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In the old days, the once young Ge You has become a highly regarded performing artist and the king of the comedy industry. In classic works such as "The Stubborn Master" and "The Story of the Editorial Department", his affectionate roles are unforgettable, and his career is thriving and reaching a peak.
However, today, the 66-year-old performance giant has been reduced to a lonely old man, alone.
Ge Jia, the younger sister who once cared for the hero, has now crossed the ocean, married a German gentleman, and has a son and a daughter. Every festive season, Ge Jia's family always sends blessings to Ge You from afar, but whenever they look into the distance through the screen, crossing a wide Atlantic Ocean, they can only shake their heads and sigh helplessly.
The most sorrowful thing in Ge You's heart is the loss of two dearest relatives. When his parents were alive, his greatest wish was to look forward to the stars and the moon, hoping that Ge You would be able to give birth to a grandson to continue the family bloodline, but unfortunately he failed to do so.
He and his wife He Cong have been together for many years, and they have their own choices in life, and they decide to spend their Dink time together without having to have offspring. Now only each other is left to support each other, which also makes people feel that life is warm and cold.
He Cong has been in poor health for a long time, and as she gets older, she is under increasing pressure to care.
Seeing that life was gradually entering the twilight, Ge You couldn't help but feel a deep melancholy in his heart. Although he enjoyed endless glory at the peak of his career, he is now reduced to a lonely old man, which makes him full of doubts and regrets about the decisions he made back then.
Recalling the good times when he met He Cong, Ge You will still be moved. Those days date back to the mid-eighties of the last century, when the 36-year-old Ge You had just emerged with the movie "Farewell My Concubine" and became the focus of attention in the entertainment industry.
However, at that time, his emotional world was always empty, and his parents and friends were heartbroken about his marriage.
At this moment, an eldest sister in the unit who was like a mother enthusiastically matched Ge You and arranged a blind date. That girl is He Cong, who serves as the art teacher of the eldest sister's daughter.
Ge You was attracted by He Cong's background and beautiful appearance, and a strong heart of seeing each other rose.
When they first met, both of them were a little restrained, unable to talk and laugh. Because he was too tight, Ge You actually became stuttering. And under He Cong's calm expression, it was difficult to hide his anxiety in his heart.
Although it was just a light meal, other than that, there was hardly any real conversation between the two.
In order to break the deadlock between the two, He Cong resolutely invited Ge Yi to climb the peak together on the weekend and go on a refreshing hiking tour. When they were in the embrace of nature's magnificence, Ge Youcai gradually let go of the heavy burden in the depths of his heart, and the words between the two were also opened.
Previously, He Cong had many doubts and prejudices about the entertainment industry, believing that most of the artists had chaotic lives, and it was difficult to establish a solid emotional connection, however, through intimate interaction with Ge You, she gradually got rid of these preconceived notions Ge You's hard work, The simple life and polite behavior are not at all as wild and uninhibited as people render under the dirt, and He Cong's innocence and kindness deeply touched Ge You's heartstrings, she doesn't seem to be the kind of pretentious style of the celebrity entourage, every side of life seems so real and natural, the communication between the two is more and more deep, and they feel each other's rare gains, and the spark of love is ignited.
Time flies to 1987, and after nearly two years of getting along and understanding, Ge You and He Cong are firmly determined to enter the palace of marriage. It is worth mentioning that although Ge You's parents were happy and relieved to hear this, He Cong's parents were still sad and full of uneasiness.
As parents, they sincerely hope that their daughter can be entrusted with a down-to-earth, is an honest and reliable partner, but Ge You has always had a professional background as an actor, in their opinion, this industry seems too challenging, they are worried that He Cong may suffer from all kinds of complicated short-term troubles in the entertainment industry in the future, unable to maintain a comfortable and peaceful life, and in the face of the heavy worries of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Ge You did not have any dissatisfaction or evasion, on the contrary, he gave him positive guidance with an extremely patient attitude, repeatedly visited him in person, and told the story with his deep friendship with He Cong, and solemnly promised to do his best to take care of He Cong and never let her suffer the slightest harm in Ge You's affectionate and sincere wordsHe Cong's parents were finally moved and reluctantly accepted the arrangement of the marriage, so after a long and arduous effort, the two people from completely different worlds finally walked hand in hand into the journey of life.
However, not long after the sweetness of tying the knot, Ge You and He Cong made an amazing decision: they would choose to become a "Dink" family, that is, they decided to cancel the idea of having children, and they would no longer have children of their own for the rest of their lives.
This decision was undoubtedly a big shock to both parents, as they were both looking forward to welcoming their lively and lovely grandchildren and enjoying their families.
However, the husband and wife have a unique perspective. They are convinced that having children or not will have a material impact on their careers. On the contrary, the inclusion of children will only exacerbate their stress and dilute the time spent together.
Therefore, despite repeated persuasion from both parents, they still stick to their decision and finally decide to choose the Dink lifestyle.
In the long and brilliant acting process, Ge You has made countless friends with superb acting skills, among which the friendship with the well-known director Fu Biao can be described as a friend of life and death. From the very beginning, they were as close as brothers and sisters.
Time flies, and in 2005, Ge You received a news that shocked the whole country - Fu Biao, who he regarded as a confidant and friend, died of illness at the age of 54. For Ge You, this was tantamount to a heavy blow like a thunderbolt from the sky, and he indulged in endless grief and could not extricate himself.
Ge You and Fu Biao were full of unforgettable memories from the day they met to the end of their lives. They once walked on the old streets of Beijing, talked about the city's various things, shared each other's directorial tips in the crew, and the in-depth discussion on script writing was amazing.
