After Wu Jing suddenly caused a "machismo" controversy due to his previous variety show, his wife Xie Nan responded with a long post a few days ago, saying, "Mr. Wu is nervous, I'm afraid I won't have a relationship with him." ”
responded to the marriage relationship between the two from the side, and it was not as bad as the outside world imagined.
Indeed, since they got married ten years ago, they have been taking the route of "low-key affection", and the love story of the two is also full of "fairy tales" - because the woman once regarded the man as her childhood idol, and was also known as "the highest level of star chasing" by the outside world.
Especially before Wu Jing got married, when he encountered financial difficulties in filming "Wolf Warrior", it was also Xie Nan's full support, and the sentence "If you lose, I will support you", how many people began to believe in love again.
But such a marriage, which seems dreamlike to the outside world, is in danger because of the "disharmony" in the recording of the love drama "Happiness Trio"?
In desperation, Xie Nan responded with high emotional intelligence, with only one purpose: to calm the turmoil.
In fact, looking at the ten-year marriage of the two, of course, no conclusions can be drawn from some words on variety shows, but remember:
Celebrities are also people, and they will also encounter trivial things in life.
After all, compared to "love at first sight", "never getting tired of being there for a long time" is the most difficult.
1. Love with a "filter".
Compared with Wu Jing, who just turned 50 this year, was born in a martial arts family, Xie Nan's family background is not bad.
She grew up in a military family, and since she was a child, she has been a "good girl, someone else's child", and in her parents' education concept, she has always been asked to tolerate.
When she was studying at Anhui University of Finance and Economics, she participated in the "Charm Hosting Competition" and was signed by Guangguang Media.
Xie Nan's acting career was very smooth, and he was praised soon after joining, and gradually became a "master of the house", and his popularity rose all the way.
At this stage, Wu Jing has already "become famous":
His first work "Kung Fu Kid Breaking Love" was very presence, and later he acted in "Tai Chi Grandmaster", which became an instant hit.
At that time, Xie Nan was in junior high school, and he also skipped class to watch TV because he liked Wu Jing.
However, because Wu Jing filmed this drama, there were rumors of an affair with the heroine Fan Yimin.
Hong Kong media reported that the man fell in love with her at first sight, and immediately started to pursue her, and even gave up her career in domestic entertainment for her and moved to the Hong Kong circle for development.
And Fan Yimin, who has no shortage of suitors around him, proposed that he hoped that Wu Jing would earn 5 million within three years, which directly led to the two of them not being able to do so.
Fan Yimin turned around and had an affair with Luo Zhaohui, a wealthy businessman known as the "actress sniper", and finally ended up in a situation that everyone was aware of.
And Wu Jing's development in the Hong Kong circle is not smooth, although he has participated in works such as "Slaying the Wolf" and "The True Colors of Men", his actual presence is still not high.
Especially at that stage, he also had another scandal and was suspected of kissing on the street with actress Ye Xuan, but he soon denied it.
At the age of 36, Wu Jing chose to return to the development of domestic entertainment because he was "out of town, physically and mentally exhausted, and wanted to have a family".
At that time, he often posted on social platforms to express a similar state of mind, and it could be seen that he was indeed in the stage of "hating to marry".
Xie Nan appeared at this time.
The two met in 2010 in the show "Best Live" hosted by the woman, and the two showed pink bubbles in the show.
Wu Jing expressed his desire to find a girlfriend in public, and Xie Nan's colleagues at the scene also scored fiercely, constantly coaxing and matching the two.
At that time, Xie Nan was at the peak of her career, she sat firmly in the position of "Light Huadan", and on this basis, she also transformed, went to the film and television industry, and made the movie "Painted Wall".
Because she was too busy with her work, Wu Jing often fell into passivity in the process of pursuit, and the two later recalled:
He once waited for her for 4 hours when he confessed, and he also shouted to the other party on social platforms many times: "Is your work finished?"
Now looking at the love between the two is still very sweet: "straight man" Wu Jing is like a hairy boy who is always urging marriage and can't wait to get the attention of the other party, while Xie Nan is a very ambitious woman in the new era, but her career and love are both fruitful.
However, before they got married in 2014, they encountered a test, that is, the man encountered financial difficulties when preparing for the filming of "Wolf Warrior", so he had to mortgage the marriage house.
This episode has always been regarded by the outside world as evidence of the true love between the two, but in fact, if you look closely, it is not without flaws.
2. "Getting tired of each other for a long time" is not accidental
Although it was rumored that Xie Nan moved the audience with the sentence "If I lose you, I will support you", in fact, the real situation is that Wu Jing mortgaged the house before confessing, and she answered under pressure.
And when the two got married in 2014, Xie Nan was already pregnant.
However, she still needs to prepare for the wedding alone with a big belly, on the grounds that Wu Jing injured her leg because of filming at the time.
Xie Nan once again showed her gentleness and virtuousness, and even said to her husband: "You can just take a day off with the crew." ”
And all this in Wu Jing's eyes, "it's like participating in a large-scale variety show".
What's even more rare is that Xie Nan, who has always been very ambitious, showed a decision to take a back seat at the wedding, and bluntly said, "I am at home, you can go ahead!"
Everyone basically knows what happened next, Wu Jing came up with the movie "Wolf Warrior" directed and acted by himself the year after he got married.
