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When I first watched "Chen Qingling", I felt that the flashpoint of all tragedies was in Poor Qi Dao, and I also thought countless times that if Jin Zixuan had not gone to Poor Qi Dao, then he and Jiang Wei must be a pair of immortal couples.
But these days after revisiting "Chen Qingling" and seeing a lot of details that I hadn't noticed before, I found that even if Jin Zixuan didn't go to the poor and strange road, there were no accidents, and he would not be separated from Jiang and love until he was old.
The relationship foundation between the two is weak, Jin Zixuan has many temptations around him, and he is also amorous
Jin Zixuan and Jiang Wei have been married since childhood. But Jin Zixuan has always had no good impression of Jiang Disgust.
During the school period, after the students put on lanterns to pray, someone talked about his divorce contract with Jiang in front of Jin Zixuan. Jin Zixuan only replied: "This marriage is not my intention, so there is no need to mention it." His expression was serious, and his words also revealed a full dissatisfaction with the marriage.
Wei Wuxian couldn't listen anymore and fought Jin Zixuan for his senior sister.
As a result, parents on both sides were alarmed. After understanding what happened, Jiang Fengmian took the initiative to dissolve the marriage contract.
Jin Zixuan was relieved, and Jiang was tired of crying secretly.
Although after the "lotus root rib soup" incident, Jin Zixuan began to change his impression of Jiang Disgust after the "Lotus Root Rib Soup" incident, and even fell in love with Jiang Disgusting.
In the book "Intimate Relationships", intimacy is broken down into four stages: brilliance, disillusionment, introspection, and revelation.
Splendid period: Two people just start to fall in love. At this time, it is difficult for both sides to perceive each other's shortcomings. But this period generally does not last long.
Disillusionment: As we get along, we will find that our partner is not perfect. This stage is also a period of high incidence of contradictions and can last a long time. Many lovers or couples can't survive this period and directly separate.
Introspection: We learned that quarrels do not solve problems. Therefore, we will begin to look for reasons in ourselves and learn to feel our thoughts and feelings carefully. It's an opportunity to rediscover and get to know yourself. In this way, we can also better face our partner and the rest of our lives.
Revelation Period: A partner who reaches this stage can almost be called a "soul mate". At this stage, we will gain more love and strength. Intimacy is also enhanced.
Jin Zixuan and Jiang Shuli died one after another before and after the Jinling Full Moon Banquet, and the relationship between the two also stayed in a brilliant period. The two love each other deeply and do not feel that there are differences and barriers between them.
But if Jin Zixuan hadn't gone to the Poor Qi Dao, then he and Jiang Wei would continue to walk together. When the filter of love gradually fades, will the relationship between the two really not be a problem?
Moreover, Jin Zixuan occupies the position of the young lord of Lanling, he does not have thoughts about people, and others will have thoughts about him.
Many people think that Jin Zixuan is not a person who will easily move his heart.
But in fact, it doesn't have to be.
In the play, the "lotus root rib soup" incident that changed Xuan's emotional line was brought by Mianmian after revealing the truth.
But a more detailed description can be given in the original work - the person who took the credit was a servant of the Lanling Jin clan, who was not high in cultivation and looked good. After she noticed that Jiang was tired of sending soup, she dangled in front of Jin Zixuan.
She quietly picked an opportunity and dangled outside Jin Zixuan's house after Jiang Wei left after delivering the soup.
Jin Zixuan finally caught someone, of course, he had to ask. The woman was very clever not to admit it, but to deny it with a crimson face and vague words, which sounded like she did, but she didn't want Jin Zixuan to see through her painstaking heart.
Therefore, Jin Zixuan did not force her to admit it, but in action, he began to take care of the female cultivator, and promoted her from a domestic servant to a guest secretary. ”
A servant is a servant, and a guest secretary is a petty official.
It can be said that the promotion of domestic servants to guest secretaries is simply a qualitative leap. And all this is just because of a bowl of soup.
See it, right? This also means that while Jin Zixuan has a lot of temptations around him, Jin Zixuan himself is also an amorous person and does not have much ability to resist temptation.
In this way, even when he and Jiang are disgusted and in love, Jin Zixuan can grasp himself and not look at other people, but what about after falling in love? Can Jin Zixuan still guard his relationship with Jiang and not waver? It's really hard to say.
