She is a senior actor, praised by the media as "the most perfect Yue Linshan", and is the ceiling of appearance in the large-scale costume drama "Wu Zetian".
She is Miao Yiyi, the winner of the 2005 South Korean Government Outstanding Actress Award.
When he was famous all over the world and his film and television career was in full swing, he chose to hide it from his parents and secretly got married with an unknown young actor.
He was also in a car accident at the happiest moment, and he was left with facial nerve damage (facial paralysis).
Every important moment in life seems to have accidents, and Miao Yiyi has achieved her happy self with choice and persistence.
01
A debut by accident
Miao Yiyi was born in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province in 1975, his mother is a famous screenwriter, and his father is a wealthy Japanese businessman.
Coming from a privileged family, she spent her secondary and tertiary years in Australia.
In order to cultivate their daughter's independence, Miao Yiyi's parents never spoiled their daughter and encouraged her to use her spare time to work to subsidize her life.
Time passed slowly, Miao Yiyi grew up and became more and more beautiful, and many male classmates who admired her began to appear around.
In participating in an event organized by the school, Miao Yiyi, who was dressed beautifully, amazed everyone present as soon as she appeared, and her best friend quipped when she saw this: "You have such good conditions, if you don't act, it's a pity." ”
This sentence made Miao Yiyi, a business major, have the idea that acting can experience a different life, and the major he studied is indeed a bit boring.
One day, Miao Yiyi told his mother that he wanted to engage in acting career.
Yao Yun, who learned her daughter's thoughts, was surprised: "The entertainment industry is not about fun, the water in it is deep, you have to think about it." ”
Thinking of the boring and boring major he studied, Miao Yiyi said with a firm look in his eyes: "It's okay, I'm not afraid, I want to see how deep the water in the entertainment industry is." ”
Hearing this, Yao Yun didn't say anything anymore.
As the saying goes, "wealth has no roots, and everything is gained from diligence", Miao Yiyi often goes to the door of the crew to learn art, and whenever she hears the director pointing out the actors, she will stop and listen.
Later, under the operation of the screenwriter's mother, Miao Yiyi made her debut in the filming of "Tears in Taipei", and Miao Yiyi was extremely nervous when she participated in the filming for the first time, and her eyes were erratic, but fortunately, she was more dedicated and knew how to ask the crew for advice.
It didn't take long for him to enter the state of filming, and the final work was praised by his mother: "The acting is good, I didn't expect my daughter to act well." ”
With the encouragement of her family, Miao Yiyi fell in love with acting, and she used her vacation time to take over film and television dramas such as "Wu Zetian". In the process of filming, the crew once commented on her: "This girl is really handsome, she is a good seedling for filming."
At the age of 26, Miao Yiyi took over the filming of the martial arts drama "Smiling Proud Jianghu", and her role as Yue Lingshan was full of aura and lively, which left a deep impression on the audience.
Miao Yiyi himself said confidently before filming: "Although I am not a professional actor, I will not let anyone question my acting skills." ”
Because he was afraid that his acting skills would not be enough to delay the progress of the crew's work, Miao Yiyi got up early every morning to ask the director for advice in the crew.
Even without taking care of breakfast, she began to rehearse the script, and her colleagues were afraid that Miao Yiyi would burn her body, so they would bring her some breakfast every morning.
Miao Yiyi persevered like this for a long time, and finally his hard work paid off.
She played the little junior sister Yue Lingshan vividly, vividly showing a pure and lovely, brutal and naughty little junior sister in front of everyone.
Some netizens even commented on it: "martial arts beauty".
In addition to her acting skills, Miao Yiyi is also worth mentioning her love road, which can be said to be a tortuous and difficult road.
02
The "rebellion" of the proud daughter of heaven
At that time, Qidao was still an unknown young actor, and his family conditions were average, compared to Miao Yiyi, it can be said that he is a heaven and an underground.
In the eyes of most people, these two people belong to the shallow well and the river is deep, and the gap between family conditions is too big.
But Miao Yiyi didn't care about these at all, and she didn't care what outsiders thought.
In 2004, Miao Yiyi met the actor Qidao, who was three months older than him, during the filming of "The Secret of Guanzhong".
Miao Yiyi's stills from "The Secret of Guanzhong".
Different from Miao Yiyi, Qidao graduated from Zheng'er Bajing Drama Academy, during the filming of "The Secret of Guanzhong", due to the tight filming time, the actors' expressions were changed, body cooperation and other actions were required, Miao Yiyi obviously felt that Qidao was more relaxed than her.
