My husband became a son-in-law in order to follow me, and I supported him at my mother's house
Speaking of which, this thing has to be like the old saying, "There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no fate not to meet on the other side." "That's the fate of me and my family. Back then, he was a young man drifting north, with nothing but blood and deep love for me. As for me, I am an authentic Beijing girl, although my family is not very rich, but in this Sijiu city, I can be regarded as having a stable nest.
When we met in Weiwei, he was like a headless fly, bumping around in the huge city of Beijing. He told me that he stayed here because of me. I listened to the warmth in my heart, but I also knew that life in Beijing was not easy, especially for a young man like him.
My parents looked down on him at that time, thinking that he had no house or a car, and he was a foreigner, and they were afraid that I would suffer with him. But I know in my heart that he is a potential stock, and as long as he is given a chance, he will definitely get ahead. So, I tried my best to fall in love with him.
Later, in order to show his loyalty to me, he even offered to be his son-in-law. This incident caused an uproar in our family, you know, in our traditional concept of Chinese, a son-in-law is not a glorious thing. But in the end, my parents didn't try to persuade me and agreed to our marriage.
After getting married, he settled in our house. But instead of being idle, he worked harder to prove his worth. I watched him go out early and return late every day, and my heart was both distressed and gratified.
I know that it is not easy for him to be outside, and he has to face all kinds of difficulties and pressures. So, I supported him as much as I could, both mentally and materially. I told him that as long as he has a heart, he will definitely be able to break through.
In those years, although we were not rich, we were very happy. He was also filial to my parents, and gradually, my parents accepted him and treated him as their own family.
Later, he really lived up to my expectations, his career improved, and our family's life got better and better. He often told me that it was I who gave him the confidence and strength to get him to where he is today.
Looking back now, those difficult days seem like they were yesterday. I watched him grow from a young man with nothing to today's responsible and responsible man, and I felt indescribable satisfaction and pride in my heart.
Of course, we have also had quarrels and conflicts, but those are small episodes in life that are not enough to affect the relationship between us. I know that no matter what difficulties and challenges we encounter, as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome them.
Some people say that door-to-door sons-in-law are not easy to be and have to face a lot of pressure and prejudice. But in my opinion, as long as two people truly love each other and support each other, there is nothing to be afraid of from the outside world's eyes and discussions.
Today, we've been through a lot of ups and downs for decades. He is still the loveliest and most respectable man in my heart. And I, as for me, is still the most supportive and understanding woman around him.
I want to tell all middle-aged and elderly friends, no matter what kind of difficulties and challenges you face, don't give up the pursuit of life and love. As long as you have love, faith, and courage in your hearts, you will be able to overcome all difficulties and live a happy and fulfilling life.
As for the future, who knows, but I believe that as long as the two of us are together, the future will be beautiful. You tell me?