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Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

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Preface

Jiang Shan was undoubtedly a legendary woman in the 90s of the last century.

At that time, she was unique among the ranks of female stars, and became the focus of national popularity by starring in the TV series "Addiction", which had far-reaching influence and almost became the collective memory of that era.

At that time, there was a saying that "there is no woman who has not imitated Du Mei's hairstyle, and there is no man who has not secretly liked Jiang Shan", she relied on her gentle and elegant temperament and deeply rooted acting skills, and established the image of "Goddess of Literature and Art" early, and was affectionately called China's "Little Mountain Pass Baihui" by many people.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Just as Jiang Shan's career reached a peak and became an invincible "top traffic actress", she made an unexpected decision, that is, she chose to get married in a flash at the peak of her career and went to live in the United States.

This decision shocked the entire entertainment industry at the time, and also added a bit of legend to her life trajectory.

[1] A talented woman who came out of an artistic family, from an English scholar to an actor

In 1967, Jiang Shan came to an artistic family in Zhenjiang City, Jiangsu Province, her parents were bright stars on the opera stage in their early years, and later in order to develop their careers, the family moved to the capital Beijing, and both parents changed careers and devoted themselves to the film and television performance industry.

Among them, Jiang Shan's father Jiang Huaiyan is not only an outstanding actor, but also took charge of the director, directed many works, and later served as the director of the literary planning department of the Beijing Film Studio, making great contributions to the development of the mainland film industry.

Growing up in such a family environment, Jiang Shan has formed an indissoluble bond with the stage and music since she was a child.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

She often followed her parents in and out of the musical theater, immersed in beautiful melodies and vivid performances, and a seed of love for art quietly sprouted in her heart.

Jiang Shan's parents are both opera singers, so they naturally have a natural good voice, and she is lucky to inherit this family gene.

Since she was a child, Jiang Shan has shown extraordinary singing talent, her singing voice is clear and sweet, and it is infectious.

In school, she is the soul of the class chorus, she was the lead singer in elementary school, and in junior high school, she was successfully selected into the "Chinese Youth Choir" with her outstanding voice and singing talent, became the first batch of members, and served as the lead singer for three consecutive years.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Whether it is a family gathering or a school event, as long as Jiang Shan's singing sounds, it can always attract applause and appreciation.

At home, Jiang Shan is the pearl of her parents' palms and is much loved, and at school, she is also a good student in the eyes of teachers and an idol in the hearts of her classmates.

Jiang Shan, who is loved by thousands of people, has naturally developed a free-spirited, willful and arrogant character, she dares to express herself and dare to pursue what she loves, and this personality charm makes her particularly dazzling in the crowd.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In addition to her love for music, Jiang Shan also has a strong interest in movies.

At that time, open-air movies were often screened in the army compound, which became one of Jiang Shan's most anticipated entertainment activities.

Every time she returns from the movie, she will enthusiastically imitate the scenes in the movie, and her vivid performance always makes her parents laugh, and the joyful atmosphere at home is even stronger.

Academically, Jiang Shan has never let her parents worry about it.

From primary school to secondary school, her academic performance has always been at the top of the list, especially in English subjects, showing talent and strength beyond her peers, and often leading her class.

This excellent performance is inseparable from Jiang Shan's own hard work, and also benefits from the influence of the family environment.

Since my father worked at the Beijing Film Studio, he often brought back some internal reference films for his family to watch, including many excellent foreign films.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today
By watching these films, Jiang Shan not only enriched her knowledge horizon and improved her language comprehension ability, but also invisibly improved her English proficiency, laying a solid foundation for possible foreign language majors in the future.

Before setting foot in the field of acting, Jiang Shan had a clear goal in mind - to apply for the College of Foreign Chinese and pursue a career related to English.

This is enough to show that she is extremely confident in her English ability and has a clear plan for her future career path.

The arrangement of fate is often unexpected.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

As she grew older, Jiang Shan became more and more beautiful and moving, and her outstanding appearance and unique temperament attracted the attention of countless people.

People around me often quipped, "It's a shame that you're so beautiful that you don't want to be a movie star." Even Jiang Shan's mother is keenly aware of her daughter's potential in acting, and she encourages Jiang Shan to apply for film school, hoping that she can become an excellent actor in the future.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In the mother's proposal and the affirmation of the people around her, Jiang Shan began to seriously think about whether to change to the acting industry and start a new artistic journey.

