In this fast-paced society, we are all busy in order to live and work hard to pursue our dreams. However, as the years go by, there are always some people who choose to embark on a different, independent and free life path full of personality, so they are called "older leftover women".
But the reason why many older leftover women are left is not to pursue any so-called dreams, but to not recognize themselves. There is a netizen's comment that is very exciting, a man's hard injury is money, and a woman's hard injury is age. Do successful men lack young women? Do good women look for young men?
First of all, I declare that I do not discriminate against so-called leftover women, and my friend was also a so-called leftover woman before.
My friend got married at the age of 36. To tell the truth, after getting married, especially after having children, she feels that her life is more meaningful, more hopeful, and more secure. Of course, I also bought medical social security, I am 39 years old this year, and I have been buying it for 13 years.
The original intention of buying a pension is not to let the children gnaw on the old age in the future, but to have a guarantee for their future old age life and not to add unnecessary pressure to the children. It doesn't matter if the child gnaws in the future or not.
Since the day he was born, parents have been constantly giving, and it is the same whether they gnaw or not. In the future, if you let him gnaw him, he won't gnaw, and if there is no future, you don't want him to gnaw him or you will gnaw, it's up to each person to make it!
The vast majority of older leftover women, the main reason for the rest is that the men who meet their conditions are not worthy of themselves.
People's thoughts will change with age, but physical functions will only decline, not everything can be restarted, and it is good not to regret it. What people are most afraid of is that they can't take care of themselves, no matter how much money they have, it's just a number, and it's really not good for a husband and wife who don't have children.
You don't know what you're going to need in the future, and when you're old, you'll understand, and now your parents tell you, and you can't listen to what other people tell you. I used to think exactly the same way as you.
What the elderly are most afraid of is not that they have no money, but that they are deeply lonely, when your parents have passed away, and your friends are estranged from you because they are busy with their families. When you're lying at home and you can't find someone to talk to.
When you don't feel well and want someone to accompany you, when you go hiking, when you go for a walk and watch others in pairs, you know what you need most.
Even so, these older leftover women still can't let go of their bodies, and they feel like they are fairy when they live under their beautiful faces.
If you really don't want to get married, then you should plan your retirement plan in advance. If it's just lip service, then it is recommended that you get older, the lower your value in marriage, and the more difficult it is to get rid of the single.
As long as you are willing to drop gold coins, find a little girl, and find a little fresh meat, you can find it, I'm afraid that you don't want to spend money, and you want to find a young one, what do others want to do with you? Is it to love him (her)?
After forty, the main tasks of life have been completed, and if there is no new life in life, you will feel that you do not have that solid hope, thinking that you can not be lonely with a dog and the company of your girlfriends.
Lonely widows live in nursing homes or live alone, there are many elderly people, you can go to chat. Capital is willing to support you and become a provider of capital, and when you are old, you will only be forgotten, and no one will care about you if you live alone and die for a year.
It turned out that if you have spare strength, you will learn, but now if you have spare strength, you will have a baby, and if you don't have spare strength, it is easy to go bankrupt and become several times.
Although it is not possible to guarantee that every family can live happily, it is better than nothing, and there is hope for a family and a war, who has ever seen a lonely person who can have money left, be happy, and be able to enter a nursing home by himself? Marriage depends on fate.
Marriage is far more than spending life with food and clothing, not enjoying the identity of a wife and mother, not experiencing the love of a husband and children, such a life lacks too much!