Who would have thought that Wu Jing, a famous favorite wife in the entertainment industry, would also suffer a day when word of mouth overturned.
Recently, some netizens turned out the variety show clips he and Xie Nan had participated in, questioning his machismo, disrespect for his wife, and misogyny......
"Wu Jing-style man" has become a determinatory term and has been scolded on the hot search.
Some netizens speculated that the marriage between the two was already in jeopardy, and some netizens shouted to Xie Nan, hurry up and divorce to save your life.
Seeing Wu Jing's "favorite wife and personality collapse", Xie Nan, who had been silent for most of the month, finally came out to respond.
"Life is not black and white, we love each other enough, but we can quarrel and quarrel. ”
Summary: There will be no divorce anyway.
From the highly sought-after model couple to the whole network shouting out, how did Wu Jing and Xie Nan get to where they are today?
It all started with the marriage and love show "Happiness Trio" that the two couples participated in three years ago.
The most controversial scene is that after Wu Jing cooked the noodles, he ate them alone without shouting Xie Nan.
The latter expressed surprise and complained in a low voice, but Wu Jing didn't seem to hear it, didn't respond, and just lowered his head and ate noodles.
Xie Nan's mood began to become unhappy, and after she walked to the kitchen, the two broke out into a suffocating conversation.
Wu Jing: "Do you want to taste it?"
Xie Nan: "I'm definitely going to eat it." ”
Wu Jing: "I didn't say you wouldn't eat it, I said if you want to taste it first." ”
At this point, Xie Nan simply expressed his dissatisfaction and grievances:
"When you burn it, you should call me and say that your daughter-in-law and son will eat together. ”
But Wu Jing's rhetorical question, "Didn't you see it?", undoubtedly added fuel to the fire.
This is not over, Xie Nan explained that as soon as he looked up, he saw that he had already eaten it, and Wu Jing accused Xie Nan in turn:
"Are you complaining about me? You're just picking on me and not calling you. ”
The two broke up unhappily and did not finish the meal.
Wu Jing left Xie Nan, went upstairs alone, and slammed the towel on the sink to vent his emotions.
The similar situation in the show is not limited to this time.
Later, on a dinner date, it was a good time for husband and wife to communicate, but it turned out that Xie Nan talked to himself throughout the whole process, and Wu Jing did not give any response.
After Xie Nan proposed, "Can't we sit down and talk for a while", Wu Jing's reaction was also very sensitive and resistant:
"I didn't know you suddenly wanted to chat, don't say it in such a rhetorical tone. ”
Seeing this, it can only be said that Wu Jing is macho and not good at communication, but when netizens dig out his performance in other variety shows by the way, they can't help but attack him in groups.
For example, when the two couples were playing a game to test their tacit understanding, as soon as they heard Xie Nan say, "No, you're too slow", Wu Jing immediately blackened.
After losing the next few games, he took the opportunity to accuse Xie Nan of not cooperating well.
Later, he simply gave up the game and directly made Xie Nan cry.
Another time, Wu Jing was making large intestines, and Xie Nan reminded him to "cook for a while, so as not to cause others to eat bad stomachs".
Wu Jing exploded instantly when he heard this, and scolded her in a manic manner, don't talk about it all day long.
Xie Nan felt extremely aggrieved, and the corners of his eyes were filled with tears, but he still quickly adjusted his emotions and reflected on himself:
"Maybe I'm not good enough, Mr. Wu hates women crying the most. ”
Coupled with Wu Jing's own speeches about some straight male cancer, it is true that people's blood pressure has soared.
"Actually, I've been on her show several times, and I don't think she's like that. ”
"I often give my daughter-in-law a big cold face. ”
Here Wu Jing also shared an example in the early years, Xie Nan tried on clothes for him, but he didn't want to wear them, so he collapsed hard and deliberately damaged the clothes.
Connecting these variety show clips, everyone seems to have a new understanding of Wu Jing-
Emotionally unstable, likes cold violence, disrespects his wife, and is too self-...... for straight men
In their 10-year marriage, the audience felt that the woman was wronged, but the man did not take care of her emotions and thoughts at all.
More people took part in it, speculating that their marriage was unhappy, believing that Wu Jing did not love his wife, and even had a tendency to domestic violence.
At this point, Wu Jing's image of "favorite wife" left by the public in the past has collapsed across the board.
Wu Jing's reversal of public opinion, do you feel very familiar?
Today, he is not the one in the past, "Zhou Yiwei in Zhu Dan's mouth".
