◈ Author: Yu Chen
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◈ I hope to look at the classics from a different perspective and give you a different world
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"Yesterday I only tutored the 2nd grade composition and the 6th grade reading comprehension, and just discussed with them how to write the homework, but I felt angina before the evening......
Guan Ling went to the hospital for angina pectoris because of tutoring her child's homework, although there was no plaque in her heart, she still had palpitations and warned parents - you must cherish your body.
This topic was on the hot search at once, and when I saw the resonance in the comment area, I suddenly saw through the "two major crises" of middle-aged people!
disease
Guan Ling said in the video:
"At this age, I'm really afraid to come to the hospital, first, I can't have anything, and second, my family can't have anything. ”
Guan Ling's heartfelt exposure undoubtedly poked at the hearts of many parents.
When people reach middle age, they are not afraid of anything, they are afraid that their bodies will not be able to bear it, they are afraid that they will not be able to work, they will not be able to earn money, and they are afraid of bringing burden and pressure to their children.
In this position, where there are old and young, middle-aged people dare not easily show laxity and fatigue.
However, how can things be as good as they should be, how can the years be quiet!
Therefore, Guan Ling was so angry that she went to the hospital to check her heart, not that she was really angry with her child, but that her body was also collapsing and worn out over time.
Therefore, the health crisis of middle-aged people is showing signs and pain in educating children.
Disease has become the first major problem that middle-aged people have to face!
The future of the child
If it is said that it is normal for parents to be angry about their children's homework, then I think how many parents have also grown up like this, so naturally there are also whimsical thoughts that anger parents.
So, why do parents know that their children are not incompetent and useless, nor are they stupid and stupid, but they still have to work hard to educate their children to learn?
Haven't they experienced it when they are angry with their parents? Are they full of wisdom and peace of mind?
Obviously they have experienced and done it, so why should they ask their children like this?
In fact, behind the parents' demand for their children's good academic performance is the greatest concern and deepest love of parents for their children.
Why?
When everyone is working hard, as parents, they don't want their children to be compared, squeezed out, and eliminated.
Because parents know:
The society is complex and not easy to mix, and working hard in the society is to be tortured and exploited, and that feeling is too uncomfortable.
Therefore, behind the parents' request for their children to learn, it is actually the parents who hope that their children will not follow their own old path, or go to the easy road they have already walked.
As the saying goes, everything is inferior, but only reading is high.
This truth is a real fact after all!
Therefore, when a child faces his parents, he sees a monster in his eyes, and when he looks at his child, he sees a nasty little stupid pig, then this battle is bound to be in deep water, and you will live and die.
But no matter what, the child's path has to be taken by the child himself, and the parents can only manage their own life.
After all, no one can live for someone else.
And Guan Ling said something at the end, which I think is particularly meaningful.
She said to the camera:
"When I walked out of the hospital, wow, my eyes were bright and my mood was very comfortable, so at this time, do you still think that the score of the second unit exam is so important? Do you still feel so anxious about writing essays? I feel like it's all gone, as if I have seen it...... Be happy, live more for yourself, body, body is important!"
People, only when they lose will they cherish it, and only after they have endured all the hardships will they understand the meaning of health.
Therefore, Guan Ling was so angry that he went to the doctor, this incident is a kind of wake-up call!