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Hello everyone, I'm Uncle Wen.
Recently, because of some things, I went back to the countryside. Chatting with family members is always emotional, especially when it comes to marital issues.
Today, I will talk to you about the marriage and love dilemmas often encountered by rural boys, as well as the real experiences of some friends around me.
First of all, the problem we have to face is that the rural marriage market is not so easy to fight. As we all know, rural people attach great importance to tradition, and marriage is a major family event.
However, rural boys are often faced with pitfalls that make people scratch their heads.
Patronizing and working in the fields, he accidentally fell into the quagmire of marriage and love.
Some young men are sick of being in a hurry to get married, and as soon as they see a girl who is okay, they are impatient to jump into the fire pit of marriage. As a result, after marriage, I found that life was not as beautiful as I imagined, which was a big regret in life.
You have to be cautious about marriage and love, and you have to look at the right eye. That's what happened to my buddy. He has been working in the fields for many years, but he has never met a suitable girl. As a result, he was deceived by some rhetorical women, and fell into the quagmire of feelings.
Rural boys, don't choose casually in order to get married early, otherwise it's too late to regret it. On this issue, you have to be cautious and don't let feelings become a burden in your life.
So, how to solve the dilemma of rural marriage and love? I would like to share a few tricks with you, which may be helpful to you.
First of all, don't be impatient, marriage is not a single competition.
Don't act rashly because of the urging of your family or the comments of the people around you. We have to know how to wait, wait for the person who really makes your heart to appear.
Second, get involved in more social activities. Don't always bury your head in the fields, but take the time to go out and participate in some village activities and expand your social circle. Maybe on these occasions, you will meet that special someone.
Also, learn to understand each other with your heart.
Marriage is not a joke, you have to understand each other's family background, hobbies, outlook on life, etc. Only by truly understanding each other can we better embark on the journey of marriage.
Speaking of which, I am reminded of a friend of mine who was in too much of a hurry and married an unsuitable wife, and as a result, his married life was extremely discordant.
So, don't rush, take your time, and don't sacrifice your happiness for a marriage.
Rural boys, don't forget to maintain your independence.
In marriage, although you must have a sense of responsibility, you cannot completely entrust your life to the other party. You have to maintain your own personality and have your own career and hobbies, so that you can make your marriage more dynamic.
In short, rural boys, if you want to get rid of the dilemma of marriage and love, you have to choose carefully and not be impatient. Participate in social interactions, get to know each other attentively, and maintain independence, so that you can go further on the road to marriage.
If you have similar stories or suggestions around you, please leave a message to share, let us discuss together, and cheer for the marriage road of rural boys!