On the 21st anniversary of the death of "brother" Leslie Cheung, a better tribute to him is to understand the truth about his depression

On April 1, 2003, "brother" Leslie Cheung jumped from the 24th floor of the Oriental Hotel in Central, Hong Kong, and the public lost a superstar. Today, 21 years later, many people still feel heartache for his tragedy.

There are rumors circulating on the Internet that my brother's last words before his death are unknown whether they are true or false. The last of these sentences is: "I have never done anything bad in my life, why is this happening?"

"Leslie Cheung's last words" circulated on the Internet, but it is unconfirmed

If these were his last words, he would have written them in pain, confusion, and despair.

Many people interpret this last sentence from different angles.

From his debut to his fame, including after becoming famous, my brother has experienced many twists and turns and criticism. Especially after he came out and made his gay relationship public, he also had the appearance of the "Hot Love Concert" in 2000, which was ridiculed and humiliated by many people.

So some people say that this last sentence is my brother's expression of grievance and resentment: I didn't hurt you, but why did you attack me mercilessly?

Others said that the year before his brother's suicide and death, he was deeply depressed, unable to work and live normally, and was very worried that his illness would be scribbled by the media. Therefore, this last sentence expresses that he feels that his fate is unfair, and asks why God would let him suffer from such a disease.

In an interview, his eldest sister Zhang Luping once said that her brother's depression was "physiological depression".

She said that after her brother's death, a psychiatrist wrote to her to explain that depression was divided into two types. The first is an imbalance of brain chemicals, and the other is the result of an obvious unhappiness. The doctor said that her brother was 100 percent of the first.

At this time, the host had questions: But my brother has suffered a lot of pressure in the entertainment industry, will it be because of too much mental pressure?

Zhang Luping said that she thought this was the case at first, but after she listened to the doctor's detailed explanation, she recalled the character of her brother's life, she felt that her brother could withdraw when filming, sleep when he said, have a good relationship with his partner, and be rich, laugh at everything, go his own way, know what his value is, and everyone around him respects him.

The implication is that Zhang Luping believes that her brother's depression is physiological, and that he is open-minded and generous in life and does not have a lot of psychological pressure.

She also said that when she was first diagnosed, her brother himself found it difficult to accept, "He often said, how can I be depressed? I have money, and so many people love me, and I am so happy." He didn't admit it, and he didn't even take the medicine prescribed by the doctor. ”

It is indeed possible that my brother does not have an objective, rational and in-depth understanding of his depression, and thinks that fate makes people and good people are not rewarded, so he says "why is this happening".

Of course, some people on the Internet said that his brother was hurt by love, and there was a rift in his relationship with Tang Hede. Some people also said that he was too deep in the play, and it was difficult to withdraw after filming the posthumous work "Different Dimension", so he fell ill.

In fact, there is some truth to these speculations, but from the perspective of precise psychiatric psychology, these are only superficial clues, not the real source of depression.

Clinical precision psychological intervention found that the main cause of depression was not "physiological", but caused by patients suffering a large number of superimposed psychological trauma and continuous self-denial. These overlapping psychological traumas often continue through the patient's experiences from childhood to adulthood, including adulthood.

Therefore, my brother suffers from depression, not only because of the pressure of the entertainment industry and criticism from the outside world, nor just because he is too deep in the drama or emotionally frustrated, but his experience is full of superimposed psychological trauma from all aspects, and he has not been able to get in-depth repair and efficient treatment.

In today's article, we combine my brother's autobiography "The Unruly Wind", as well as a large number of reports and materials, from the perspective of accurate psychiatric psychology, to deeply analyze why he suffered from depression, why he could not recover, and finally had a mental breakdown and committed suicide!

Leslie Cheung's autobiography "Unruly Wind"

01. In the original family, my brother suffered a lot of superimposed psychological trauma

In clinical precision psychological intervention, the root cause of depression patients is often analyzed from three perspectives: family of origin, campus experience, and social experience. For his brother Leslie Cheung, we can also conduct an in-depth analysis from these perspectives.

And, at its root, the negative factors in his family of origin were the most fundamental reason for his later depression.

My brother once modestly said that he was born in a middle-class family and his family background was average. But in fact, his family background was once very wealthy.

His father, Zhang Huohai, is a famous tailor in Hong Kong, and his mother Pan Yuyao is also a typical family. It can be said that my brother was born without worrying about food and clothing, and there are personal servants waiting for him. However, the elder brother is not happy in this family, and can even be said to be depressed and very lonely.

