What makes a good partner? Some people say: he wants to lead you to grow together, and two people are the best partner to make progress together.
When Yue Lina did not hesitate to marry Guo Jingyu, a poor boy with no car, no house and no savings, she did not have the ability to predict the future.
This is a big gamble with only the starting time, and I don't know if my husband will like the new and hate the old one day, and I don't know if I will regret my impulsive decision in the future.
Now Yue Lina has become a well-known heroine of bitter love dramas with works such as "Mother's Road", "Little Nyonya" and "Dog Stick".
(Yue Lina's "Mother's Road" stills)
Her performance was deeply moving, truly reflecting the helplessness and ups and downs of women in the old era, which resonated with the audience.
Today we are going to talk about this actress Yue Lina, who is popular with middle-aged and elderly friends, her marriage is a little rebellious, a little incredible, some people say, "If my girl does this kind of thing, I will be so angry that my blood pressure is high!"
What did she do that caused everyone to have mixed opinions about her?
(Lina Yue)
01 gave birth to three children in a row, and her husband created a TV series for her
In 2018, "Mother's Road" was born, and the popularity of this drama has remained high, and the controversy over the starring role has continued.
The heroine Yue Lina and her husband play a director, one is in front of the stage and the other is behind the scenes, and the tacit understanding is seamless, becoming a pair of golden partners.
When filming this drama, Yue Lina was 44 years old, and this drama was born because of her desperate approach, which made her husband tremble.
Two years ago, 42-year-old Yue Lina gave birth to her and Guo Jingyu's third child.
Yue Lina was once in the crew because of the high-intensity work and the accident for her relatives, she was worried all day long, causing her to faint at the work site, and after being sent to the hospital for examination, it was found that she was allergic to contrast media, plus there was a tumor in the brain, which may affect fertility.
Yue Lina felt that it was all her own fault, she had not given birth to a child yet, so she was judged that she might not have children in the future, she worked hard to nourish her body, and her husband Guo Jingyu also told her not to worry, "If you don't have children, you don't have children, and it's good for us to live in our two-person world"
Only Yue Lina knows in her heart that her father-in-law and mother-in-law have always wanted to hold their grandson, if she can't give birth, the old man should be sad.
Simply Yue Lina put down her work and concentrated on taking care of her body at home, she took a bowl of Chinese medicine and drank it with a frown, and she persisted for a long time, Yue Lina became pregnant as she wished, and she was pregnant with 3 children in a short period of time.
When giving birth to the first child, the doctor recommended that a caesarean section be chosen, and Yue Lina gave up a normal birth, which was also for the sake of being good to the child.
After a year and a half, she was admitted to the hospital again to give birth, this time she insisted on a smooth delivery, and it took three days to give birth to her daughter.
(Guo Jingyu and Yue Lina)
When her youngest son was born, Yue Lina's mental state dropped a lot, and although she had a nanny and aunt to help her take care of the child, she was still visibly haggard.
Guo Jingyu saw his wife's dedication in his eyes, he felt sorry for his wife, thanked his wife for him and walked through the ghost gate for him over and over again, he secretly vowed in his heart to create a TV series that praises the greatness of maternal love, and in this way, "Mother's Road" was born.
It is not difficult to see that Yue Lina has a kind of strength that is not afraid of difficulties and does not admit defeat, and she has read thousands of sails with her husband, but she still feels that life is not happy enough.
What is commendable is Guo Jingyu, many men of this age, after a successful career, look back and forget the weal and woe of the bad wife, the story of the negative man has heard too much, seeing Guo Jingyu's care and gratitude to his wife, it reminds us of the sentence "Those who love come love to go"
(Guo Jingyu, Yue Lina's family of five)
02 Invest for love and use money to support your family and boyfriend
Speaking of their first meeting, they had to go back to the age of 16, this day was the day when the new students entered the school, Yue Lina went to school accompanied by her parents, Guo Jingyu was one year older than him, and the two became classmates.
The initial germination of the youth is the most beautiful poem, Yue Lina's beauty is pure and moving, although Guo Jingyu is not as shining as Yue Lina, but it can also be regarded as beautiful and talented.
The two of them don't know each other, Yue Lina asked Guo Jingyu to help find a place to take a bath, Guo Jingyu agreed to come down, and when the appointed time came, he didn't see anyone.