Qi Dao saw Miao Yiyi's adoring eyes and said: "These skills are all possessed by professional training, you belong to the halfway debut, we will definitely be able to perform this drama well if we run in more." ”
After Miao Yiyi heard Qidao's words, she made up her mind: "I won't hold you back, one day my acting skills will surpass yours." ”
Qidao never expected that Miao Yiyi, who looked sweet, would be so tough in his heart.
He became interested in this girl and began to care for her in work and life, so much so that he would bring Miao Yiyi some delicacies made by himself.
Qidao studies cooking in his spare time at work, and the taste of each meal is mainly Miao Yiyi.
Since then, Qidao and Miao Yiyi can always be seen eating together on the set.
Someone in the crew quipped: "Qidao, don't fool us Miao Yiyi." ”
Of course, Qidao did not "disappoint" the crew, "Honghong" and "Guan Qingshu" fell in love with each other in the play, and the relationship between Qidao and Miao Yiyi also heated up quickly outside the play.
In Miao Yiyi's mind, Qidao is not only upright, but also a good actor with acting talent and dedication. In Qidao's heart, Miao Yiyi is a naughty and cute good girl, and her desire to protect is also aroused.
One is humorous, the other is smart and cute, and before you know it, both of them fall in love.
The good times didn't last long, and when Miao Yiyi informed his parents of the relationship between the two, Miao Yiyi's family was not satisfied with this actor from an ordinary family.
Yao Yun knew that she was with Qi Dao, so angry that she almost fainted, pointed at Miao Yiyi's nose and scolded: "Is marriage a joke? I don't agree, don't you have anything to do with him in the future." ”
Miao Yiyi disagreed: "Mom, I'm not a child anymore, I know what kind of person is suitable for me, I believe that Qidao will definitely be good to me and give me happiness." ”
The relationship between Miao Yiyi and Qidao seems to Miao Yiyi's parents to be the wrong one. However, Miao Yiyi decided that this life was Qidao, and without his parents knowing, he took the family's household registration book and registered his marriage with Qidao.
At this time, Qidao understood that Miao Yiyi's approach was wrong, and wanted to try to dissuade him: "Why don't we discuss it with the parents of both sides again?"
But Miao Yiyi was already carried away by love, and directly retorted: "No need to discuss, I believe you will be good to me in the future, family or nothing is as important as you"
Hearing this, Qi Dao didn't say anything anymore, but he was more determined in his heart to be good to Miao Yiyi in the future.
In this way, it was not until Miao Yiyi was more than 3 months pregnant that she had symptoms of frequent vomiting at home, and her mother Yao Yun knew that her daughter had secretly married.
She roared loudly: "Why are you so unreassuring, you are deliberately angry with me and your father! Marriage is a big deal, how can you be so childish?"
Miao Yiyi disagreed: "Why is it child's play? I have been with Qidao for a long time! I don't care, I only recognize Qidao alone in my life." ”
Qidao, who was not treated by his mother-in-law, couldn't bear to see Miao Yiyi being blamed by his family, so he came to apologize, but Yao Yun refused: "You don't have to apologize, I don't accept it, your best apology is to stay away from my daughter." ”
Qidao's heart was very uncomfortable, but he was relieved when he thought of the gap between himself and Miao Yiyi, and Miao Yiyi still had confidence in her husband: "Don't worry, my mother will recognize you after a long time, and time will give all the answers." ”
In July 2005, Miao Yiyi gave birth to a healthy baby girl in Beijing. Yao Yun was afraid that her daughter would not rest well during the confinement, so she went to the hospital to take care of Miao Yiyi by herself.
Qidao also fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband, filmed diligently during the day, and immediately went home to prepare delicious meals for Miao Yiyi as soon as he got off work, and did his best to take care of Miao Yiyi with his mother-in-law.
Seeing Qidao treat his daughter so wholeheartedly, Yao Yun recognized his daughter's marriage and accepted Qidao in his heart.
Mr. and Mrs. Chido with their daughter
It's a pity that waves of unevenness have risen again and again, and it didn't take long for Miao Yiyi and Qidao's happy life to encounter great changes.
03
The realistic version of the infatuated mandarin duck
In order to settle down in Beijing as soon as possible, after her daughter turned 1 year old, Miao Yiyi began to go out to work, and worked hard with her husband Qidao to earn money and prepare to buy a house in Beijing.
