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Text/Burning Years 82
Edited / Burning Years 82
In this world, there are too many casual encounters, and there are too many unavoidable separations. For star Ariel Lin, the end of her marriage is destined to cause an uproar in public opinion, but her determination to face it bravely shows us the fearlessness of an independent woman.
On a rainy night in August 2023, when everyone was still chasing the drama, a shocking message suddenly swiped the entertainment page: "Ariel Lin announced her divorce!" , a beautiful star who was once known as the "national girl", couldn't escape the curse of marriage. In response to the doubts from the outside world, she did not hide, but stepped forward and responded calmly: "Marriage is a matter of two people, and divorce is a part of life." I hope you will respect my private matters and decisions. "
When it comes to divorce, we tend to have prejudices. "Divorce equals failure", "Divorce is a disgrace", "Divorce has a bad impact on children"...... These negative comments fill our ears. But in fact, maintaining a precarious marriage can only bring more harm to both parties. Ariel Lin bravely let go and chose a new path of his own, which is not only not ashamed, but worthy of admiration.
Marriage is a union of free will, not a shackle. Let's put aside our prejudices and look at divorce objectively. In many cases, it is not that the parties do not cherish the marriage, but that the three views, values, and lifestyles of both parties are gradually drifting apart, and they are no longer able to support each other together. At this time, continuing to barely maintain the bond will only make both parties suffer and suffer a lot. Divorce is sometimes the right way to resolve the issue and avoid further harm.
Be brave enough to face life and not be limited by the world's boxes. Traditionally, divorce is seen as "humiliating" or "unsatisfactory". But in fact, everyone's life is their own, and no one can scrutinize your life choices. Ariel Lin's courageous pursuit of happiness, the courage to face her heart and break through many obstacles is an example for us to learn from. Don't let worldly ideas get in the way of our progress, living our own lives is the most important thing.
A child's health education is more important than a complete family. Many people worry that divorce will cast a shadow on their children. In fact, rather than growing up in an environment full of contradictions and unhappiness, children need a harmonious and positive space to grow up. After the divorce, as long as both parties work together to give the child enough love, the child will definitely grow up healthy and happy. An unharmonious family can have a serious impact on the psychology of children.
We should appreciate Ariel Lin's courage, not judge her harshly. Divorce is a difficult choice for anyone. Ariel Lin made this decision after several struggles and repeated trade-offs, which shows how much she attaches importance to marriage and family. She didn't act rashly, but thought twice. Therefore, we should respect her tenacity and courage more than point fingers at her.
Life is like this, life is nothing more than a process of choice. We have no right to judge other people's choices, let alone use narrow frameworks to limit other people's lives. Ariel Lin's divorce road is enough to make us reflect on the essence of marriage is to support, give and cherish each other, not to torture each other and consume lives. When this harmony is not attainable, divorce becomes a normal life choice, a sign of courage to face life, not an escape. We should appreciate and learn from Ariel Lin's courage and wisdom.
As a first-line artist, Ariel Lin's love life has always been low-key and introverted. In 2017, she married Huang Weishan, a wealthy businessman who has been divorced for many years, and the scene was extravagant and joyful. No one expected that only 6 years later, the golden boy and jade marriage, known as the "model husband and wife", would come to an end. The outside world was in an uproar, speculating wildly whether it was because the age gap between the two sides was too big, or whether there was a third party? Ariel Lin flatly denied it, saying that this was just a difference in the life philosophy of the two people, and it was not as complicated as everyone imagined.
In fact, it is not uncommon to see changes in the entertainment industry and news of celebrity divorces. But even though the celebrity identity and financial resources make most celebrities choose to hide and avoid, Ariel Lin is still brave enough to disclose the truth and respond publicly. Her frank attitude has been affirmed by many people, and some netizens sighed: "I didn't expect the national girl to be so neat and neat, but it is this independent and capable character that has made her unique in her acting career for so many years." "
Everyone has their own understanding of marriage and the right to happiness. Ariel Lin's "renunciation" can be said to demonstrate the self-consciousness and courage of modern independent women. Marriage should not be a shackle, but a mutual support and achievement of two people in life. Once there is a lack of tacit understanding and trust, we should decisively separate to avoid falling into the quagmire and hurting deeply. This may be the reason why she chose to divorce.
Judging from Ariel Lin's public appearance, she is very energetic, and she doesn't look like the gloomy feeling of the word "divorce" at all. She teased from time to time, and even revealed her vision of re-falling in love: "I'm still young, and I will definitely remarry in the future!" This optimistic and positive attitude conveys the idea that divorce is not scary or shameful. On the other hand, compared with her ex-husband, who was rated as a "scumbag", Ariel Lin's arrogant and frank demeanor is more popular and applauded.
In fact, in today's society, the expectations of marriage have changed radically. Most modern people seek freedom and equality, not the marriage that was bound by the old times. Therefore, many young people choose "freedom of marriage", either single or separated. Even after many people get married, they find that they can't get along, and it is normal for them to choose divorce directly. The marriage relationship should be a matter of mutual willingness, rather than "twisting and pinching to escape from the world's eyes" according to the old custom. Ariel Lin is a model of a strong woman who has the courage to admit her mistakes and start over.
Therefore, for Ariel Lin, the divorce incident is by no means a shame, but an opportunity to liberate oneself and reshape one's life. Compared with sticking to a marriage without an emotional foundation, she chooses to face it calmly, which is more charming and commendable. After all, everyone should have the right to pursue happiness and should not be confined to narrow concepts. Only by daring to face oneself and taking responsibility can we truly achieve inner freedom and happiness.
Ariel Lin's divorce has triggered people's deep thinking about the modern concept of marriage. Her image of independence, self-discipline, openness and courage is exactly what a woman should be like today. Marriage should be a relationship between two people who support each other, not shackles. Once you lose the emotional foundation, breaking up bravely is the right choice in life. So, do you also agree with the concept of "divorce is not ashamed"? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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