Mr. and Mrs. Zhang are very busy. Zhang Huohai is in charge of his career, and he also likes to mess with flowers, dating different women in luxury hotels, and only a few days a year will return home.

With a husband like this, Pan Yuyao's married life is naturally very unhappy. She has been depressed for a long time, busy looking for a private detective to find out her husband's whereabouts, and competing with the "second room" at home for favor, so she has no heart to take care of and accompany her children.

The elder brother said that he had not lived with his parents since he was a child, and that his parents lived downstairs in the factory to watch over the workers, and that he and his older siblings lived in another place and were taken care of by servants. As far back as he can remember, he only lived with his father for 3 days and was very estranged from his mother.

"I think it's a good thing to be beaten by my parents when I was a kid, but I didn't have that experience, let alone go out with my dad on Sundays with my camera to take pictures," he said. Moreover, because of the jealousy between his mother and the "second room", he was also drenched in urine by his "stepmother".

Zhang Huohai and his wife gave birth to ten children successively, three of whom died young, and the elder brother ranked tenth. It stands to reason that he has so many siblings that he will not be lonely even if his parents are not with him.

A photo of Leslie Cheung and his family, the little boy on the lower left is Leslie Cheung in childhood

But it backfired, and the difference between my brother and the nearest starling was 8 years old, and it was even farther away from my brother and sister above, and it was difficult to play together when I was a child. "When I was younger, I was usually isolated," he said. Moreover, the starling bullied him, threw him out of bed and flipped him into the water. Only the seventh brother and eldest sister are really good to him and care about him.

Because there are so many brothers and sisters, the servants can't take care of them too carefully at all times, and my brother almost drowned while swimming when he was a child, but fortunately he managed to survive the water. I'm afraid he has experienced such a dangerous situation more than once.

When the elder brother recalled his childhood experience, he seemed calm and didn't say much. But in fact, in that kind of family environment, he suffered a lot of superimposed psychological trauma. He also admits that even when he later became famous, he "still felt unhappy" when he remembered his experiences as a child.

In the clinical precision psychological intervention, we have received many depressed patients who have lacked the company of their parents since childhood, and even did not grow up with their parents, they have a deep "sense of abandonment", they feel abandoned by their parents when they are young, and their parents do not love them at all, which is one of the root causes of their depression later.

Therefore, it is very likely that his brother has had a "sense of abandonment" since he was a child, and this loss and lack of self-confidence are deeply rooted in his heart, which is one of the roots of his later personality becoming sensitive and suspicious, paranoid and stubborn, excessive pursuit of perfection, and evaluation in the unexpected world.

However, fortunately, my brother still had a sixth sister to love when he was a child.

Leslie Cheung and the sixth sister, the picture comes from the Internet

The sixth sister is not the sister of her brother Leslie Cheung, but the maid who brought him up since he was a child. When his parents were away for a long time and his brothers and sisters couldn't play with him, the sixth sister was the only one who accompanied his brother.

The sixth sister is very diligent, stoic, and kind, she is illiterate, but she taught her brother by word and deed to be a person who is good to people and things. When his brother decided to enter the entertainment industry, his father did not support it, he quarreled violently with his family and ran away from home. But the sixth sister is still by his side, cooking for him, and even taking care of his life with her own savings.

It can be said that my brother was able to successfully spend his lonely and depressed childhood and adolescence, and until his debut, there was no obvious mental and psychological disorder, which was supported by the great emotional support of the sixth sister.

Therefore, in his brother's mind, the status of the sixth sister has surpassed his mother. He was kind to the sixth sister. For a while, the sixth sister left her brother for a short time because of unfair treatment and cancer in her family. My brother was very uncomfortable in his heart, but he couldn't do anything about it. Fortunately, the sixth sister returned to him later.

After becoming famous, my brother still lives with the sixth sister in her 70s, and I feel that I can't live without her. Sometimes the sixth sister goes home to visit relatives, and the elder brother will be very uncomfortable, and even have a very lost feeling.

Around 1990, the sixth sister died due to ineffective cancer treatment, and the elder brother suffered a very big blow, and even announced his retirement from the music industry, immigrated to Canada with his partner to rejuvenate and heal, and returned to Hong Kong to restart his acting career for several years.

The elder brother's deep affection for the sixth sister is completely understandable, he is a person with great affection. But in fact, it is unusual for an adult male to have such a deep emotional dependence on an elder that he feels uneasy and lost even if the other person is only leaving for a short time.