[2] The rebellion and transformation at the beginning of his acting career

In 1987, with her outstanding appearance and inner artistic talent, Jiang Shan was successfully admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, and became classmates and friends with Xu Fan, Chen Xiaoyi, He Bing, Hu Jun and others.

In college life, Jiang Shan did not focus on professional learning, she loved to play, skipping classes and not completing homework became the norm, especially when she needed to cooperate with other students to rehearse a complete play in acting class, Jiang Shan often neglected to prepare, and did not rush to ask her classmates for help until the day before class, hoping to find a marginal role to deal with.

This negative attitude towards learning finally attracted the attention of the teacher, and in an acting class, the teacher unceremoniously reprimanded Jiang Shan harshly, bluntly saying that he would leave if he did not concentrate on studying.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Jiang Shan, who was accustomed to being cared for, felt very angry and aggrieved about this, and immediately called her mother and expressed her desire to drop out of school and go home.

Under the patient persuasion of her mother, Jiang Shan reluctantly dispelled the idea of dropping out of school, although she was still dissatisfied in her heart, she didn't dare to show it in front of the teacher.

After being criticized, Jiang Shan began to correct her learning attitude and completed every homework and rehearsal seriously.

After four years of college, Jiang Shan completed her studies with Xu Fan, Chen Xiaoyi, Hu Jun and others, and after graduation, they all successfully entered the Beijing People's Art Theater to work.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Unlike other students, Jiang Shan did not choose to join Beijing Renyi out of personal will, because the 87 class of the Central Academy of Drama was actually a class of Beijing Renyi's directional training, and graduates could directly enter Beijing Renyi.

For Jiang Shan, she doesn't like the strict and stylized working atmosphere of Beijing Renyi, commuting to and from work and rehearsing on time every day, which makes her feel too restrained and lacking freedom.

Therefore, after weighing the pros and cons, Jiang Shan resolutely decided to give up this "iron rice bowl" that everyone envied, and instead devoted herself to the record industry, signed a contract with the record company, and started her new journey of artistic exploration.

[3] From capricious withdrawal to on-screen couple

At the beginning of her acting career, Jiang Shan signed a contract with a record company, but because she was not satisfied with the stage name given to her by the company, she resolutely chose to quit voluntarily.

Although Jiang Shan at that time could be described as "willful", she soon realized that she had to face reality.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

After the breakdown of her partnership with the record label, Jiang Shan accepted an invitation from the Beijing People's Art Theater to become a drama actress, thus beginning a new chapter in her acting career.

In 1991, Jiang Shan played the introverted little sister Yu Pu in her first drama "Love in the Rainy Season", thus officially stepping into the showbiz.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

It's a pity that this drama didn't make her famous overnight, but after filming "Love in the Rainy Season", Jiang Shan entered a low period of her career, and there was no big breakthrough for two consecutive years.

The turning point occurred in 1993, when the famous director Zhao Bao first began to prepare for the TV series "Addiction", Jiang Shan got a new opportunity.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

At that time, the actor had been determined to be Wang Zhiwen, but the heroine had not been decided.

Wang Zhiwen was a teacher at the Central Academy of Drama and the ex-boyfriend of Jiang Shan's friend Xu Fan, so he had a certain understanding of Jiang Shan's ability and personality, and took the initiative to recommend her to director Zhao Baogang.

After Zhao Baogang met Jiang Shan, he was very satisfied with her acting skills and beauty, so she was selected to co-star with Wang Zhiwen in this TV series with only eight episodes.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

After the broadcast of "Addictive", the "dialect" played by Wang Zhiwen and the "Du Mei" played by Jiang Shan were deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the two leading actors and director Zhao Baogang became popular together.

The hit of "Addictive", 27-year-old Jiang Shan became one of the most popular actresses at that time, and her and Wang Zhiwen's couple image in the play was deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and even some viewers called the TV station to ask them to get married in reality, which made the two leading actors laugh.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Although they had a brief relationship with each other, due to the great difference in personality, they finally chose to retreat to the position of friends.

Although the scandal was hyped up at the time, as time passed, everything finally calmed down.