"Step Theory", his wife cooked for her for the first time when she was pregnant, and publicly "belittled" his wife's acting skills......
In the past few years, Zhou Yiwei has been chased and scolded by the whole network as a "PUA master" because of the details of these couples.
No matter how Zhu Dan explains, everyone also thinks that she is unhappy in marriage and is a "humble person in love".
It wasn't until three months ago that the two went on "Love's Study Trip" together, and everyone saw other established facts of this marriage and slapped them in the face.
For example, although Zhu Dan is in charge of the show, it is clear that Zhou Yiwei is busy washing vegetables and pots and doing housework.
complained that he "didn't work" at the beginning, and people were really wronged.
For example, before getting married, Zhou Yiwei was willing to bear a debt of 20 million for Zhu Dan, how can this not be considered "miserable love, responsible"?
Seeing this, netizens apologized to Zhou Yiwei one after another, and sent him to the altar of "perfect man, spoiled wife and good husband".
Wu Jing Xie Nan's current word-of-mouth encounter is undoubtedly the opposite of Zhu Dan's Zhou Wei.
Whether it is praising Zhou Zhouwei or scolding Wu Jing, netizens all give judging criteria based on the "fragmentary facts" they see at the moment.
But they forget that the few words we see do not represent the whole of their married life.
When he said this, he didn't want to whitewash Wu Jing.
He is very much like the traditional fathers we meet in life, arrogant and good-looking, as soon as his wife says no, he is so anxious that he jumps to his feet, and he doesn't care about the other party's feelings.
But just because he has these problems, he can't deny what he did well, and even overly maliciously speculate about his domestic violence, cheating, and divorce.
Don't forget, after marriage, she handed in her salary card, opened the screen in front of Xie Nan all day long, and accompanied her to watch dramas even if she was lame, and even drove a helicopter to see her......
At the beginning, it was these sweet deeds that made everyone snort to death, and stamped Wu Jing as "a good husband with a love brain and internal entertainment".
And behind those controversial clips, there is often another truth that is ignored by netizens.
For example, in Wu Jing's "Happiness Trio", cue the old past that would throw a cold face at Xie Nan.
I want to show that I have learned to reflect, and I can't vent my temper on my wife because of a bad mood.
After the quarrel over the noodle eating incident, he still took the initiative to return to the table and calmly communicated with Xie Nan to solve the problem.
Some netizens think that Xie Nan is very aggrieved in her marriage, because she said in a certain show that "I will not marry in my next life".
But the truth is that this is just a joke that she is playing a lie detector game and deliberately testing the accuracy of the instrument.
Xie Nan once mentioned that she and Wu Jingjing belong to rational thinking, and they are amazingly compatible in handling various work and family affairs.
It's just that in their respective emotions, neither of them has learned to express them well.
In addition, Xie Nan is a little woman in love, and she cares too much about the emotional value provided by Wu Jing, but Wu Jing belongs to machismo and doesn't care too much about Xie Nan's feelings.
All this has led to repeated outbreaks of conflict between them.
Wu Jing's reputation is overturning now, did he really do something unforgivable?
Not really. He is still the same him, he has a romantic side that loves his wife, and there is also a side of a straight man who is impatient.
Everyone doesn't have to feel too sorry for Xie Nan.
In a Weibo response to the controversy, she also mentioned her own problems, "doing, calculating, and paying too much attention to details".
What everyone habitually substitutes is their own current thoughts.
In the final analysis, most spectators like to sing praises of beauty, and once they find that someone has the merits we yearn for, they will magnify and praise them, and strive to create gods.
Just like Wu Jing in the past, Zhou Zhou Wei now.
Once the illusion of perfection is punctured, it can't collapse, so he desperately pulls them off the altar, and then looks for the next "perfect" goal, and the cycle repeats.
If you want Gigi to say, don't be too sincere when you eat the candy of celebrity couples.
Behind the sweet appearances in marriage and love variety shows, the quarrels of chickens and dogs are the norm of married life.
After all, no one is perfect, and there is no perfect marriage in marriage.
When two people who love each other get along, it is inevitable that there will be various frictions and problems, which require both parties to spend time and effort to run in.
After all, it is nothing more than that, just like people who drink water and know that they are warm and cold.
You see that no matter how fierce the netizens are, Xie Nan still doesn't think that they love each other and resolutely do not leave.
Therefore, instead of pinning the hope of a good marriage on the stars in the reality show, it is better to focus on living your own life, and happiness will come more simply.
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