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Yesterday afternoon, Xie Nan suddenly posted a small essay on the online platform, which made many netizens stunned and questioned her "too deep poisoning".
Because Xie Nan's essay was in response to the concern of many netizens, she told everyone that she would not get divorced.
Both husband and wife are smart people
Xie Nan deceived himself?
Judging from Xie Nan's response, she is clear about all the netizens on the online platform who are persuading divorce.
Because the more netizens dig into the affairs of their husband and wife, the more energetic it is.
It seems that if Xie Nan and Wu Jing are not persuaded to divorce, this year will pass.
The entry that led to the divorce of "Xie Nan and Wu Jing" became more and more popular, and even the two parties knew about it.
But at the beginning, whether it was Xie Nan or Wu Jing who persuaded netizens to divorce, they did not respond to this matter, and they were pretending not to know.
It wasn't until Xie Nan's short article that everyone understood that the couple were pretending to be confused.
Xie Nan said that Wu Jing in her eyes is different from what everyone sees, so there is no need to mention the divorce.
In a word, emotional things, such as people drinking water, know whether they are warm or cold.
It can be said that Xie Nan has been very vaguely accusing netizens of interfering too much in the love life of the couple.
However, all these remarks of the authorities and bystanders are clear, and all of Xie Nan's remarks are based on the fact that she has been married to Wu Jing for many years and already has two children.
As Xie Nan said, if there is no principled problem, it is impossible for her to give up the love nest that has taken more than ten years to build, because the courage to start over again is not something that everyone has.
In this small composition, Xie Nan emphasized "they love each other enough" from beginning to end, and did not analyze the problems existing in his partner throughout the process.
Presumably, the woman knows the problems of the person next to her very well, just as Wu Jing understands that it is impossible for her to divorce.
Therefore, netizens should have an attitude of respect, understanding and blessing towards the feelings of this couple.
One is willing to fight, the other is willing to suffer.
Then "lock up".
Wu Jing-style man
Once upon a time, Wu Jing was the object of imitation by many men, and also the object of worship by many women, because he was "hard enough".
In the current situation where the male factor in male actors is becoming more and more scarce, these male actors with male colors are becoming more and more popular.
Especially after Wu Jing finished filming the "Wolf Warrior" series of movies, he was less than 1.8 meters tall.
has become a representative word of tough guys in the entertainment industry, and what followed was the full flowering of Wu Jing's career.
Among them, Wu Jing's wife Xie Nan paid the most.
If it weren't for Xie Nan's willingness to put down his career and be at ease at home, his husband and children.
and persuaded his parents to sell their houses to raise funds and make movies for their husbands, Wu Jing could not have been so successful.
After that, the husband and wife were also invited to participate in the husband and wife variety show because of the rising popularity.
Unexpectedly, the two variety shows suddenly unveiled the fig leaf on the life of the so-called loving couple in the entertainment industry.
Because Wu Jing is not worth it, a man like him is not worthy of love at all.
In the two variety shows "Let's Go Love" and "Happiness Trio", the details shown by Wu Jing are simply eyeless.
For example, when Wu Jing and Xie Nan were in the game session, Wu Jing became more and more irritable because he had not won the victory, and finally directly admitted defeat.
It's a pity that he, who has always refused to admit defeat, doesn't approve of this result at all, and turns his head to vent his temper on his wife.
For example, Wu Jing was in the kitchen with Xie Nan, preparing his own meals, because Xie Nan reminded Wu Jing of the necessary steps.
He was immediately upset, turned his head and went to the dining room to eat first, and when he was full, he went upstairs and lost his temper in the mirror without saying a word.
For example, it was still in the cooking process, Wu Jing did it himself, and Xie Nan assisted on the side.
But he hadn't cooked for a long time, and he didn't know how to make things more delicious, and his caring wife reminded him carefully.
But Wu Jing didn't buy it at all, and pulled the machine to start a tantrum and started a war of words.
Together with Qi Wei and his wife, who participated in the variety show together, they all frowned.
If Wu Jing's impatience and temper tantrum towards his wife were deliberately edited by the program team, then Wu Jing revealed his way of handling his wife in many variety shows, so there is no place to wash his name.
This tough guy who looks like a man in front of everyone is actually a grumpy man who has machismo and doesn't know how to respect the people around him.
Later, "Wu Jing-style man" has become a label, specifically used to describe those who rely on their wives' superiors and deliberately vent their bad temper on those close to them.
In fact, Xie Nan knows everything about the problems that exist in her husband.
After all, the two of them have shared the same bed for more than ten years, and she understands it very well in her heart.
In a variety show, the host jokingly asked Xie Nan if he would still be willing to marry Wu Jing in his next life.
But Xie Nan knows better that if this marriage does not encounter problems of principle, and the two are separated because of this, she may be as unhappy in the future.
Because today, netizens stand on Xie Nan's side and persuade her to let go, if Xie Nan is even more unhappy in the future, netizens may say, "You deserve to get a divorce, which man in the world is not like this, and he didn't make a mistake of principle, don't you just endure this life?"
In short, emotional matters are the cause and effect of the two of them, and netizens must not take it too seriously.
After all, outsiders can never wake up people who pretend to be asleep, and there is never a shortage of "Wu Jing-style men" in the entertainment industry, and some are even more terrifying.
For example, Huang Lei!
Compared with Wu Jing, Huang Lei's road in the entertainment industry is very smooth, and he can be said to have a bumper harvest in his relationship and career at the same time.
Huang Lei, as a teaching assistant who stayed in the university, took advantage of Sun Li's youth to take down the other party and marry a beautiful wife.
Next, Huang Lei used his high emotional intelligence to devote himself to his career and achieved success.
Huang Lei has also been the object of envy of everyone over the years, because his status in the entertainment industry has become higher and higher.
And he and Sun Li are still one of the few couples in the entertainment industry as always.
But many of these are based on Sun Li's sacrifice.
If his wife wants to come out to film, Huang Lei will use her children and family to suppress her, telling his wife to take care of the family, so that Sun Li's best years will be wasted in family trivialities.
Huang Lei himself is patriarchal, wants a son, and uses two children to brainwash his wife, his daughter has no younger brother, and there is no family in the future.
Although it is not clear how Huang Lei persuaded his wife, the woman's interview in front of the camera made everyone see the suffocation in their relationship.
Because Huang Lei gave all the money to his sister, his wife had to ask his eldest sister if she wanted to use a little more money.
If Sun Li was out of society and spent a few years in the entertainment industry before meeting Huang Lei, it would be impossible for this man to make a bargain.
Because Sun Li is completely pay-oriented in this family, she has no career, she can't grasp the financial power, and she has to be brainwashed that she is not good, and she has to rely on her husband.
It stands to reason that Xie Nan's first reaction to this two model couples who have been in the circle in front of the public for half a year should be to answer like a joke.
As a result, in the joking session, Xie Nan thought seriously for a few seconds, and said very solemnly, "No".
It can be seen that whether he is happy or not, Xie Nan has to grit his teeth and swallow it.
In contrast, Wu Jing seems to have a little more respect for Xie Nan, because he agrees that his wife is busy with her career and will not limit people to the house.
Epilogue:
In fact, in many cases, it is impossible to say clearly what is mixed with feelings, and whether it is the authorities or bystanders, it may be affected.
Therefore, for couples or couples, everyone should maintain the sanity that bystanders should have, and do not interfere in their cause and effect.