With the soaring fame, Jiang Shan's career is booming, she signed a contract with the agency Star Butterfly Culture, and released her first album "Only Love Me One", which fulfilled her music dream.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

One of the songs on the album, "Dream Water Town", was especially loved by listeners, helping her quickly become popular in the music industry, and this song has also become one of her classic masterpieces.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Just when everyone thought that Jiang Shan would pursue the victory in her acting career, she began to quietly prepare for her life's events.

In 1995, during the filming of the TV series "I Want to Have a Home", Jiang Shan met Gao Shuguang, an actor in the same crew, and the relationship between the two quickly warmed up and began to move towards marriage.

【4】

When Jiang Shan was 30 years old, when she participated in the filming of the TV series "I Want to Have a Home", she and the actor Gao Shuguang became attached to the play, and the two quickly entered the marriage hall after only three months of acquaintance.

At that time, Jiang Shan had already won the reputation of "public lover" with her outstanding acting skills and gentle temperament, her posters were selling well, and her TV series were repeatedly watched by the audience, and her popularity was booming.

This man who suddenly appeared and married Jiang Shan "snatched" the dream goddess of fans overnight, and for a while, Gao Shuguang became an existence that was "the enemy of everyone" in the eyes of everyone.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

People can't help but wonder, what is the charm of this man that can make Jiang Shan entrust him with his life so decisively?

Coincidentally, just when Jiang Shan and Gao Shuguang's relationship heated up and tied the knot, Jiang Shan was in a major turmoil in her career.

The matter dates back to two years ago, Jiang Shan and another powerful actress Shi Ke co-starred in the drama "Divorced, Don't Come to Me".

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Due to the heavy rehearsal and performance tasks, the two leading actors were overwhelmed and fell ill one after another, unable to perform on stage as scheduled.

This sudden incident has aroused widespread concern and controversy from all walks of life, and many viewers have expressed doubts about the two leading actors falling ill at the same time, thinking that there may be a cat in it, and even questioning how to deal with the ticket money, demanding compensation for the audience who bought the tickets.

Under the continuous fermentation of public opinion, some media took the opportunity to hype, further amplifying the negative impact of the incident.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In the end, the Central Experimental Theater was forced to make the decision to dismiss Jiang Shan and Shi Ke.

This "boycott incident" dealt a heavy blow to Jiang Shan's acting career, she could no longer return to work in the Experimental Theater, and was in a state of depression for a long time.

It was when Jiang Shan was at a low point in her life that Gao Shuguang came into her life.

As early as when Jiang Shan starred in "Addicted", Gao Shuguang had already fallen in love with her at first sight and was deeply attracted by her acting skills and charm.

When the two had the opportunity to co-star in the TV series, Gao Shuguang was excited, and he devoted himself to cooperating with Jiang Shan, doing his best to show his most real and interesting side.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Every morning, he got up early and waited for Jiang Shan to go to the crew at the hotel, still carrying the breakfast carefully prepared for her - a bun that had been covered and changed shape.

When Jiang Shan took the bun, Gao Shuguang deliberately made it look like he was burned, jumping left and right, which made Jiang Shan laugh and laugh again and again.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In those boring and lost days, Gao Shuguang was like a ray of sunshine, warming Jiang Shan's heart with his humor and enthusiasm, and making Jiang Shan deeply attracted to him.

Soon after marriage, 31-year-old Jiang Shan gave birth to a daughter for Gao Shuguang, named Gao Yixin.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Choosing to have children at the prime age of actresses has undoubtedly had a significant impact on Jiang Shan's star journey.

Faced with the call of love and family, Jiang Shan resolutely made this decision, put her career on hold for the time being, and devoted herself wholeheartedly to family life.

When the child was two years old, Jiang Shan found that she couldn't suppress her love and desire for acting, she handed her daughter over to the care of her parents and decided to return to filming.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

This time, she cooperated with her old partner Wang Zhiwen again, and successively filmed works such as "Tell Your Secret", "Life and Death Express", and "The Sun Never Sets".

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

The tacit cooperation between Jiang Shan and Wang Zhiwen in "Addiction" has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and many viewers regard them as "talented women, a match made in heaven", and even after learning that the two worked together again, fans' letters poured in like snowflakes, expressing their hope that Wang Zhiwen and Jiang Shan could come together in real life.