Behind this, it is actually related to the "sense of abandonment" formed by my brother when he was a child. He rationally knew that the sixth sister did not want to abandon himself when she left, but this still activated his superimposed psychological trauma, making him feel uncontrollably "abandoned", resulting in a strong sense of unease and loneliness.

02. He has a learning disability, and he once had low self-esteem and depression on campus

Compared with the original family experience, my brother's campus experience is relatively more colorful, but there are actually many negative events.

From elementary school to middle school, my brother had very good classmates. But in terms of studying, my brother learned quite painfully. He jumped straight from the lower kindergarten class to the first grade, and at first he couldn't understand it at all, so he had to repeat it for a year.

His fifth-ranked sister always grabbed him for tutoring, and he was very resistant. In fact, my brother's grades were not bad at that time, and he was in the top 10 in every exam, but his eldest sister Zhang Luping was a teacher at that time, and she was also very strict with him, desperately supervising his reading, and even beating him with a hanger and belt.

Under the spur of the eldest sister, my brother's grades were once very good, and he won the second and third places in Chinese in two years. But because he was pressed too hard, my brother felt a lot of pressure, and in the later stages of primary school, he had a strong resistance to learning, and he was not interested in other subjects except English, especially mathematics, and he always couldn't learn well.

After going to middle school, his brother Leslie Cheung's academic performance can be said to be a failure, and he still left one level in the first year of middle school.

His father was very angry, "I see that you can't study in Hong Kong, have you ever thought about studying in another country?" The elder brother also felt that he was ashamed in the school in Hong Kong and didn't want to stay, so he agreed again and again. In the second year of secondary school, that is, when I was about 13 or 14 years old, my brother went to study in the UK alone.

The curriculum in the British school was monotonous, closed management, and there was not enough to eat, even with only 2 biscuits and a drink for dinner. My brother had to make instant noodles to eat.

However, when his brother was in the UK, his learning disability was alleviated, and he studied for more than 6 years and was admitted to the prestigious University of Leeds in the UK to study textiles. According to the plan, he will return to Hong Kong after graduating from university to take over his father's tailoring business.

But the good times didn't last long, he had only finished his freshman year, and his father was seriously ill, and the family wrote to him to go back quickly. His father survived, but he no longer wanted his youngest son to leave him, so he never returned to England and worked as a transfer student at a secondary school in Hong Kong. It was also at that time that he met some friends who liked to play music and began to participate in singing competitions.

It should be said that the elder brother has suffered a certain amount of superimposed psychological trauma on campus. The eldest sister and the fifth sister were too strict with him, and the methods were simple and rude, which led to him once having a very serious learning disability and becoming a poor student.

The teacher must have criticized him many times, and his classmates are likely to laugh at him, and he must have felt very uncomfortable and had low self-esteem. That's why he didn't want to stay in school in Hong Kong. When he went abroad to study alone at such a young age, he inevitably felt helpless and lonely.

He was finally admitted to the famous University of Leeds in the United Kingdom, and he was also interested in his major, and he saw that he would be able to return to China in a few years, but because his father was seriously ill, he had to interrupt.

I believe that he has also been disappointed and depressed in his heart, and may have thought that he could return from his studies and prove himself to his family and past teachers and classmates, but he returned to the original point.

03, he fell in love with Tang Hede after being hurt by his previous girlfriends, and his homosexuality was acquired

In addition to his original family and study experience, his brother also suffered a lot of superimposed psychological trauma in his love experience, whether it was in school or after entering society.

The elder brother has disclosed his hazy first love in his autobiography. When he was 7 years old, he had a hazy affection for a female classmate, wanted to pull her little hand, and finally really pulled it, and often passed notes to the girl during class. But when she was in the fourth grade of elementary school, the girl went to Canada and the two separated.

When I was in the first year of junior high school, my brother missed her very much, and when the girl returned to Hong Kong, he asked the girl to go shopping, and he also went to cut a hairstyle that he thought was very handsome in advance, and he was so excited that he couldn't sleep at night. As a result, when they met the next day, his brother found that the girl had grown taller than him, and he had a feeling of seeing his "sister", and the girl also felt a little awkward.

This "date" was unpleasant, and the girl obviously didn't like him anymore. The brother said that was the first time he was teased by a girl.