In 2006, Miao Yiyi was invited to star in the TV series "Golden Wedding", but unfortunately, during the filming process, Miao Yiyi's car had an accident and a traffic accident occurred.
Stills from "Golden Wedding".
At that time, Miao Yiyi only felt a little pain in her face, and didn't think much about it, after all, she still had to film, and it wasn't until she started acting that Miao Yiyi realized how serious her injury was, and she didn't even finish the plot with no expression in the second half.
After the shooting, Miao Yiyi hurriedly went to the hospital for examination, and the results of the examination showed that the nerve tissue in Miao Yiyi's face was destroyed and nerve repair surgery was needed.
What is very touching is that as soon as Qidao learned of the accident, he put down his work, hurriedly flew to his wife's side, and took care of her every step of the way.
Although the doctor repaired it, some of the nerve tissue could not be restored to its original appearance, and in short, her facial expressions were not as rich as before.
For an actor, facial paralysis is the fatal killer of his career.
In the hospital, Miao Yiyi, who had just passed anesthesia, said with a blank face: "Husband, what's wrong with my face?"
Qidao couldn't help but cry with a whimper, and his tears kept flowing when he couldn't speak.
At this time, Miao Yiyi seemed to realize something, she was very hopeful that a miracle would happen, but miracles would only appear in fairy tales.
After learning from the doctor that he would end up with "facial paralysis" in the future, Miao Yiyi felt a thunderbolt from the sky, and it seemed that the whole sky was about to fall.
In the days that followed, Miao Yiyi often refused to accept the reality with tears, and Qidao patiently comforted her: "My wife is fine, you pay more attention to rest, doctors are all picking the worst case and saying it, you will definitely be able to film after you get better." ”
This car accident brought a heavy blow to Miao Yiyi's career and appearance, and completely changed her originally bright life trajectory.
Qi Dao understood that Miao Yiyi's heart was very traumatic, so he took his daughter to the hospital and tried to give his wife more warm company.
"The trough is a kind of adjustment in the course of life", and it is precisely because of this accident that the relationship between the husband and wife has been sublimated again.
Later, Miao Yiyi gradually walked out with the careful company and encouragement of her husband, and then completed the unfinished "Golden Wedding".
Miao Yiyi's "The Woman Under the Archway" stills
Miao Yiyi, who refused to admit defeat, tried to take over the filming of "The Woman Under the Archway" and "Bloodline".
But she found that her expression could not achieve the desired effect when she was injured in the face, so she could only be forced to withdraw from the circle and teach her husband and children at home with peace of mind.
It was the darkest moment of her life.
At home, Qidao comforted his wife: "It's not a bad thing that you don't take over the play, it's not a bad thing to focus on the family, if the two of us work outside for a long time, it is not conducive to the growth of our daughter, and I will earn money to support the family in the future." ”
Outside, whenever he mentions that his wife has retired to the background due to illness, Qidao can't help but cry, after all, his wife was also an excellent actor, and her dream cannot be realized for some reason.
Love does not distinguish between rich and poor, whether it is in its prime or weathered, true love is always the long-term dedication and companionship.
After this accident, Miao Yiyi and his mother Yao Yun also saw this young man thoroughly, Qidao is definitely a man worth entrusting.
Since then, Miao Yiyi has rarely appeared on TV, and she officially retired from the circle and retreated behind the scenes.
With the business knowledge she learned abroad at a young age, she gradually became an excellent film and television investor.
Qidao also continued to improve, and eventually became a well-known director and actor.
The spy war drama "Infernal" jointly created by the husband and wife caused a huge sensation and received countless praises: "She used her indomitable heart to bloom a flower in a desperate situation." ”
Looking back on the story of Miao Yiyi and Qidao, from the beginning when outsiders felt unequal, to gaining the understanding and support of their families.
"The peak attracts hypocritical spectators, and the dusk witnesses pious believers", although Miao Yiyi suffered Waterloo at her peak, she was glad that she met a rare confidant in this world.
Qidao, who was not favored by her family, taught everyone a lesson when Miao Yiyi was at a low point, and let her live a happy life after experiencing major changes.
Today, Qidao and Miao Yiyi have spent twenty springs, summers, autumns and winters together.
The winds and waves along the way did not knock them down, but made their love more pure, and Qidao proved that Miao Yiyi did not marry the wrong person back then.
As Immanuel Kant, the founder of classical philosophy, said, "Since I have embarked on this path, nothing should hinder me from following it." ”