In love and marriage, married life is like a condiment, just right to make life more fulfilling. So how many times can a man ejaculate in his life, and what is the gold standard for intimacy between husband and wife?
The plan of a lifetime is diligence
The number of ejaculations in a man's life, scientists have given an approximate number - about 7,000 times. This figure is not fabricated out of thin air, but is based on physiological research. Many people may be surprised by this number, are all men so energetic?
Behind this number is an important feature of the male reproductive system: sperm production is a continuous process, and old age and death do not interact. Sperm, these tiny seeds of life, are born about 1,500 times a second, constantly renewing the cycle of life.
The heart is not condensed
However, the giving of life is not a matter of taking and consuming. Men also need to pay attention to their physical signals while enjoying the joy of marital life. Just as a farmer cultivates, the land needs to be fallow, and this is especially true of a man's body. Once a couple has sex too often, it can not only lead to a lack of energy, but also cause unnecessary burden on the body.
The kidneys are closely related to the essence of the body, and excessive sexual intercourse is undoubtedly a kind of plundering of the body. If you ignore the physical exhaustion and the need to recover, you are likely to encounter an embarrassing situation: the sperm cannot be discharged smoothly, which brings not only physical discomfort, but also psychological shock.
If you don't explode in silence, you perish in silence
In conjugal life, male performance is often mistakenly associated with virility and strength. In order to show their "heroic nature", some men tend to ignore the warnings of their bodies and blindly pursue the increase in the number of times.
However, such behavior is likely to backfire. The quality of sex is not measured by the number of times. As the old saying goes, "quantity is better than quality". Therefore, when men enjoy intimate relationships, they should pay more attention to the feelings between the two people, rather than blindly pursuing the accumulation of quantity.
The spring breeze is proud, and you can see all the Chang'an flowers in one day
Is there really a fixed standard for the frequency of intimacy between husband and wife? Scientific research has given some references, but the situation is also very different from person to person. In general, the frequency of sex between couples should be adjusted according to the physical condition and emotional needs of both partners.
Some couples may be several times a week, while others may be several times a month. 15 minutes to 20 minutes at a time, this is not to say which frequency is right or wrong, the key is whether both spouses feel satisfied and comfortable.
Drops of water are not a day's work
The harmony of sex life often reflects the state of the relationship between husband and wife. A healthy sex life takes time to cultivate and adjust, just as a trickle of water can wear through a stone, and the tacit understanding between husband and wife can be achieved over time.
Interestingly, for couples, the frequency of sex can change over time. When the newlyweds are married, they may be proud, but as time goes by, the two may pay more attention to emotional communication and spiritual communication.
How to protect a man's body
"Moderation" is the first criterion for protecting the kidneys. Men should adjust the frequency of their sex according to their physical condition. When you are young, your body's ability to recover is stronger, and you can have sex relatively frequently, but as you get older, your body functions gradually decline, so it is necessary to reduce the number of sexual intervals appropriately. In addition, proper exercise can enhance physical fitness and improve blood circulation, which can contribute to the health of the kidneys.
Food nourishment, source of living water
Diet also has an important impact on kidney health. Traditional Chinese medicine theories believe that black foods such as black beans and black sesame seeds help nourish the kidneys. At the same time, maintaining a balanced diet and avoiding excessively greasy and salty foods can reduce the burden on the kidneys. Ensuring adequate water intake can help detoxify the kidneys, but you should also avoid drinking too much water.
Laugh to the end, laugh the sweetest
When discussing the frequency of couples' lives, we should not ignore one important factor: happiness. The purpose of sex is not only to reproduce, but also to enhance the emotional connection and physical and mental pleasure between husband and wife. In this process, both spouses should feel happy and satisfied. If one partner feels uncomfortable or unwilling, the frequency of sex needs to be readjusted to ensure that both partners can have the sweetest laugh during this intimate time.