Where did Yue Lina get angry like this, she didn't pay attention to Guo Jingyu anymore, Guo Jingyu hurriedly ran over, took out a box of pills and handed it to her.
It turned out that the careful Guo Jingyu found that Yue Lina was on fire, and the weather in the north was more stuffy, and it was even more uncomfortable to take a bath when it was on fire, so he thought about buying some medicine for Yue Lina first.
Yue Lina's heart was instantly moved, but she didn't expect Guo Jingyu to be a meticulous person, and she apologized for losing her temper at him.
In this way, the two didn't know each other, and soon fell in love, and after graduation, they were assigned to the Chengde Repertory Theater together.
In the repertory troupe, Yue Lina was quickly appreciated by the leaders because of her good appearance and played many roles, while Guo Jingyu found that he was not interested in performing on stage, and he wanted to be a director.
So he told his girlfriend his idea, and after Yue Lina heard it, she supported him very much, "You can go and study, I can earn money now, enough for the two of us!"
With the strong support of his girlfriend, Guo Jingyu worked as a handyman in the drama club while holding a book and reading hard all night.
What makes them sad is that every time she gets a salary, Yue Lina carefully calculates to go to the vegetable market to grab discounted vegetables, and carries most of them to her home, even though the rest of the money on her body cannot support the next month's salary.
Guo Jingyu felt that he had dragged Yue Lina down, if it weren't for his dream, his girlfriend's income alone would have been able to support him, and he was full of guilt and self-blame.
Yue Lina didn't think so, "You have your ideals, I also have my ideas, you just have to do it, I believe you can!"
Hearing his girlfriend's unconditional trust in him, Guo Jingyu cheered up, he will not always be in adversity, now he is like climbing a mountain, but as long as he keeps taking steps, he is growing to a high place.
Later, Guo Jingyu decided to go to Beijing for development, and Yue Lina did not hesitate to choose to become a North Drifter with her boyfriend.
When she first arrived in Beijing, Yue Lina participated in film and television dramas such as "Bloody Wolf Mountain" and "Three Lanes and Seven Streets", and "Three Lanes and Seven Streets" was also Guo Jingyu's first attempt to be an assistant director.
At that time, Yue Lina and Guo Jingyu didn't dare to expect today's big villas and luxury cars, they were crammed into a 6-square-meter basement, and what they were most afraid of was that it would rain, and the water would almost reach their ankles when they arrived at home.
After cleaning up the mess, Yue Lina sat on the damp bed and hugged Guo Jingyu and cried, even though she didn't think about leaving Guo Jingyu.
has been together for many years, Guo Jingyu has never met each other, and Yue Lina has always been a small supporting role in the third and fourth lines, and the income of the two people adds up to the rent, and there is not much left after eating and drinking, and it is difficult to even send money to the old mother at home, or Yue Lina takes out some of it every time she pays her salary, and asks Guo Jingyu to send it home.
Guo's mother knew that her son had a filial and capable girlfriend, and she kept urging them to get married, but Guo Jingyu was unwilling, he wanted nothing now, wouldn't it be a great grievance to let Yue Lina marry him?
Guo's mother was angry that her son was not enlightened, and felt bitter, she couldn't help her son, she secretly wiped her tears, took out the money that her son sent home for herself, and handed it to Guo Jingyu, "You take these, I don't need any money when I'm old, you work too hard outside." ”
Yue Lina saw that Guo's mother was so kind and considered for them, her heart was not comfortable, and before she passed the door, she recognized Guo's mother as a "godmother", which made the old man happy.
"This mother called, but even if my future daughter-in-law, Jingyu dares to bully you in the future, I will call the shots for you!" Guo's mother loved Yue Lina with all her heart, making her feel that her efforts were worth it.
Until 1999, Yue Lina and Guo Jingyu officially received their marriage certificate, but in the face of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Guo Jingyu did not feel so good.
Yue Lina's forehead resolutely disagreed with her daughter's marriage to Guo Jingyu, so Yue Lina could only secretly get the certificate from them.
"Mom and Dad, I must marry him, and none of you can stop me!"
Yue Lina insisted on standing on her boyfriend's side despite the anger of her parents, and she was desperate to marry this man who worked hard with her and endured hardships with her.