[5] Jiang Shan and Jin Dong's five-year relationship across ages

After ending her married life, Jiang Shan devoted herself to her acting career, and starred in many works such as "Mansion Gate 2" and "Conquest".

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

At this time, Jiang Shan has faded away from the youthfulness of her youth, and has more dignified and mature charm given by the years, and this unique temperament deeply attracted the actor Jin Dong, who was 9 years younger than her.

In 2006, 39-year-old Jiang Shan met Jin Dong, who had just turned 30, in the TV series "Sad Mother and Son", they played mother and son in the play, but developed a love relationship in reality, which surprised many people.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

During the filming, Jin Dong's love for Jiang Shan increased day by day, he didn't care about the age gap, and sincerely pursued Jiang Shan.

At first, Jiang Shan just took care of Jin Dong as a younger brother, but Jin Dong's meticulous care and thoughtfulness finally moved her, making her regain her girlish tenderness in front of this man younger than herself.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Although the outside world has talked a lot about their relationship of "strong women and weak men" and "taking the opportunity to take the position", Jiang Shan and Jin Dong are immersed in each other's world, enjoying a sweet relationship for five years, and once came to the point of talking about marriage.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

For Jiang Shan, the opinions of her family are particularly important, especially her daughter's feelings.

The adolescent daughter, who was adamantly opposed to her mother's remarriage, firmly believed that her parents were only temporarily separated and that there was still a possibility of reuniting.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

And Jin Dong's appearance seems to indicate that the dream of family reunion will not be realized, which makes her daughter extremely resistant.

In the face of her daughter's pain and persistence, Jiang Shan fell into a dilemma, and in the end, she chose family affection, and for the sake of her daughter's growth and mental health, she reluctantly gave up her five-year relationship with Jin Dong and ended this controversial but warm relationship.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

[6] Low-key remarriage Tian Xiaojie

After ending their relationship with Jiang Shan, Jin Dong and Li Jia entered the marriage hall and had a son, and their family life was happy.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

At the same time, Gao Shuguang also ushered in a new chapter in his life at the age of 51, he married Ling, the queen of a wealthy businessman who was 15 years younger than him, and the two welcomed their second son soon after marriage.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today
Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In the face of her parents reorganizing their families, her daughter Gao Yixin's attitude has also changed.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Realizing that her mother was alone, she began to respect and support her in her search for new happiness.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In 2010, there was news that Jiang Shan had a boyfriend who was 15 years younger than her - young actor Zhang Bo.

The two met because of their cooperation in the TV series "Three Kingdoms", Zhang Bo played the role of Sun Quan in the play, and there were many rivalries with Jiang Shan, and it was rumored that the two had an ambiguous relationship outside the play.

Although Gao Yixin no longer opposes his mother's new relationship this time, the outside world is not optimistic about this sister-brother relationship with a huge age gap, and public opinion is full of discussions.

In the face of doubts and criticism, Gao Yixin stood firmly by his mother's side and strongly supported Jiang Shan's choice: "As long as my mother likes it, I have no opinion, I believe in her vision." ”

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

When the media interviewed Zhang Bo and tried to understand his true relationship with Jiang Shan, Zhang Bo's answer was unpredictable.

He first said that he has a macho tendency in life and likes to take care of others, so he prefers to associate with younger people of the opposite sex.

After a change of conversation, he mentioned that sometimes he thinks that older women know how to take care of people better, considering that he is filming outside all the year round, and his elderly parents at home also need to take care of him, so he will also consider this when choosing a mate.

Zhang Bo's ambiguous statement can't help but make people question his sincerity: Is his affection for Jiang Shan out of sincere emotional impulse, or is there other considerations?

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

In the face of speculation and doubts about Zhang Bo's attitude from the outside world, Jiang Shan did not give a clear response.

When the media asked her about her relationship status, Jiang Shan neither admitted nor denied her relationship with Zhang Bo, and remained silent.

Until 2018, Jiang Shan, who has rarely participated in variety shows, made an exception to participate in the recording of "The King of Crossover Singers", and won the championship with her outstanding performance.