After middle school, my brother also liked other girls. The first one rejected him outright, but it was more tactful. The second girl he liked was surnamed Huang, and the two often played badminton together. Later, the elder brother went abroad to study, and the two kept in touch, and when he returned home, he finally chased the girl and had his first sexual experience at the age of 16.

However, when his brother was 17 years old, the two broke up. The elder brother later said that it was because the two had different ways of thinking about problems and outlook on life, and their relationship slowly faded. But some media reported that it was the girl who ruthlessly dumped him, but the two remained friends later.

After his brother's debut, he also fell in love with Hong Kong actress Mao Shunjun and proposed to her, but was rejected, and then the two broke up. Later, it was reported that he had fallen in love with actresses such as Sydney and Ni Shibei, but they all broke up in the end.

He even said in his autobiography that he was in love with a female liar. The other party is a mixed race, and the two know each other in a discotheque. After the two had a relationship, the elder brother didn't even know what the other person's last name was.

Later, my brother was moved by this girl and asked her name, only to find out that she was an old man. This girl not only cheated on feelings and money, but also once found people from the underworld to intimidate her brother and his family. When my brother talked about this relationship, he felt that it was an "insult" to him and caused him to lose interest in some women.

My brother's love history is really bumpy, either he was dumped or cheated. Although he rationally knows that emotional matters cannot be forced, and the other party has the right to propose to break up, objectively, this has activated and strengthened the "sense of abandonment" that he formed when he was a child, forming a more serious superimposed psychological trauma.

After being heartbroken by his previous girlfriends, his brother walked with his childhood friend Tang Hede. In his brother's mouth, Tang Hede was endlessly tolerant of him, helping him take care of his finances, driving and transporting him, playing ball together, and helping him when he was in the most difficult financial situation.

Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede, the picture comes from the Internet

The elder brother generously announced his relationship, took Tang Hede with him on many occasions, and publicly confessed his love at concerts and interviews. Once the paparazzi followed and secretly photographed the two of them, and the brother deliberately took Tang Hede's hand, and the paparazzi also pressed the shutter.

Later, this photo has been repeatedly selected by major magazine websites as: "The greatest hand-holding of this century", "The firmest hand-holding of this century", "The most touching hand-holding of this century".

It can be said that the sense of security that my brother didn't find in heterosexual lovers found it in Tang Hede. Tang Hede alleviated his brother's "sense of abandonment" and kept him from having an emotional breakdown when he encountered the death of his sixth sister in 1990.

Many "LGBTQ+" people say that sexual orientation is innate, and that homosexuals are born to like the same sex. However, in clinical precision psychological intervention, it was found that in fact, many homosexuality is acquired, and the most common reason is that individuals have suffered superimposed psychological trauma brought by the opposite sex, especially parents of the opposite sex, resulting in individual rejection of the opposite sex.

My brother's so-called homosexuality is typical. He has not established a deep relationship with his mother since he was a child, and it can even be said that his feelings are very indifferent. But fortunately, the sixth sister played the role of his mother to some extent, giving him love and companionship from women.

Therefore, my brother's sexual orientation at the beginning was in line with the mainstream, not only had many heterosexuality, but also had sexual experience with the opposite sex.

However, when he continued to suffer superimposed psychological trauma from women in his relationship, he became resistant to "falling in love with women". He later said in an interview that he thought he was supposed to be bisexual.

In fact, from the perspective of accurate psychiatric psychology, because my brother is very afraid of "being abandoned", in fact, what he really needs is someone who can always accompany him and never abandon him, and the gender of the other party is not the key.

So once he has feelings for people and thinks that others are good to him, he will dig out his heart and lungs, and never take the initiative to leave, hoping to maintain a long-term relationship with the other party. However, this also leads to the fact that when others leave him for some reason, he will be psychologically hurt again and again, and he can't help but feel "abandoned" again.

04. Social criticism and career setbacks worsened his depression

After his brother returned to Hong Kong after studying abroad, he continued to study in secondary school, and began to play music with like-minded classmates, participate in singing competitions, and later signed contracts with entertainment companies. This was the starting point for him to enter society, and it was also the beginning of his "social" beatings.

Leslie Cheung, the picture comes from the Internet

When my brother first became a singer, he was not popular. The outside world said that he sang like a chick and was immature. His debut solo album sold so badly that it was even sold off for a dollar by record stores.

When he sang publicly, the audience of more than 2,000 people booed him and told him to "rest early". Another time, he threw his hat off the stage to interact with the audience, but the hat was thrown back into his hands in disgust. My brother was very sad, he didn't understand why this was happening, and he cried sadly backstage.

