In love, breaking up is a very normal thing.
Too many romances will never come to the day of marriage, even if they get married, they will not go to the end, and one day they will still be separated.
When it comes to falling in love, many current ones will eventually become their exes and become people who are no longer close to themselves.
It stands to reason that whenever two people are separated and no longer lovers, there should be no more entanglements, they should only move forward, each pursue their own lives, and do not delay each other, but there are always times when two people are not clean at all.
Your ex, even if they are no longer your partner, will still contact you occasionally.
In other words, they didn't get in touch at first, but one day they suddenly found you.
The other party will take the initiative to find you and chat with you from time to time, but they will not mention the reunion, and there is no such meaning, and the current person treats you like this, and this behavior is not difficult to understand.
After thinking about it, look at your attitude first.
When two people are together, the more they care, the easier it is to magnify some small things and produce a lot of contradictions.
I especially mind those things, and I will suspect that each other is not suitable, and then it will be easy to want to give up the relationship, thinking that maybe I will just let go, and then it may be better to change someone.
A lot of feelings may not have much of a problem, often because of some trivial things, and then there is no future.
It's just that before separation, I always felt that nothing was good, but once I separated, the whole person calmed down, but it was a different mentality, and at this time, I would no longer always stare at those little things and shortcomings, but it would be easier to remember their own good.
The more I think about it, the more I feel that I shouldn't have let go in the first place, and I start to feel that it was actually good at the beginning.
At this time, if you go around and around and don't recognize someone who is more suitable, you will want to go back and grasp the feelings you once had.
After losing a relationship, you may be like this, and so is your ex, who has long forgotten about the unhappiness and began to want to reconcile with you as time goes by.
will have such thoughts, but the other party doesn't understand what you think, so they won't bring it up all at once, they will only contact you first, become familiar with you again, and then test your meaning little by little, waiting for the right time.
Still a little worried, just talk about it.
Some breakups, it is always very tragic, and when they separate, they make a lot of trouble with each other, and they directly turn against each other.
But more separation, but only relatively peaceful, not so noisy, hysterical, but very friendly, and able to speak calmly, and then meet and say hello.
I really feel that each other is not suitable, but I still feel that I can be friends again.
Just that kind of ordinary friends, you can occasionally chat, greet each other, and give each other a certain amount of care.
If you want to be in that kind of relationship, sometimes you really miss each other, you will be curious about the other person's current situation, and you want to participate.
When a person has such a mind and such thoughts, he will appear in your life from time to time, talk to you, talk to you, and ask how you are doing, whether you have met other people, and whether you feel happy.
It's just a very simple idea, and it doesn't mean anything else, after all, we have been together, after all, we have recognized each other.
Such an ex may only take the initiative to contact you during this period of time, and when he is busy and has a new relationship, he will gradually stop looking for you, and may always appear from time to time, but the frequency is not too high.
It's like finding a place to talk, finding an outlet for your mood, thinking that you're good for that role.
It's just a pastime, and I even want to take advantage of it.
There are also people who don't want to reconcile after separation, and they don't have any friendship with you, but they just feel bored, have nothing to do, and have nowhere to put their emotions, so they come back to you.
Let's see if you'll be able to find a little solace from you so that you can pass the time and live.
Anyway, when you feel bored, I will go to find you, someone to talk to, you can come and go, why not.
As for when you have something to do, when there are people around you, they naturally can't think of you, they won't go to you at all, and even forget your existence for a long time, even if you take the initiative to contact, they don't bother to deal with and deal with you.
An ex with such a mentality may just be purely for fun, without other bad intentions, and may still think that if you are willing to be here, it is best to have some intimate contact with you again, without any responsibility.
With such thoughts, I still think that I just take what I need, and I don't care what you think at all.
In addition, there may be something that wants to get something from you, such as money, such as something, such as some care.
Take advantage of what you may have to do to achieve your goals, and then when you want to leave, you can leave in style, no matter what you will do, whether it will disturb you, or whether it will make you uncomfortable.
After the breakup, the ex always contacts you, but does not mention the reunion, what the specific situation, as long as you calmly analyze, you can actually find out.
In this regard, if you don't want to get back together, then you don't have to care about what the other person means.
Just do what you have to do, live how you should live, don't take it too seriously, you can take care of it if you are willing to take care of it, and if you don't want to take care of it, you can just ignore it, just focus on your own life.
If you still care about that person very much, and even want to get back together, instead of guessing all the time, it is better to ask directly.
How the other party replies to you will naturally tell you the true purpose.
You want to get back together, you both want to get back together, you can try again.
If the other person doesn't mean that, but always flirts with you, then it's best not to talk to each other and let the other person disrupt your life.
Text / Tan Meng
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