At the moment of her acceptance speech, she revealed a surprising secret to the audience: her life partner was actor Tian Xiaojie.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

At this point, people suddenly realized that Jiang Shan had already remarried in a low-key manner, and her other half was not the rumored Zhang Bo.

[7] Tian Xiaojie and Jiang Shan's fate began with a gathering in the circle

Tian Xiaojie is an actor with rich acting experience, and has created many impressive roles in works such as "Before Dawn" and "The Years of Burning Passion", which can be said to be an authentic "old drama bone".

When he was young, Tian Xiaojie, who had just graduated from junior high school, was just an ordinary worker who wore dirty overalls every day and buried himself in repairing cars and repairing tires.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Until he was 28 years old, by chance, Tian Xiaojie was attracted by the fun of acting in the process of delivering goods to the crew, and then with the support of his family, he mustered up the courage to apply for the Central Academy of Drama.

Tian Xiaojie's first marriage partner was also an insider in the entertainment industry, named Zeng Ping.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

The two were married for nine years, but sadly, this marriage did not bear children.

Tian Xiaojie's family conditions are not superior, although she has been filming in the film and television industry for many years, she has always hovered in the more than a dozen lines of the entertainment industry, but her works are not popular, and her career development has not been able to achieve a big breakthrough.

A key problem that broke down the marriage was that Tian Xiaojie had always longed to have a child, but Zeng Ping resolutely refused to have children, and the two finally chose to divorce after constant quarrels.

And Tian Xiaojie's fate with the well-known actor Jiang Shan began at an in-circle gathering in 2016.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

That day, Jiang Shan wore a comfortable and fashionable red suit with beige shoulders, showing the unique charm and elegance of a mature woman, which was more radiant than the image on the screen, which deeply attracted Tian Xiaojie's attention.

Although the two had heard each other's names before, they had never had an in-depth exchange.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Tian Xiaojie plucked up the courage to go and talk, but she didn't expect to find out that they were alumni during this conversation, and the same experience and love for art made the two talk happily and established a preliminary connection.

In the days that followed, Tian Xiaojie maintained a good interaction with Jiang Shan, and solved a big problem for Jiang Shan at some critical moments.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

And Jiang Shan didn't think much about Tian Xiaojie at first, but with the matchmaking and encouragement of her daughter Gao Yixin, the two gradually deepened their understanding and finally came together.

Tian Xiaojie is three years younger than Jiang Shan, and although the age gap is not large, their relationship is growing deeper and deeper in understanding, support and mutual assistance.

When Jiang Shan was about to play the role of a surgeon, in order to better understand the role, she wanted to go to the hospital to experience life on the spot, but she was repeatedly rejected, which troubled her.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

At this time, Tian Xiaojie appeared at the right time and told her that he had a friend who worked in the hospital and was willing to help solve the problem.

With the assistance of Tian Xiaojie, Jiang Shan successfully entered the hospital to experience the role, and she was full of gratitude to Tian Xiaojie for her help, so the two had more exchanges and the relationship gradually deepened.

When the time came to 2017, Tian Xiaojie mustered up the courage to confess to Jiang Shan, but in view of Jiang Shan's previous emotional experience, she politely rejected Tian Xiaojie, saying that she didn't want to get involved in emotional matters anymore.

Tian Xiaojie was not discouraged by this, he found another way and decided to start with Jiang Shan's relatives, especially her daughter Gao Yixin and parents.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Tian Xiaojie got in touch with the adult Gao Yixin through social platforms and frankly expressed her willingness to pursue Jiang Shan.

Gao Yixin witnessed her mother's hardships when she was growing up, and she was deeply touched by Tian Xiaojie's sincerity and enthusiasm, she readily agreed to help, and gave a strategy, so that Tian Xiaojie would first start by pleasing Jiang Shan's parents.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Tian Xiaojie followed Gao Yixin's suggestion to visit Jiang Shan's parents frequently, give gifts, and take the initiative to help with housework, and his sincerity and filial piety gradually won the love of the two old people.

Jiang Shan's father is an insider himself, and he knows that Tian Xiaojie is reliable and simple, so he actively persuaded his daughter to accept Tian Xiaojie.

