Now, Ge You, who has entered the age of sixties, has to face the loneliness and difficulties of life alone. This once famous film giant has experienced many hardships and regrets in his family life.
His parents died early, his sister is far away in the United States, and now Ge You is alone and alone in the world.
Recalling Ge You when he first entered the showbiz, he also experienced many twists and turns. Coming from an artistic family, he didn't have much interest in acting when he was a child, and often refused to participate in various performances without hesitation.
It wasn't until 1976, when he was assigned to work on a pig farm, that Ge You slowly discovered his love for acting. He immediately asked for leave from the production team and went to the art highlands to participate in the selection examination, although he failed to achieve gratifying results in the end, Ge You still insisted on not giving up, and finally passed the examination of the trade union literary and artistic group, and officially stepped into the road of acting.
With his excellent acting skills, Ge You quickly made a name for himself in the film industry, showing amazing strength in films such as "The Stubborn Master" and "Alive", and won important awards such as Best Actor in Cannes, becoming a recognized model artist.
While his career was in full swing, Ge You also began his own emotional journey.
In a pure art date, Ge You got acquainted with He Cong, a female teacher. Although Ge You didn't talk much in private and seemed a little dull, He Cong was still attracted by the simplicity and sense of responsibility that exuded from him.
The two quickly fell in love and soon entered the palace of marriage.
However, He Cong's parents did not agree with this cross-border relationship. They are worried that Ge You is in the complex and chaotic entertainment industry, and it is inevitable that he will dance with many beauties, and they are also worried about the instability of the profession of actor.
After countless visits to dissuade him, He Cong's parents finally gave their blessings.
But just as the prelude to happiness began, the two made another shocking decision - they chose not to have children and became the "Dink family".
For this news, it was a heavy blow to both parents, and it was difficult for them to accept this "no child" choice. Although Ge You failed to add Ding to the Ge family, his sister Ge Jia married a lover while studying in Germany and gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, which brought infinite hope to the family.
Although Ge You couldn't help but feel a little sorry for missing the opportunity to have children, he still gained some happiness in his later life. That is the intimate relationship with the righteous son Fu Zien.
Fu Zien's biological father is the musical genius Fu Biao, and he became friends with Ge You because of the movie "The Story of the Editorial Department". In 2005, Fu Biao died of liver cancer, leaving the young Fu Zien.
Ge You, who was deeply devastated, decided to adopt Fu Zien and become his stepfather.
From then on, no matter how busy he was at work, Ge You would always find time every week to visit Fu Zien, carefully teach him the principles of life, and point out the direction for his future path.
With Ge You's encouragement, Fu Zien gave up medicine and chose the path of directing. After graduating from university, Ge You personally led Fu Zien into the studio and let him start to get in touch with professional shooting work.
When Fu Zien relied on his talent to direct the screen work "Stop! Don't Run" for the first time independently, it won praise and praise from the audience.
With the company of this righteous son Fu Zien, although the 66-year-old Ge You has no biological children, he also feels that his life is very complete. Hand in hand with his wife He Cong, spend their old age together, enjoy the mountains and rivers, and enjoy the joy of family.
This once lonely and helpless old man is now no longer facing life's challenges alone.
The arduous journey of a cross-border marriage
For Ge You, his married life with He Cong can be described as ups and downs.
As a giant in the film industry, Ge You, while having a brilliant career, has experienced many setbacks in his love life.
This cross-border marriage has been questioned and resisted from the beginning.
It was in an elegant and quiet art museum date that Ge You and He Cong met and got to know each other. Ge You is always funny and humorous in front of the camera, but he has few words in private, which makes him a little dull.
But He Cong was still attracted by the simplicity and sense of responsibility exuded by him, and soon the two fell in love, and soon decided to join hands in the marriage hall.
However, for this cross-border relationship, He Cong's parents can be said to disapprove of it in every way. They are worried that Ge You, as an actor, will inevitably dance with many beauties in the complex and chaotic entertainment industry.
At the same time, they are also worried about the instability of the actor's profession, and they are worried that one day Ge You will fall into a trough and have no drama to take.
After countless visits, He Cong's parents tried their best to dissuade the marriage. In order to dispel the doubts of his new in-laws, Ge You, who loves He Cong deeply, has repeatedly promised the two elders that he will never abandon and will always love He Cong.
He Cong also spared no effort to convey her deep friendship to her family for Ge You. In the end, under the insistence and explanation of the two, He Cong's parents still gave their blessings.
But just as the prelude to happiness begins, the two make another shocking choice - they decide not to have children and become the "Dink family".
For this news, it was a heavy blow to both parents. In the social atmosphere at that time, marriage and childbirth were still the mainstream concept, and it was difficult for them to accept this choice of "not having children".