He invested 80 million in his savings for this work, plus various other funds, the approximate cost was about 200 million, but in the end, the box office of the film reached 550 million - he bet on the right treasure.
The following year, Wu Jing began to prepare for the filming of "Wolf Warrior 2", which was released in 2017 and exceeded 5.67 billion at the box office, breaking the global single-market single-film box office record.
And Xie Nan's career retreated for a while after giving birth to a child - in the same year that "Wolf Warrior 1" was released, she came back to record variety shows.
This time, she also brought her husband, and the two showed their faces in the reality show "Let's Go Love".
It was from this variety show that the husband and wife showed a more realistic state of getting along.
Wu Jing is obviously a "straight man" in the show, and his temper is relatively impulsive.
For example, in a "you compare, I guess" link, because Xie Nan was dissatisfied with him being too slow, when he asked to change positions, he began to be impatient, and later he actually broke the jar and gave up directly, which directly caused his wife to cry in public.
Another time, the two wanted to work together to cook, but because Xie Nan had been "breaking thoughts" by his side, Wu Jing "exploded" again, and in the end, his wife took the initiative to reconcile with him.
However, at that time, Wu Jing gave people the feeling that he was indeed a "straight kung fu man", and Xie Nan had a high emotional intelligence, and the small turmoil between the two was quickly drowned.
But in 2020's "Happiness Trio 3", Wu Jing has become the top of the "Forbes Celebrity List" and "Ten Billion Box Office Filmmakers".
In addition to "Wolf Warrior", he also holds excellent works such as "The Wandering Earth" and "The Climber", and is a filmmaker with excellent popularity, word-of-mouth, and actual performance.
Therefore, the audience's evaluation of Xie Nan has also changed: from the original "variety show Xiaohuadan" to "Mrs. Wolf Warrior".
There is no doubt that many people are envious of her good luck, and the relationship with Wu Jing is also a bit "favored".
However, in this variety show, the two parties who have been married for 7 years have once again exposed their life fragments to the public's field of vision, and there are still a lot of "slots".
The most controversial clip that was turned out some time ago may be that Xie Nan didn't call himself before Wu Jing had a meal, and then the two had a quarrel, and the man was directly angry, and his eyes looked very terrible.
There are many similar situations, and every time the person who comes forward to solve the problem is Xie Nan.
She also analyzed the relationship between the two on the show, and it was indeed "he can always finish the reason, and it is clear that the truth is on my side......"
This is not an isolated case.
For example, Huang Lei and Sun Li, who have always shown themselves as lovers, have also met, and the woman bluntly said in an interview that she will be "bypassed by her husband, and in the end it will really become 'I was wrong'......"
3. How fake is the "affection" of your circle
Sun Li and Huang Lei were only 18 years old when they were together, and they had just been admitted to university - they were chased by the man after falling in love at first sight, until they are now 47 years old.
Throughout the nearly 30 years that the two have been together, most of them show affection.
Sun Li expressed in an interview early years ago that when they first fell in love, they encountered a conflict that was Huang Lei's compromise, but over time, they changed their own compromise.
For example, when the two found that the light in the toilet was not turned off at home, Sun Li thought that Huang Lei had forgotten it, and Huang Lei would keep saying that she had a bad memory, and she was PUA if she said too much: "This matter is really my problem......
In addition, the two have been married for many years, and so far Sun Li has not controlled the financial power of the family - Huang Lei once said complacently in an interview that his family's money is from his sister.
Not only that, but in the face of his wife giving up her entire acting career for herself, Huang Lei also felt very useful: "Did she complain? ”
Therefore, netizens buttoned the hat of an upright PUA wife on him, but Sun Li seemed to be willing to do so.
However, similar things seem to be so calm when they are placed on Hu Ke.
She and Sha Yi got married in 2011, which was also the rising period of Hu Ke's career, but the man's career was not so good.
But Sha Yi was desperate to get married at that time, so he left a sentence of "either get married or break up" to force Hu Ke, and finally she compromised.
After marriage, Hu Ke soon gave birth to a son, and he also took care of everything in the family with the same virtue, but the husband did not develop the habit of doing housework, which later became a key point of argument between the couple.
Although the man often shows his affection in the show, Hu Ke has publicly expressed his "regret for getting married" many times.
In 2019, there were rumors in the market that their marriage had long existed in name only.
The "loving" couples who also overturned due to the recording of variety shows also include Wang Zulan, a "spoiled wife madman".
In "The Man Who Does Housework", he shows extreme machismo, pointing fingers at his wife at every turn.
Even though he knew that his wife was pregnant, he still kept accusing her of unclean housework, which was very different from the previous favorite wife.
Although the marriage of the above couples is still stumbling, it is not easy for Xie Nan to respond for the sake of her husband's reputation.
But there are also many couples in the circle who take the loving route and have long been divorced:
For example, Dong Jie, who also prepared for the wedding with a big belly, and Li Xiaolu, who complained about eating cold hamburgers during pregnancy, all ended in cheating;
Big S, who once made a high-profile "shrimp peeling theory" in Lianzong, is also tearing each other apart with Wang Xiaofei......
Although these stories are in different versions, they all show one truth:
Don't overestimate the celebrities who have achieved freedom in material life, they are just ordinary people, living a glamorous but actually chicken feather life, each with their own pain points.
Love may just be in front of the camera, an existence like Wu Jing who can't "pretend" in front of the camera, but it seems more real, right?