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Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

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Sentence|No. 2 娱秘探

Editor|No. 2 Entertainment Detective

Preface

In 2003, the death of the famous Hong Kong actress and singer Anita Mui shook the entire Chinese-speaking circle.

Her death is not only a huge loss to the entertainment industry, but also an indelible pain in the hearts of countless fans.

Anita Mui's attending doctor had indicated that her illness could be cured.

But it's a pity that Anita Mui refused treatment, which also makes many people wonder what is going on?

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

Choice and sacrifice

Anita Mui passed away on 30 December 2003 at the Hong Kong Sanatorium & Hospital due to lung failure caused by cervical cancer.

According to her attending doctor, she had a chance to recover and only needed to have her uterine removed.

However, Anita Mui chose to abandon this treatment plan.

It turned out that in Anita Mui's heart, the uterus is not only an important physiological organ for women, but also carries her dream of becoming a mother.

After all, Anita Mui is very eager to have her own flesh and blood.

But once the uterus is removed, it means that Anita Mui will forever lose the possibility of being a mother.

For her, losing the right to be a mother is an unacceptable torture.

At that time, Anita Mui's friends knew about her choice, and it was a little incomprehensible.

They also persuaded Anita Mui to undergo treatment.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

He also pointed out that the opportunity to become a mother can be obtained through adoption.

But no matter how much her friends persuaded her, she couldn't change Anita Mui's mind.

In fact, it is not difficult to imagine why Anita Mui has such a firm idea.

It's all about what happened to her as a child.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

Adult butterfly

Anita Mui lost her father's protection shortly after she was born.

Therefore, her mother had to become a strong woman and bear the burden of raising four children on her own.

It is also in this environment that Anita Mui's indomitable character has been created.

Due to the poverty of her life, Anita Mui's mother could not afford to take on the burden of raising four children.

Therefore, Anita Mui and her sister were sent to a playground by their mother and began their life of performing on stage.

From the age of four, the stage has become Anita Mui and her sister's classroom, and the audience is their teacher.

Every smile and applause from the audience is a silent consolation to their hard life.

In this way, their childhood faded away in constant travel.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

This kind of life, for the two children, is undoubtedly a cruel grind.

In Hong Kong society, the status of singers is not high, so they are often despised and ridiculed.

But this did not make Anita Mui succumb, on the contrary, it was this kind of grinding that made her strong.

As they grew older, the good-looking Anita Mui and her sister attracted the attention of many audiences with their singing.

But behind this aura, Anita Mui and her sister have become a "cash cow" in the eyes of their mother.

When Anita Mui was 11 years old, she was sent to the dance hall by her mother and officially became a singer.

Children at this age are supposed to enjoy the joy of childhood.

And Anita Mui has to face the difficulties and misbehavior of all kinds of guests in the dance hall.

To make matters worse, Anita Mui's life didn't get better because of it.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

When she was molested in a cabaret hall, she also met the man who would later become her stepfather.

This stepfather has always had an extremely bad attitude towards Anita Mui and her sister.

Their lives are filled with relentless insults and insults from their stepfathers.

Anita Mui once expressed this tragic childhood life in an interview, which is a pain that can never be erased in her life.

It was this childhood experience that had a profound impact on Anita Mui's emotional life.

Her lack of affection has become an unavoidable shadow in her life.

Anita Mui's love life, like her life, is full of ups and downs and twists.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

Anita Mui's love labyrinth

Anita Mui and Zou Shilong's relationship used to be a hot topic in the entertainment industry.

When the two were together, they were once regarded as a match made in heaven.

However, the good times were short-lived.

As Zou Shilong and Weng Meiling's romance came out, the trust between them was broken.

The feeling of hurt in Anita Mui's heart is probably only known to herself.

So she decided to end the relationship.

Anita Mui's behavior is also telling herself that love is not compromise and endurance.

Immediately afterwards, Anita Mui's relationship with Japanese singer Masahiko Kondo once again became the focus of the public.

This time, Anita Mui invested more emotion.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

In order to meet her beloved, she can often travel between Hong Kong and Japan.

It's a pity that the road of love is not as simple as Anita Mui thought after all.

As the rumors of Kondo's ambiguous relationship with his ex-girlfriend came out, it was like a knife that stabbed Anita Mui's heart.

In the end, Anita Mui decided to end this relationship that made her sad.

However, Anita Mui's love road did not stop because of this.

It didn't take long for her to get together with Zhao Wenzhuo again.

Anita Mui and Zhao Wenzhuo's love is like a breath of fresh air.

But because there is a 9-year age difference between the two, it has also attracted countless attention from the outside world.

At that time, Anita Mui was already a popular star, and Zhao Wenzhuo was just a newcomer to the industry.

But their feelings are sincere and beautiful.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

However, this beautiful relationship eventually came to an end because of an unexplained misunderstanding.

Anita Mui once said that if time could be turned back, she would be willing to explain the misunderstanding that led to their breakup.

This sentence also reflects the regret in her heart and the helplessness in love.

Every relationship Anita Mui has experienced is an important journey on her life path.

However, although Anita Mui did not find a home for love, she met a sincere friendship.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

Extraordinary camaraderie

When it comes to Anita Mui and Andy Lau, the relationship between them is always full of curiosity.

There are all kinds of speculations about their relationships, some real and some fictional.

But there's no denying that there's a special emotional bond between them.

Anita Mui once publicly praised Andy Lau as an excellent friend.

Behind this praise, it is revealed that she has deep respect and appreciation for Andy Lau.

Some people say that Anita Mui has feelings for Andy Lau that go beyond friendship.

Since Anita Mui and Andy Lau met, they have maintained a deep friendship.

This is more precious than developing a relationship.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

In the Hong Kong entertainment industry, as we all know, Andy Lau and Zhu Liqian's relationship is low-key and long-lasting.

And Anita Mui, as Andy Lau's friend, has always maintained respect and support for this relationship.

The relationship between Anita Mui and Andy Lau can be described as sympathetic to each other.

Andy Lau believes in Anita Mui and sees her as a friend who can share secrets.

They support each other and start taking care of each other before they become famous.

On the occasion of the 10th anniversary of Anita Mui's death, Andy Lau expressed his respect and nostalgia to this old friend through affectionate singing.

Anita Mui: From family purgatory to the top of the stage, revealing her unknown mental journey

epilogue

Although Anita Mui's deepest love in her love life is Masahiko Kondo.

But the way she gets along with Andy Lau is more like the emotion between family members.

Anita Mui's life is not only a dedication to music, but also a hymn to friendship.

Anita Mui's death is sad and regrettable, but her music has become an eternal memory in people's hearts.

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