The parents were in a dilemma and heartbroken, but after careful consideration, they finally accepted the reality gloomily.
Although Ge You was unable to bring a new life to his parents, his sister Ge Jia made up for this regret to a certain extent. As early as a few years ago, Ge Jia went to Germany to study after graduating from Peking University, and Ge You gave strong support.
While studying in Germany, Ge Jia met her lover, tied the knot, and took root in the paradise of Europe. Soon after, Ge Jia's abdomen bulged and gave birth to a boy and a girl for her husband.
This made Ge You, who was originally regretful, also gain a lovely son - Fu Zien.
Although Ge You missed the opportunity to have children, the married life between him and He Cong is still very sweet. The two go hand in hand, enjoy the mountains and rivers in their spare time, and spend family fun together.
Although the urging of the elders never stopped, they still firmly defended their beliefs and chose to be "Dink".
This cross-border relationship went through many hardships, and finally entered the marriage hall with the support of the families of both parties. However, the unique marriage choice of Ge You and his wife once again aroused great confusion and worry among the family.
Eventually, they chose to go with the flow and accept this reality.
The rise of the film giant Ge You
For Ge You, his acting career can be described as difficult and tortuous. Born into a family of artists, his love for acting when he was a child was like a stranger. Whenever the school received an invitation to participate in a performance program, he always chose to decline without hesitation.
It wasn't until 1976 that Ge You was sent to work as an animal trainer on a small pig farm, where he gradually discovered a preference for acting.
When he heard that the national art academies were recruiting students from the society, he immediately asked for leave from the production team and went to the art highland to participate in the selection examination.
Although he failed to achieve gratifying results in the end, Ge You did not lose heart, but followed his father's advice and signed up for the Chinese Trade Union Art Group.
In the interview session, Ge You skillfully injected his daily work experience in the pig farm into the sketch "Feeding the Pig", which won the high praise of the examiners, and finally successfully passed the exam and became a young literary rookie.
Because he did not receive formal training in actor skills, Ge You had to play some insignificant small roles in the crew, but he always stuck to his dream and worked silently in this industry for several years.
Ge You's brilliance began in 1985 with the movie "Midsummer and Its Fiancé". In this work, he made his debut on the big screen for the first time and began to shine in the film industry.
The classic work that made him famous all over the world was "The Stubborn Master" in 1989 when he co-starred with Zhang Guoli and Liang Tian. In the film, the role of Yang Chong played by Ge You won the nomination for Best Actor at the 27th Golden Rooster Awards for his superb acting skills.
During the same period, Ge You also had the honor of participating in the film "Code Name Jaguar" directed by the world-renowned director Zhang Yimou, which further expanded his influence.
The film giant has now received wide attention and popularity from inside and outside the industry, and his acting skills have become a benchmark in the art world. Even in the glorious moment when his career is in full swing, this arrogant and high-minded celebrity still maintains a low-key style, indifferent to fame and fortune, and sticks to himself.
Fortunately, although Ge You's career path was not smooth, he finally achieved remarkable success. In contrast, his married life has always been tormented.
But this artist, who has good acting skills, is far less comfortable at the emotional level of his family than on the stage.
Another hope in Ge You's life
Despite Ge You's remarkable achievements in his career, he has never been able to get rid of loneliness in his family life. has no biological children, and has lost both parents, and the only relative around him is his sister Ge Jia who is far away in the United States.
But at this low point in his life, Ge You met another person who could bring him hope - Yizi Fu Zien.
Fu Zien's biological father is the musical genius Fu Biao, and he became friends with Ge You because of the movie "The Story of the Editorial Department".
In 2005, Fu Biao died of liver cancer, leaving the young Fu Zien.
Ge You, who was deeply shocked, decided to adopt the child for the sake of his old friend and officially confirmed Fu Zien as his adopted son.
From then on, no matter how busy he was at work, Ge You would always find time every week to visit Fu Zien, carefully teach him the principles of life, and point out the direction for his future path.
On weekdays, he would spend a lot of time with Fu Zien and patiently teach him some life principles and experiences. With Ge You's encouragement, Fu Zien, who originally wanted to study medicine, finally chose the path of directing.
After graduating from university, Ge You personally led Fu Zien into the studio and let him start to get in touch with professional shooting work. When Fu Zien's first independent screen work "Stop! Don't Run" was released for the first time with his talent, it won rave reviews and praise from the audience.
Ge You, who was old and had a son, finally found another comfort in the old age of his life.
With the company of this righteous son Fu Zien, although the 66-year-old Ge You has no biological children, he also feels that his life is very complete.
Hand in hand with his wife He Cong, spend their old age together, enjoy the mountains and rivers, and enjoy the joy of family. This once lonely and helpless old man is now no longer facing life's challenges alone.