Preface
Helping children with their homework can be a painful task for many parents. The celebrity mother Guan Ling was hospitalized for a check-up because of this, and her physical condition was worrying. How did this veteran actor stumble on the road to parenting, and how did she gradually find parenting wisdom? Let's take a look at the parenting confession of this "rebellious" mother!
01. Guan Ling sought medical treatment for tutoring children with homework
With the role of "Jia Yuanyuan" in the sitcom "I Love My Home", Guan Ling has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. This actor, who has been on the screen since childhood, is now in his forties. On April 12, which had just celebrated his 42nd birthday, Guan Ling suddenly posted a picture of himself being treated in an international hospital in Beijing on social media, which instantly attracted widespread attention from netizens.
It turned out that just the night before, Guan Ling was just tutoring her eight-year-old daughter in writing essays and her 12-year-old son in reading comprehension homework very usually. She didn't yell at the children, she didn't lose her temper, she just patiently discussed how to complete her homework. But just as the counseling was over and ready to go to bed, Guan Ling felt a sharp colic in his heart, tightened one after another, and his breathing began to become laborious. As a middle-aged mother with an elderly person and a child, Guan Ling's heart was suddenly full of apprehension and worry.
Although Guan Ling said that she had always been afraid of going to the hospital, early the next morning, in order to completely relieve her doubts, she still called a car to rush to the hospital, where she hung up the number of the cardiovascular department for a comprehensive examination. Under the doctor's arrangement, Guan Ling first did a color ultrasound examination of the carotid artery. The results of the examination showed some thickening of the lining of her carotid artery, but fortunately, there was no plaque formation and it was not possible to diagnose heart disease for the time being. Although there is no major problem for the time being, Guan Ling also reflected on the troubles of tutoring children's homework. How could a seemingly simple parent's homework make her physically and mentally exhausted to such a point?
02. Guan Ling shares the frustration of educating children
As a master's degree with outstanding academic qualifications, Guan Ling has made remarkable achievements in his career. But even such an erudite and talented person can feel extremely frustrated and helpless when facing her children's homework. On social media, Guan Ling confessed that she was unable to control even the composition and reading comprehension of elementary school students, which hit her hard.
In the face of Guan Ling's speech, netizens expressed their deep sympathy. Tutoring children with homework is a headache for most parents. Some parents laugh at themselves that although their grades were good in school, they are now completely helpless in the face of their children's strange essay topics. Some parents shared that their children's math homework made him at a loss overnight, and he finally got through a problem, but in the blink of an eye, new difficulties struck.
In the face of the enthusiastic response from netizens, Guan Ling also posted a response again. She said that she did feel helpless at that time that she "couldn't explain", and a frustration of having no way to teach and being exhausted came spontaneously. As a veteran of the entertainment industry, Guan Ling is radiant and comfortable in the workplace, but in the trivial matter of tutoring children, she seems so confused, I really didn't expect it. Guan Ling sincerely said that he was indeed hit hard at that time.
03. Guan Ling shares parenting ideas and experiences
After experiencing this medical treatment, Guan Ling seems to have finally been relieved. On social media, she shared her parenting philosophy and experience with parents. First of all, it is to call on parents to cherish their physical health and never hurt themselves for the sake of their children's academic performance. Guan Ling said that compared with the children's test scores, the parents' own health is the most important.
Teaching by example is more important than teaching, Guan Ling not only preaches, but also uses his own actions as a model. She revealed to netizens that she will not only accompany her children to various art interest classes to cultivate their strengths in an all-round way, but also deliberately cultivate their children's ability to live independently. For example, although his son Ji Guangun is only 12 years old, he is already able to cook by himself during the holidays, and he arranges the food for a family of four. Guan Ling said that instead of rote memorization to pursue high scores, she hopes that children will learn to take care of themselves and have the ability to survive independently.
Finally, Guan Ling also issued a warm appeal to all mothers. She said that the process of raising children is like a game of "upgrading and fighting monsters", and it is inevitable that there will be various difficulties and challenges, so parents must learn to "think open". Only by facing it with a positive and optimistic attitude can we calmly cope with the hardships on the road of parenting.
epilogue
Tutoring homework leads to physical problems, have you ever been anxious because of your child's learning? What inspiration did Guan Ling's mother's parenting philosophy give you? Come to the comment area to share your parenting experience and experience~