Now, the magnetic baritone has been silent, and Ge You's heart is full of thoughts. However, after grief, Ge You begins to think about how to fulfill his unfulfilled wish for his beloved friend.
He thought of Fu Zien, who lost his father's love at the age of 6, and after Fu Biao left this world, this boy became Fu Biao's last concern in the world.
So, Ge You waved his hand and made a decision that attracted the attention of the world - he decided to raise Fu Zien, treat him as his own, and love him wholeheartedly. Ge You knew that although the two sides did not have a real blood bond, this deep emotional connection was enough to make up for everything.
Doing so not only allows Ge You to continue to do his best to miss Fu Biao, but also provides the greatest comfort and reliance for Fu Zien, an orphan.
Since then, Ge You has a more sacred identity - father. He took Fu Zien on a tour of Beijing's old town, telling him about the history and culture of the land, and he sat at his desk as he discussed with his son the confusion of his studies and life, giving him encouragement and support in difficult times.
It is worth mentioning that after Ge You learned that Fu Zien was overworked in a busy working environment and extremely tired, he immediately flew to the crew to visit. He not only brought high-quality supplements, but also directly submitted advice to the crew authorities, emphasizing that the physical and mental health of all workers must be fully guaranteed.
There is no doubt that Ge You used his practical actions to show his deep feelings for this "righteous son".
Fu Zien has shown his brilliant talent since he was a child, and has been deeply favored by Ge You and his wife. In his long life journey, Ge You has undoubtedly become the most critical and important mentor.
After graduating from university, after several efforts, Ge You finally succeeded in securing a valuable internship opportunity for Fu Zien in a well-known film and television company.
As a newcomer to the film industry, Fu Zien naturally avoided many setbacks in the early days. has been repeatedly "falsely promised" by the crew, and sometimes even unable to obtain basic humanistic care.
However, fortunately, Ge You, a staunch supporter, was silently behind him, helping him answer his confusion and point out the direction.
Fu Zien is praised for his modesty and studiousness, and always keeps in mind Ge You's teachings. Coupled with Ge You's meticulous care and support from the "loving father", he quickly established a good reputation among his peers with his practical acting skills, and can be called an outstanding representative of the new generation of powerful factions.
In 2016, Fu Zien won the top award at the international film festival for his first screen debut, starting a new acting career. In this regard, Ge You was very excited and immediately invited the crew members to the bar to celebrate.
Seeing his godson standing on the podium, Ge You's face was filled with incomparable pride and pride.
Time flies, time flies. Looking back on the past, Ge You and He Cong have entered the age of sixties, and their faces have left the mark of time, and loneliness and loneliness haunt their hearts.
In his later years, life became more and more lonely and lonely.
The younger sister Ge Jia's family has long settled in the United States, and it is rare to return to the capital to visit them. And their parents, who left them forever in the years of sticking to the "Dink" wish, the couple can only snuggle up to each other for the rest of their lives.
Even though Fu Zien, the "righteous son", often returns to emergencies at special moments, but in a foreign land, it is naturally difficult to avoid neglecting the care of his beloved wife He Cong. Whenever night fell, Ge You would irrepressibly recall the disputes and conversations that often broke out with He Cong in his first days.
At that time, the original intention of choosing to become the "Dink family" was to focus on the development of their careers.
Now that he has made a little progress in his career, he rarely sees relatives and friends around. The spacious interior is empty and silent, and only the two of them are left floating here. Sometimes, Ge You stares at the children playing happily in his niece's house, and his heart is full of thoughts.
If he hadn't made that decision, he might have been enjoying the joy of being surrounded by children and having fun with his family, but unfortunately, fate had already been sealed, and this regret was destined to be hidden deep in his heart.
He Cong's health has been poor over the years, and Ge You must devote all his energy to take care of him. Once, He Cong suddenly suffered from a high fever that did not go away, and Ge You was in critical condition, so he finally had to call the emergency number for help.
It wasn't until He Cong got through the difficulties that Ge You slightly stretched his tense nerves and burst into tears.
Today, apart from mutual dependence and warm care, there is nothing in the world that can give them support and strength. This lonely and lonely life in old age seems to accompany them to the ultimate stage of life.
However, fortunately, although Ge You has no parents under his knees, he has Fu Zien, the "righteous son", always by his side, even if the two are not connected by sincere blood, but after years of ups and downs, the relationship has become deeper, and a solid bond beyond family affection has already been established.
At a certain moment of reunion, Ge You affectionately shook Fu Zien's hand and cordially inquired about his work and life. When the topic gradually turned to marriage, Ge You was deeply affectionate, talked about the past years earnestly, and told Fu Zien to seize the opportunity and manage his own happy home with his heart.
In the face of such persuasion, Fu Zien smiled slightly, promising to carefully prepare a rich gift for Ge You, the "father-in-law", From the affection in his eyes, we can feel the touching affection of father and son.
As a result, the two talked and laughed so intimately, and it was the warm and touching parent-child love that filled each other's hearts.
In fact, since the day when he decided to adopt Fu Zien, Ge You has regarded him as his own child and devoted himself wholeheartedly to his education and cultivation. As the years passed, Fu Zien's achievements in his career became more and more significant, and each of his progress seemed to be the best reward for Ge You's hard work, and this connection gradually deepened, gradually becoming a close and loving emotional bond similar to that of a biological father and son, and close to each other.
It is precisely because of this unique emotional connection that Fu Zien, as the "son" in Ge You's mind, can truly fill his deep desire and regret for family affection. Over the years, they have been as close as father and son, going through ups and downs together, supporting each other, and moving forward hand in hand, fully demonstrating the deep emotional bond in the family.