Unsatisfactory in his singing career, and shy in his pocket, his brother began to participate in TV series. Unexpectedly, several martial arts dramas became popular in Singapore, Malaysia and Thailand, so he had the opportunity to perform in Singapore. He sang for 21 days in a row, 2 times a day, and his voice was dumb. Because of his hard work, he received more contracts and made a little famous in the film and television industry.

From 1983 to 1984, his brother's singing career finally ushered in a turning point. His "The Wind Continues to Blow" and "Monica" have become popular hits in Hong Kong, and he has finally turned over after years of hard work! As his fame grew, his film career began to shine step by step, making classic movies such as "The True Color of Heroes", "A Chinese Ghost Story" and "Rouge Buckle".

At this time, it happened to be the tenth year that he stepped into the entertainment industry. When Hong Kong people encourage their friends in adversity, they say, "Leslie Cheung will also survive for 10 years." In the past 10 years, my brother has experienced ups and downs.

Moreover, even if he later became the "top stream" among Hong Kong stars, there were many people who were popular, and he continued to suffer blows. He was caught in the "Tan Zhang hegemony", and many irrational Alan Tam fans chased and intercepted him, and even gave him dark coins to scratch his car.

At that time, Hong Kong was not as open as it is now, and its attitude towards homosexuality was far less tolerant than it is now. After his brother chose to "come out", many people ridiculed him, and many fans turned into "passers-by". His parents had strongly opposed their relationship, and some of his former friends had distanced themselves from him.

He filmed "Happy Spring," a film that depicts the subtle emotions between two men. He was successfully nominated for Best Actor at the 34th Golden Horse Awards for his wonderful performance. The older brother dressed up to attend the awards ceremony, but the host ridiculed him on the topic of sexual orientation, and he was humiliated in public. After the award ceremony, Leslie Cheung announced on the spot: "I will withdraw from the selection of the Golden Horse Awards in the future and will no longer participate in it for life." ”

In 2000, his brother's "Hot Love Concert" was one of the most important concerts in his music career, but it may also be the concert that put him under the most pressure. Many people even think that it was the follow-up turmoil of this concert that caused my brother to suffer from depression.

He himself served as the art director and invited the top international fashion masters as fashion designers. As a top Hong Kong star, he hopes to break the conventions of ordinary concerts and make some pioneering breakthroughs. At the concert, he wore either long hair or in a bun, with a sheer tights and a skirt.

At that time, many media and fans in Hong Kong abused him, saying that "he is a good man and does not behave", like a "ladyboy", like a male version of "Sadako...... Only a small group of voices agree with him.

Although the concert was very well received overseas, and the demand for it became higher and higher, the abusive voice gradually decreased. But at the beginning, the overwhelming criticism and attacks must have been a blow to his brother, who pursues perfection and values Hong Kong's local fans the most.

His agent, Chen Shufen, also publicly said that his brother was killed by the "paparazzi". She believes that the biggest reason for her brother's suicide is that the "paparazzi" deliberately distorted the facts and wrote her brother as a clown in order to attract attention when reporting on the concert.

Since that concert, my brother has become more prone to emotional problems, and finally diagnosed with depression, and his condition deteriorated rapidly. He also developed acid reflux, which hurt his throat and caused a lot of effects on singing.

Of course, some people say that when he filmed the movie "Different Space" in 2001, he was too deep into the play and did not withdraw in time, so he had insomnia, depression and other symptoms. If that's the case, the film is certainly not the root cause, but rather that the film activates a lot of superimposed psychological trauma in his brother, causing him to develop emotional symptoms.

In 2002, his brother prepared to direct his debut film "Stealing Hearts". My brother put a lot of effort into it and invited many superstars and big names in the entertainment industry to participate. It's a pity that because the filming location was not suitable, and the film investor was later imprisoned due to financial problems, the film was aborted.

It was also at this time that my brother's depression worsened. In November 2002, he attempted suicide by taking a large amount of sleeping pills, but fortunately was found by Tang Hede and rushed to the hospital. Since then, Tang Hede has never left him, but he still couldn't prevent his brother from having a tragedy.

05, my brother's suicide and death is a satire on mainstream psychiatry and psychology!

It would be incomplete to say that my brother was suffering from simple depression. He actually belongs to the second type of smiling depression: he has been diagnosed and treated, and his close family and friends know about it, but they didn't expect him to suddenly commit suicide, leaving them no chance to stay!

