's composition and her son's reading comprehension, and did not lose her temper, but after tutoring, she had symptoms such as breathing difficulties.
As an intellectual woman who graduated with a master's degree, Guan Ling still struggles to tutor primary school students' homework, which shows how difficult homework tutoring is.
Parents may not be good at various subjects, and it is difficult to know everything about their children's learning content.
In addition, each child has a different personality and learning style, and parents need to take the time to understand it in order to find the right way to tutor, otherwise it will inevitably cause additional stress.
In fact, many Chinese parents are under pressure to help their children with their studies. On the one hand, there is internal pressure from themselves, parents want their children to have a good development, and will "test" their educational effect by supervising the quality of homework.
On the other hand, some parents will also look at their children's educational ability from the academic performance of their children, and compare their children's scores with those of other parents, hoping that their children can excel academically. These innate pressures doom parents to be difficult to relax when tutoring homework.
The obra service may alleviate the dilemma of parental counselling
In response to the dilemma of parental tutoring homework, we can start from the following aspects. Parents should realize that the significance of homework is to exercise their children's learning ability, not a standard to test the effectiveness of parental education.
Parents can appropriately use the obra services provided by some extracurricular tutoring institutions according to their children and their own conditions. These institutions have professional teachers who design courses that can be a good way to assist children with their homework and can also reduce the pressure on parents.
At present, the online obra education platform is booming, providing a virtual classroom that connects teachers, students, and parents. Children can listen to their teachers online, and teachers can also provide individualized guidance based on each student's situation.
In addition, parents can also keep track of their children's learning progress by logging in to the platform.
This new obra teaching model can effectively use the Internet to spread high-quality educational resources, help children complete homework, and help parents participate in their children's learning process, which is of great benefit to alleviate the pressure of parental counseling.
Care for physical and mental health and broaden the horizons of parenting
Guan Ling had difficulty breathing after tutoring homework and had to go to the hospital for a check-up, which also reminded parents to pay attention to their physical and mental health.
In the era of smart phones, children have a large number of online resources, and parents do not have to know every homework topic of their children.
In addition to academic education, parents should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's hobbies, personality traits, EQ emotional intelligence, etc.
In addition, a healthy and happy family environment is also a very important part of children's growth. If parents are under excessive stress, it will not only be difficult to balance the body and mind, but also indirectly affect their children.
Therefore, in the process of parenting, parents need to learn to plan their time reasonably and leave space to focus on their own life and that of their partners. Regular family outings, sports, and other activities can enhance family relationships and optimism.
To help children with homework, parents need to change their concepts, make reasonable use of obra teaching resources, and pay attention to physical and mental health, so as to find a parenting method that suits them in the new era.
The significance of family education is not only in the result, but also in the process of communication and companionship. It is expected that with the efforts of the public, the society can form a more open and inclusive parenting environment, so that every child can grow up happily under the sun.