Facing the whole family's turn of "assist", Jiang Shan felt both funny and moved, but she didn't expect Tian Xiaojie to be able to touch the hearts of her family so skillfully.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

With the matchmaking of relatives and friends and Tian Xiaojie's unremitting efforts, Jiang Shan began to re-examine Tian Xiaojie, recalling the bits and pieces of the two getting along and Tian Xiaojie's sincerity, she began to trust Tian Xiaojie, and felt that maybe this was the fate of fate.

In December 2018, Jiang Shan and Tian Xiaojie formally established their relationship, and agreed to take three years as the deadline, if they can run in smoothly, they will enter the marriage hall, and if they can't adapt, they will return to the position of friends amicably.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

After three years of getting along, in 2021, Jiang Shan and Tian Xiaojie's relationship is still strong, and the two can no longer leave each other.

Tian Xiaojie proposed to Jiang Shan at the right time, and Jiang Shan was moved to tears and readily agreed.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

This story, which was sublimated from friendship to love, finally came to fruition under the witness of family and time.

[8] Jiang Shan's charm is revealed

From Wang Zhiwen, Gao Shuguang, Jin Dong to Tian Xiaojie, a series of high-quality male names reveal the fact that Jiang Shan seems to have a magical magnetic field that always attracts these talented and charismatic men.

Although her self-deprecating and stubborn personality may scare away some people, in the eyes of many men, Jiang Shan's "feminine power" is like a magnet, which is irresistible.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

To put it simply, femininity is a woman's ability to relate to the world, and to connect with others and meet her own needs in her own unique way, and to show charm and influence in the process.

Psychologist Sigmund Freud believed that relationships are the essence of human beings, and the essence of women is to connect with others in a way that is unique to women.

Therefore, women with strong femininity are often more likely to "get what they want" in interpersonal interactions.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

This source of power to get what you want is largely due to the male mother-love complex.

The mother-lover complex mentioned here is not a derogatory "mom boy" phenomenon, but refers to the fact that when every man grows up, the first object of love is often his mother.

Around the age of six, boys develop a desire to have their mother alone, and as they grow older, although they understand that this is not possible, the love for their mother is deeply imprinted in their hearts and becomes an emotional trigger mechanism deep in their hearts.

When a woman shows strong femininity, she may touch the deep mother-love complex in the heart of men, turn on their heart switch, and awaken their memory of the unconditional love and care for their mother.

Such a woman will make men feel a strong desire to protect and pamper, they are willing to pay for her, and they are willing to accompany her through the ups and downs of life.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Jiang Shan's charm lies precisely in her ability to easily activate men's heart switches, whether it is her ex-husband Gao Shuguang, or her ex-boyfriends Wang Zhiwen and Jin Dong, they have all been deeply attracted to Jiang Shan, and they take good care of her and love her.

Carefully dissecting Jiang Shan's charm code, we will find that her greatest strength lies in her strong self-regulation and sorting ability.

No matter what kind of difficulties she faces, she always remains calm and peaceful, and this inner sense of stability allows her to navigate the complexities of life.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Quality men tend to have their own temper and personality, and they don't open up to others easily.

And Jiang Shan's tolerance and understanding make these men willing to give their hearts to her, because she knows how to respect their dignity and can give them companionship and support when they are most vulnerable.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Compared with her dazzling beauty, Jiang Shan's gentle and deep charm is even more irresistible.

As the Russian writer said, the more mentally mature a man is, the more he can appreciate the inner beauty of women, and for them, "motherhood" is the most dazzling light of women.

Women with strong femininity naturally attract these high-quality men because of the ideal mother traits they display.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

Gender is a destiny that everyone cannot choose or change, but we can choose to accept and live our own femininity.

Regardless of personality, every woman should learn to accept her own feminine identity and give full play to her unique charm.

Because only by seeing oneself clearly can one illuminate others, and only by accepting oneself can one have the power to change one's destiny.

For women, having a happy marriage is a blessing in itself.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

And improving women's power is the secret to this happiness.

Now, Jiang Shan has entered the age of 57, and the years seem to be particularly kind to her, and her appearance still maintains the youthful vitality of the 20-year-old age.

Jiang Shan, the goddess of casualness, was chic in the world after the divorce, fell in love with a tough guy four times, and is happy to be with her new husband today

We only hope that this glamorous woman can spend the rest of her life with her current husband Tian Xiaojie in peace and enjoy their happy time.

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