Also, my brother has suffered too much superimposed psychological trauma in his life, he has obvious paranoid personality abnormalities, is sensitive, and sometimes loses his temper, which is actually a state of agitation. After his illness, his mood swings may hurt those around him. It is not excluded that some psychiatrists will think that he has bipolar disorder, because many doctors think that short temper is a sign of hypomania/mania.

The elder brother also confessed that he was once very arrogant and self-righteous, and he didn't care about the feelings of others, and when he heard annoying words during the interview, he would turn around and leave. But he later reflected on himself, saying that he was indeed too willful in dealing with others, so he decided to change his personality and ask himself to be broad-minded and tolerant of others. This is very rare.

However, he looks very carefree, but because the main superimposed psychological trauma has not been deeply repaired, he is actually still evaluating himself in the accident world. He also has an obsessive-compulsive personality abnormality, pursues perfection in doing things, is very himself, and constantly puts pressure on himself, causing his pressure to become more and more stressful. In addition to this, his deep sense of abandonment is also one of the characteristics of the borderline personality anomaly.

Many people are very saddened by the tragedy of their brother and are also very confused:

My brother is famous and rich, and so many people like him, how can he not be happy?

Even if he is really unfortunate enough to suffer from depression, with his social status and wealth, how can he not find the best doctor?

For the first question, the above long article has been analyzed very clearly. Brother Leslie Cheung's depression is not a physiological factor, but because he has suffered a lot of superimposed psychological trauma since he was a child, from childhood to fame, from quantitative change to qualitative change, and finally led to depressive symptoms, even if others think he is very good, he still continues to self-deny.

Therefore, from the perspective of precise psychopsychology, the elder brother is actually very consistent with the etiological diagnosis - post-traumatic stress response disorder (PTSRD). Whether it is his depression symptoms, agitation state, or personality abnormalities, they are mainly caused by superimposed psychological trauma.

As for the second question, mainstream mental health practitioners at home and abroad should be ashamed.

For severe depression, mainstream psychiatric treatment methods at home and abroad are relatively inefficient, and often can only be treated with medication, physical therapy, and psychological counseling/psychotherapy. These methods are at the level of the patient's explicit memory, and cannot penetrate into the level of implicit memory.

It is possible that my brother's depression symptoms have been relieved after taking antidepressants, but the side effects of the drugs may have bothered him. He is well-informed and has a lot of life experience, and it may be difficult for a psychiatrist to listen to what the average psychiatrist says.

What's more, the doctor who treated him did not see his personality abnormality and could only treat his depressive symptoms. For patients with depression and personality abnormalities, if the personality abnormalities are not taken seriously and efficiently resolved, it is difficult for depression to recover. There are many such patients in clinical practice who are regarded as "treatment-resistant depression".

At the time, no one was able to help him deeply heal the major superimposed psychological trauma of his experience. He has been in so much pain that he would rather leave his beloved partner behind and die.

Many people say that why did his brother Leslie Cheung choose to commit suicide on April Fool's Day? Is it to satirize the world? Whether the elder brother is trying to satirize the world, we don't know, but the death of the elder brother is really a great satire on mainstream psychiatry and psychology at home and abroad!

My brother is very kind, not only does he not want to hurt others, but he always promotes newcomers in the entertainment industry. However, he lacked the wisdom to perceive the psychological root cause of his depression, and finally fell into catastrophic thinking and chose to commit suicide. If he can still live to this day, he can fully accept clinical precision psychological intervention that can go deep into the level of implicit memory, repair his main superimposed psychological trauma, truly move towards recovery, and create greater social value.

My brother has been dead for 21 years, and I hope that while the public remembers him, they can also reflect on themselves from his brother's tragedy. The main root cause of depression is not genetic factors and abnormal concentrations of neurotransmitters in the brain, but acquired psychosocial factors. Smiling depression is real, and if we have people with depression around us, even if they continue to receive treatment, we should pay attention to whether they are suicidal, especially if they are receiving relatively ineffective clinical treatment.

The elder brother had a very unhappy childhood, which was one of the sources of his illness. I hope that parents will give their children full love and attention, and do not let their children have a "sense of abandonment", if they can make their children feel worthy of love, this is a greater progress. Otherwise, if the child suffers from superimposed psychological trauma since childhood, and cannot be repaired efficiently, it is easy to respond to the sentence "An unhappy childhood must be healed in a lifetime", and it may even not be healed in a lifetime, leading to tragedy!