Jiang is tired of being gentle, but lacks the courage of the main mother
Feelings are never a one-man affair. After analyzing Jin Zixuan, let's take a look at Jiang Zhili.
Although Jiang Weili is a concubine of the sect, her growth is more or less depressed.
Under the influence of his powerful mother, Mrs. Yu, Jiang is tired of leaving and habitually choosing to endure and give in. In addition to his habitual concessions, Wei Wuxian was wronged, and he was also comforted by Jiang Wei, persuading him to back down together.
But crying when something happens, it can't solve the problem.
Take the "lotus root rib soup" incident, if Wei Wuxian hadn't come out for Jiang Shuo, then it would probably have been Jiang Shuli who would have swallowed his grievances and left alone.
But life is a long way, and there will always be times when you will go by yourself.
When Jiang was tired of not having the person around her to pick up the truth for her, if someone deliberately created a misunderstanding between her and Jin Zixuan, then the really good feelings would gradually be worn away.
In addition, Jinlingtai is not a paradise.
Jiang disgusted is Jiang disgusted with his wife, but also the young lord's wife, and the future suzerain's wife.
But she herself is more than gentle, and she lacks the courage to be a sect mother. In addition, Mrs. Yu, who is in charge of children's education in the Jiang family, values her son Jiang Cheng, and allows her daughter Jiang to be tired of cooking soup in the kitchen all day. Jiang Wei himself couldn't help Jin Zixuan too much in clan management.
On the other hand, Jin Zixuan's mother, Mrs. Jin.
Although Jin Guangshan showed mercy everywhere, there was only one son he recognized, Jin Zixuan. Of course, Jin Guangyao is another calculation, after all, Jin Guangshan values Jin Guangyao's battle merits. This can also reflect the toughness of Mrs. Kim's wrist in another way.
Many people say that Jin Zixuan grew up under the protection of Mrs. Jin, so that he could emerge from the mud and not be clean, and retained the most sincere side.
But after all, he is in the dyeing vat, and he is bound to face the complicated affairs of the Jin family, plus there is a Jin Guangyao watching from the side. If you follow the plot line, after Jin Guangshan is calculated by Jin Guangyao, Jin Zixuan is next.
In this case, Jin Zixuan must be tired of coping. But Jiang was tired of not being able to help, so he could only make soup.
Over time, will the heart-warming lotus root rib soup also lose its taste?
The younger brother is unreliable
Assuming that there is a crisis in Xuanli's relationship, Jiang's younger brother is also unreliable.
Of course, the younger brother here wasn't referring to Wei Wuxian. Because Wei Wuxian had been removed from the Jiang family because he had repaid the Jiang family's kindness. Even if he saw him again in front of people, facing his once close senior sister, Wei Wuxian could only call him "Mrs. Xiaojin."
In addition, Jiang was tired of being in Jinlingtai, and Wei Wuxian was growing radish potatoes in the mass grave, and he had to avoid the calculations of the Immortal Gate Baijia. The two sides are too far apart, and there is no way to help.
As for his own brother Jiang Cheng.
First of all, even if Jiang is disgusted with his feelings, he is likely to drink his own grief and will not ask his brother for help.
Secondly, Jiang Cheng is the head of the Jiang family.
He is no longer the awkward teenager he was at the beginning, he has become an adult who puts the interests of the family first, and even overkills.
For example, he hated the Wen family for burning the lotus dock and harming his father, but he did not dare to hate the Wen clan members who were attached to the Jin family, but instead piled up his hatred in the Qi Huang warm line who was kind to his family. He also kept saying in his mouth that he had a heavy responsibility and did not dare to risk the world's great disapproval to protect his benefactor.
And Jiang Cheng, who knows how to protect his life, how will he react when he sees his sister being wronged?
The first reaction was anger, and he might be looking for Jin Zixuan theory. But after a theory, thinking of family interests, will it be raised high and then gently put down?
And after the matter was revealed, it was only the parties who were uncomfortable.
Write at the end
I didn't write this article to deny Xuanli this immortal couple, but I just think that after the prince and princess are happily married, the real life begins.
And husband and wife need to grow up together and support each other.
If one party does not move in place, but the other party goes a long way forward, then the two are bound to have conflicts.
Even immortal couples are not exempt from vulgarity.