Recently, about the marital status of Xie Nan and Wu Jing, it has spread on the Internet.
Under the different opinions, many netizens questioned Wu Jing's "favorite wife personality", and criticized him for being "misogynistic" and "violent maniac" and other negative comments.
And the day before yesterday, Xie Nan, who was caught in the turmoil of public opinion, finally came out to respond, but he didn't expect the result of the response to make netizens unexpectedly warm again.
Let's follow the editor to sort out what happened.
Wu Jing and Xie Nan got married in 2014 and have been nearly 10 years now. With the improvement of Wu Jing's career, netizens began to archaeology Wu Jing and Xie Nan.
And when digging into the variety show that the two participated in together before, many netizens were shocked, saying: This is the Wu Jing who loves his wife to the bone?
There are several main points that netizens dispute. First of all, it is said that Wu Jing is an "emotional giant baby".
For example, participating in the show, Wu Jing Xie Nan and other guests played games together, obviously it was not Xie Nan's fault, but Wu Jing broke out directly, full of complaints.
The guests on the side also came to persuade peace, and even more onlookers said bluntly: It's really not Xie Nan's fault, this is Wu Jing's fault. And Xie Nan wept silently aggrieved on the side.
For example, facing the camera, Xie Nan wanted to liven up the atmosphere and took the initiative to talk to Wu Jing, but Wu Jing's impatient sentence of "don't ask so many questions" directly made Xie Nan can't help but cry again.
Then facing the camera, Xie Nanqiang cheered up and explained to himself, saying that maybe he didn't do enough by himself, but he had worked hard and accommodated Wu Jing's emotions.
As he spoke, he cried again, but quickly wiped away his tears and said that Wu Jing hated women crying the most.
There are also many details picked up by netizens, such as the wife cooking and starting without waiting for the wife to do it herself.
When facing his wife's inquiry, Wu Jing had a very bad attitude, and after the two quarreled, he also went to the bathroom to throw a towel to vent his anger.
Now netizens couldn't sit still, and called Wu Jing a "violent man", saying: Oh my God, this appearance is too scary.
Some netizens accused Wu Jing, saying that why his emotions are always not well controlled? Moody, short-tempered, and cold and violent, they also persuaded Xie Nan to get a divorce and get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible.
What's more, through these things, he directly accused Wu Jing of "disrespecting women" and "misogynism".
This hat was buttoned down, and the topic continued to ferment, and the husband and wife finally couldn't sit still, Xie Nan came out and hurriedly responded.
Xie Nan posted a long sentence, saying that Wu Jing had read a lot of such comments recently, and the whole person was nervous, afraid that Xie Nan would really divorce him after reading these comments.
And Xie Nan's high emotional intelligence response also made many netizens feel comfortable.
Xie Nan was very sincere in and out of his words, saying that the corner of what everyone sees, the truth you think may not be the whole picture. At the beginning of the show, they all said that Xie Nan was a good man and cared about everything, and now he began to denounce Wu Jing again.
But people bring their own experiences to the table, and no one can understand others beyond themselves. In the end, Xie Nan also said that they love each other very much, and life is not black and white, and thank you for your criticism. I wish you all happiness.
As soon as these words came out, netizens were relieved and said bluntly: The two of you live your life better than anything else, some deliberately embarrassing and dark, don't pay attention to it, who doesn't have a noisy life?
Some netizens feel that variety shows must find some points to increase ratings, and they will definitely highlight some contradictions. The husband and wife are not demons, they are very low-key, and I believe that they truly love each other.
In fact, these two will cause such a big response on the Internet, mainly because the love period of Xie Nan and Wu Jing that netizens saw was really sweet. So I can't quite accept it from my heart, the run-in and quarrels in their real marriage.
Many people think that Wu Jing was very fanatical when he chased Xie Nan, and he didn't cherish it when he got it. In fact, no, as Xie Nan said, what we see is only a corner of the truth rather than the whole picture.
In fact, the same experience has already been experienced by Zhou Yiwei a long time ago.
At that time, Zhou Yiwei suffered no less bad comments than Wu Jing suffers now.
For example, when Zhu Dan participated in a variety show, she mentioned that she went to give her husband an umbrella on a rainy day, but she didn't expect the two guests around her to be more exaggerated than the other, saying why do you want to send an umbrella, a man should be drenched in the rain! Why do you send an umbrella to your husband, not your husband to give it to you?
Zhu Dan said that love is equal, why should there be a distinction between men and women? But he was mercilessly ridiculed.
and Zhu Dan said that when the two quarreled, Zhou Zhouwei coaxed her in two sentences. The first sentence is, I'll give you the steps now, and the second sentence is, if you don't come, there will be no more steps later.
This time, the whole network is frying. At that time, the whole network was full of bad comments about Zhou Yiwei, saying that he was a PUA master, he was originally eating soft rice, and he knew that he was not a good person by looking at his face, etc., and said that Zhu Dan was PUA, which was too humble.
But in the face of verbal attacks from netizens, Zhou Yiwei never gave an explanation. It wasn't until he appeared on a variety show with Zhu Dan that netizens knew that Zhou Yiwei had suffered so many grievances over the years.
Not to mention anything else, Zhu Dan was deceived by his best friend at that time, not only did he have nothing, but he was also burdened with 20 million foreign debts. At that time, the two were not married, and Zhou Zhouwei was very responsible, saying that the two worked together to repay the money.
Later, netizens learned that Zhou Yiwei was crazy about taking on dramas during that time, all to pay off his wife's debts, and in the face of the overwhelming bad comments on the whole network, Zhou Yiwei didn't defend a word, because life is a matter of two people, and it would be good if he knew it in his heart.
Then netizens saw Zhou Yiwei's love for Zhu Dan from various details in the show, and then they all apologized to Zhou Yiwei wildly, saying that it was a misunderstanding, and Zhu Dan really loved the right person.
In fact, the incidents of Wu Jing, Xie Nan and Zhu Dan Zhou Yiwei can be traced back to the same category. Marriage is like a person who drinks water and knows that he is warm and cold, and what we see may not be the whole truth.
Life is not a fairy tale, nor is it an idol drama, in addition to the beauty of love, there are also the trivialities of life, and the true meaning of marriage lies in mutual understanding and tolerance.
In fact, netizens can eat melons, but they must eat melons sensibly, and don't be taken away by various articles taken out of context.
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