Father Yue held his forehead angrily, Mother Yue even wanted to drive them out, Guo Jingyu took Yue Lina's hand, protected her behind him, and said to the second elder perverted, "I only love Nana alone, no matter what kind of achievements I make in the future, I will give her everything I have, I will not boast about Haikou, please look at my performance in the future." ”
Seeing that the raw rice had been cooked, Yue Lina's parents could only accept this marriage no matter how angry they were.
And Yue Lina, as a daughter-in-law, really set an example, when Guo Jingyu's mother was seriously ill, Guo Jingyu was filming outside, Yue Lina went in and out of the hospital every day to buy medicine, cook, and send a change of clothes to her mother-in-law.
In addition to hiring a nurse, she does many things herself, young people are afraid of being dirty and tired, Yue Lina does not, she helps her mother-in-law scrub her body and dispose of excrement, even doctors and nurses think she is her biological daughter rather than daughter-in-law.
Until now, Guo Jingyu has deeply remembered Yue Lina's forbearance and dedication, and it is a gift from God that he can marry such a good daughter-in-law.
After taking care of Guo's mother's funeral, the couple returned to Beijing and started working day and night again. Fortunately, this time they finally saw hope.
(Guo Jingyu's family)
03 From two people to five people
Guo Jingyu has been in the director's circle for a long time, and finally began to shoot independently, and he also climbed up step by step from handyman, assistant to assistant director and then director.
From "The Girl in Red Mansions" to "The General", "Iron Pear Flower", "Dog Stick", "The Most Beautiful Village", "The Legend of Su Mo'er", "The Autumn of Manidui", these dramas have a very good reputation and response, Yue Lina has also become her husband's queen heroine, and his wife can only be a supporting role in others, but he will always be a big heroine here.
Not only let his wife film, Guo Jingyu also took his younger brother Yang Zhigang to participate in the performance together, loving his wife with one hand and supporting his brother with the other, he is a good man with a sense of responsibility.
With her wonderful performance in "Dog Stick", Yue Lina won the Breakthrough Actress Award at the National Drama Festival.
Her career began to be neat, Yue Lina's body was almost well-raised, she discussed with her husband that she wanted a child, Guo Jingyu was worried about her body, and she didn't agree at first, Yue Lina hoped that her husband could let her realize her dream of being a mother.
"I have never asked you for anything over the years, and I have always believed that you can fulfill your dreams, and now I have dreams of being a mother. ”
Yue Lina said three or two words, and Guo Jingyu was defeated, but he asked his wife to listen to the doctor, and the doctor gave up if he said no, and the pregnancy matter could be stopped at any time, nothing was more important than Yue Lina's body.
Fortunately, Yue Lina's body has been raised very well by Guo Jingyu, and even giving birth to three children did not cause her an accident, and she also created a popular film and television drama like "Mother's Road".
Yue Lina and Guo Jingyu did not leave their children to the elderly or nannies at home like other parents, they had to take their children with them even if they were busy with work.
Sometimes it's more than 3 o'clock in the morning when I come back from work, seeing the sleeping figures of the little ones, Yue Lina feels that the tiredness on her body has been swept away, she kisses her daughter and hugs her son, and now her happiness is all in exchange for the hardships she has endured.
They also moved from the basement to the big villa, the couple insisted on doing public welfare, and took the children out to travel together when they had time, and every year on the child's birthday, Yue Lina would write a long letter to send it, which was full of her love for each child.
The three children let Yue Lina educate very well, obviously the youngest is a son, but the third brother will study like the eldest brother, and give the delicious and fun to the second sister, which makes Yue Lina very pleased, although it is very tiring to take care of the children, but she feels that her three babies make her very worry-free.
Now Yue Lina's mother is over 80 years old, and Yue Lina has already untied the knot, she took her mother to live with her, and because her mother didn't like to go out, she took out her son's puzzle for her to play.
(Yue Lina's mother)
Not long ago, Guo Jingyu hosted Ronaldo's China trip dinner, he and his wife Yue Lina and younger brother Yang Zhigang dined at the same table with Ronaldo, many people know that the organizer of this event is Changxin Media, and the president of Changxin Media is Guo Jingyu.
In recent years, Yue Lina has filmed many high-scoring works such as "Tang Dynasty Legends" and "Nanyang Daughter's Love", and in December last year, her new drama "Appraisal" was announced, and we also look forward to Yue Lina bringing new works again.
Looking at Yue Lina and Guo Jingyu all the way, they have achieved each other, without saying a word, the years are long, but their love has not aged.