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Age has never been a limiting factor for women, and even in middle age, women have the right to pursue girlishness.
Just like the term "middle-aged girl" that is popular on the Internet today, it is not so much a middle-aged mature woman pretending to be tender, but rather that we always yearn for a more enthusiastic and flamboyant self, which is proof of not succumbing to fate.
In fact, whether it is a mature woman or a girl, as long as you live yourself, it is admirable enough.
The most frightening thing is that even at this stage, I still have a clear understanding and a blur.
Especially the woman who has to show off these four things is really cheap, and I hope we can all take this as a warning.
01: Show off your family background
It is true that everyone is born unfair, some people are born with a golden spoon in their mouths, and some people have to carry a burden.
But this is not the basis for us to show off, because life is a long-term struggle, and everything we have now may not be predestined, the key depends on whether we can be invincible.
In life, the more successful women are, the less they will show off their family background casually, they prefer to rely on themselves.
They are more aware of the truth that comes from their mouths and choose to keep a low profile, and it is this style of life that allows them to avoid the surge of human nature, better protect themselves, and go further.
Family history is indeed one of our calling cards, but the best way to protect the family is to keep a low profile.
I hope that one day others will envy your family background and admire your ability, so that you will be truly victorious.
02: Show off your husband
It is an extremely lucky thing to be able to find a partner who will accompany you for a lifetime, and the other party has excellent character, and I believe this is also the life that many women dream of.
But if we show off our partner too much, we will inevitably give a very bad impression to others, which seems to indicate that we have lost ourselves and can only become a vassal of our husbands in the family.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", the reason why Gu Jia looks down on the wives circle is because these wives get together to show off and compare, all of which are given by their husbands, and they have no ability to stand on their feet.
And although Gu Jia chose the wrong man, she has a unique vision and enough pattern, and she can live a prosperous life after the divorce, which is the big heroine in real life.
A good marriage should be the result of a strong alliance, and any woman who relies too much on each other will suffer a lot in marriage.
Hopefully, one day we can be better versions of ourselves in marriage, not just show off how good you are married.
03: Show off your money
Lu Yao once said: Money is a good thing, it can make people more courageous.
In today's society, having money is indeed enviable, which can at least ensure our basic material life, and also allow us to have the freedom to pursue the ideal spiritual realm.
But be careful, never flaunt your money, because people are separated from each other, and maybe others will be jealous of you and make everything you have worked hard to go down the drain.
Everyone should have money, but you don't have to let others know that by keeping money, you can keep the way back in the future.
04: Show off your relationship history
In real life, there are many women who take pride in their rich relationship history, and they think that it proves that they are very attractive.
But in reality, outsiders don't think that a woman with a rich relationship history is so shiny, on the contrary, many people will scoff at it.
A rich love history doesn't prove our misdeeds, but it's definitely not a bragging rights.
Rather than having to prove yourself with a relationship history, you should put your heart and soul into every relationship so that you can find a partner for life.
Middle-aged girl is not a derogatory word, on the contrary, women dare to pursue the life they want, which is worth learning from.
But on our way to becoming ourselves, we should never flaunt four things that will not benefit you at all and will lower our value.
Know how to restrain ourselves and believe that we can eventually embark on the road of ideals and have a bright future.
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