Preamble:
Life is a journey about the coexistence of happiness and pain, and everyone is constantly pursuing and sticking to the beauty in their hearts. And in this process, we are often troubled by various realistic choices, and we will also experience all kinds of pain and struggles because of our own choices. The recently hit TV series "We Are Not Kind Enough" profoundly explores the theme of life choices and pain through the life experiences of the two heroines, which has aroused heated discussions and thoughts among the audience.
1. Pain is the only way to pursue happiness
In life, everyone will experience all kinds of pain and struggle, which may come from work, family, love, or from the deep confusion and confusion about life and the future. And it is these painful experiences that make us cherish the desire and yearning in our hearts more, and also make us work harder to pursue our own happiness and happiness.
In "We Are Not Kind Enough", the two protagonists played by Ariel Lin and Zheng Yuanchang deeply experience pain and struggle in their respective life choices and emotional experiences. Ariel Lin's character is a thoughtful third party who has experienced great pain and suffering in love and marriage, while Zheng Yuanchang's character is also caught in a difficult choice between his career and family. It is these painful experiences that make them more aware of their hearts and desires, and also make them more courageous and determined on the road to happiness.
From the perspective of the other:
Perhaps in the process of watching the series, we will have various emotions and opinions about the character played by Ariel Lin, and even feel indignant and incomprehensible about her choices and behaviors. However, when we empathize with her, when we feel and understand from her point of view, we may find that the pain and struggle experienced by everyone are so real and profound, and the choices and decisions made by everyone are also indescribably difficult and helpless.
Perhaps, it is precisely because of such pain and struggle that we can face and meet it more bravely, and let us understand and cherish it more deeply. It is precisely because of such pain and struggle that we are brave enough to pursue our heart's desires and yearnings, and that we become stronger and braver.
2. Everyone has their own pain and dilemma
In today's society, people are often swayed and influenced by various factors from the outside world, and they will also produce all kinds of anxiety and confusion in the continuous comparison and choice. Especially under the impact of the Internet age, people often understand and experience the lives of others through various channels, and also yearn for and envy the seemingly beautiful and perfect lives of others.
However, many times, what we see is only the surface and outward appearance of other people's lives, and we cannot truly understand and feel the inner and outer pain of others. Everyone has their own growth and experience, and they all have unspeakable pain and difficulties, so we cannot easily judge and define the choices and circumstances of others, nor can we simply envy and imitate the lives of others.
Perhaps, in the eyes of others, everything we have is so enviable and enviable, however, only we know the effort and price behind it, as well as the pain and struggle experienced. Everyone's life is unique, and every pain and dilemma is meaningful and necessary, and it is these experiences that make us stronger and more mature, and also give us the ability to bear and face the choices and choices in life.
3. Living calmly is also a kind of liberation and growth
In the choices of life, everyone will experience all kinds of contradictions and struggles, and there will be countless nights of regrets and entanglements for their choices and decisions. Whether it is a relationship or a career, whether it is the original choice or the current predicament, every experience will bring us deep touch and reflection.
However, regret does not change what has happened, but rather allows us to indulge in endless pain and suffering. Perhaps, at some point, we need to learn to accept and be calm, learn to believe that the choices we have made are the best, learn to find courage and strength from pain and struggle, and move on.
Perhaps, when we learn to face the various choices and choices in life calmly, and when we can accept the pain and fragility in our hearts, we will truly find the strength to be free and grow. Every choice and experience is a part of our growth path, and every calmness and acceptance is a sublimation and transformation of our hearts.
Epilogue:
Life is a journey of happiness and pain, and choice and pain are always the most profound strokes in our lives. No matter what kind of choices and choices we face, no matter what kind of pain and struggles we experience, I hope we can be brave and firm on the road of pursuing happiness, and we can also know how to be calm and accept in the midst of pain and contradictions, because that calmness is the truest appearance of our hearts and the best proof of our growth.
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Pain is a part of life, so pain cannot be completely erased. What we need to learn is how to reconcile with pain, how to draw strength from pain, and how to find the seeds of happiness in pain.
Pleasure and pain are twin brothers, always with each other. _And it is only in deep pain that the brightest pleasure can be seen.