Xiao Li and Xiao Chen are a seemingly happy couple, they met in college, when they were each other's treasures in each other's eyes, each other's world. Their love is like a delicate rose, blooming in the soil of youth, full of beautiful expectations for the future.
Xiao Li: "Brother Chen, we are really happy, having each other is like owning the whole world. ”
Xiao Chen: "Yes, Sister Li, I don't think I'll ever meet someone more suitable than you in my life. ”
Their love is so natural and natural. However, the grinding of married life and the baptism of time have gradually made them discover that love is not the only cornerstone, it also needs tolerance, understanding and compromise.
The germination of conflict
Day after day, Xiao Li began to gradually notice some of Xiao Chen's minor problems, such as that he always forgot to turn off the lights, always used to throw his socks on the side of the bed, and even sometimes spoke too directly. These seemingly insignificant little things gradually eroded Xiao Li's heart inadvertently.
Xiao Li: "Brother Chen, can you change it? Every time it's like this, I really can't stand it. ”
Xiao Chen: "What's the big deal? I just forgot to turn off the lights. ”
Xiao Li: "It's not once or twice, how many times have you said it?"
Xiao Li's complaint made Xiao Chen feel dissatisfied and aggrieved, he felt that he had done nothing wrong, why did Xiao Li always pick and choose from him? So, a series of quarrels and disputes began between the two.
Emotional disorientation
Gradually, the relationship between Xiao Li and Xiao Chen began to become strained. Communication between them became less and less common, and the Cold War became commonplace. Xiao Li felt that Xiao Chen didn't know how to care and be considerate, while Xiao Chen felt that Xiao Li was making a big fuss and nagging all day long.
Xiao Chen: "Sister Li, are you making a bit of a fuss? This kind of small thing is not a big deal. ”
Xiao Li: "Why do you always say that? Am I wrong about what I said?"
Xiao Chen: "I didn't mean to, don't keep targeting me like this. ”
Xiao Li: "I'm not targeting you, I just think there are more and more problems between us. ”
Xiao Chen: "That's because you're constantly picking on me!"
The words of the two are full of anger and grievance, and they begin to wonder if their relationship with each other is really as strong as it once was.
The turn of the outbreak
Just when Xiao Li and Xiao Chen's relationship was about to collapse, they suddenly realized what was wrong with each other. They understand that marriage is not only about passion and sweet words, but also about understanding and tolerance of each other, and needs each other's support and companionship.
Xiao Li: "Brother Chen, I know I went too far before, I'm sorry. ”
Xiao Chen: "Sister Li, in fact, I also have a lot of shortcomings, and we all need to tolerate and understand each other. ”
Xiao Li: "I'm sorry, I'll try to be more considerate of you in the future. ”
Xiao Chen: "I will also try my best to change myself, so let's start all over again. ”
The conflict between Xiao Li and Xiao Chen did not pull them apart, on the contrary, it made them strengthen their feelings for each other. They learn to listen and tolerate, and they learn to find warmth and comfort in each other.
Transformation and growth
After a period of hard work and communication, the relationship between Xiao Li and Xiao Chen gradually improved. They learn how to deal with their conflicts and differences, and rebuild a healthy and strong intimate relationship.
Xiao Li: "Brother Chen, thank you for your continued tolerance and support. ”
Xiao Chen: "Sister Li, we are a family, and loving each other is the most important thing. ”
Xiao Li: "Yes, I believe that our love will go deeper and deeper, and it will go on forever. ”
Their long-distance love run is destined to be full of twists and turns and challenges, but they are willing to support each other and get through every period of life together. They understand that love is not smooth sailing, but as long as there is love in their hearts, they can overcome everything.
Summary:
The story of Xiao Li and Xiao Chen tells us that the long-distance love run is not easy, but as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we can overcome all difficulties. Love needs not only romance and passion, but also firmness and patience. Let's cheer for the long-distance run of love, and believe that on the road ahead, we will all find our own happiness.