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I never thought that the day my son got married, I would cry like that. It all starts with the bride price.
Before my son got married, I always felt that the bride price was a tradition, a sign of responsibility and respect for the woman's family. So, when I heard that my son was going to get married, I didn't hesitate to take out a bride price of 180,000 yuan. However, what I didn't expect was that the in-laws returned 160,000 yuan.
At the beginning, I really didn't understand, thinking that maybe my in-laws' financial situation was not good, so they would refund my money. However, I later learned that this was actually a kind of intention of my in-laws, and they did not blame it because the money was returned, but out of sincerity.
I deeply understand that my in-laws don't care about the 160,000, but care about whether our sons can be good to their daughters and whether our family can get along in harmony. This marriage is no longer a simple matter of two people, but the involvement of two families.
I sat and chatted with my in-laws, and my mother-in-law said to me gently, "I don't care about the money, we just hope you can be together." This sentence touched me deeply, and I finally understood that the meaning of this marriage is far beyond the size of the bride price.
At that moment, I let go of the knot in my heart and understood the essence of marriage. The bride price of 160,000 yuan is no longer a monetary exchange, but an emotional expression and exchange between the two families. I was moved to say to my mother-in-law, "Thank you, I will treat our marriage well, and I will treat your daughter well." ”
At that moment, I finally understood that the bride price was not the whole of marriage, but part of a tradition. What is more needed in marriage is understanding and tolerance between two people, as well as harmony and integration between families. This marriage is destined to be a journey of love and understanding, and I am willing to treat it with all my heart.
I wiped away my tears, stood up, and held my parents' hands tightly. Yes, our marriage is no longer just a matter of the two of us, but an emotional exchange between two families. I decided that from now on, I will treat this marriage with my sincerity and love, treat my in-laws with my tolerance and understanding, and let our family become one and walk through every morning and evening of marriage together.
I sat with my parents, drinking tea and eating snacks. My mother-in-law looked at me tenderly and said, "Do you know, my daughter is a very sensible child, and I am very relieved to entrust her to your family." ”
I nodded gratefully and said, "Thank you for your trust, I will treat her with all I have and give her a happy family." ”
My father smiled, patted me on the shoulder, and said, "Take good care of her, everything in our family belongs to yours." ”
This sentence makes me feel extremely warm, marriage is not just a matter of two people, but the connection of two families. In the future, we will have to face many challenges and difficulties, but with the blessing and support of my in-laws, I feel that everything can be overcome. The bride price of 160,000 yuan, although it is only money, carries more expectations and blessings for me.
On the day of the wedding, our family and the family of our in-laws gathered together in a harmonious and festive atmosphere. My wife and I stood in the main hall, staring at each other, filled with joy and gratitude. Under the guidance of the host, we exchanged vows and made a beautiful marriage vow.
"I am willing, with all my love, to cherish and care for you, whether poor or rich, healthy or sick, will support each other. I said to her affectionately.
She smiled and took the microphone, "I am willing, I will use all my love to tolerate and support you, no matter the wind and rain or the sunshine, whether sweet or bitter, I will move forward hand in hand." Her voice was gentle and firm.
Our vows echoed in the auditorium as if they were a solemn promise for the future of life. Relatives and friends applauded, and blessings and laughter filled the entire auditorium.
"Congratulations!" my mother-in-law smiled and stepped forward and placed a beautiful jade bracelet on my wife's wrist. "This is our family heirloom, and from now on, you will be a part of our family. ”
With tears in her eyes, my wife held her mother's hand tightly: "Thank you, Mom, I will definitely take good care of my husband and your family." ”
At this moment, I understood that the bride price is not the standard for measuring marriage, but more importantly, the mutual support and blessing of the family. Although we only got back the bride price of 160,000 yuan, we got an incomparably precious family feeling. In the coming days, we will treat this precious emotion with a grateful heart, so that the two families will be more closely connected.
After the wedding, my wife and I walked side by side on the way home, and she gently shook my hand and asked, "Are you happy?"
I turned my head to look at her and smiled contentedly: "Of course I'm happy, we have finally entered the palace of marriage, and with the support and blessings of my in-laws, I feel very happy." ”
My wife looked up at me with a happy glint in her eyes: "I'm also very happy, although we only got back the bride price of 160,000 yuan, but I think this emotion is more important to us." ”
As we walked, we exchanged our feelings about the wedding and felt the kindness and tolerance of our in-laws. This makes me more convinced that marriage is not only about mutual understanding and tolerance between two people, but also about the harmony of two families.
When we returned home, our in-laws greeted us at the door, and my father-in-law smiled and said to me, "Son, you have to treat our daughter well, we believe that you can give her a happy family." ”
I nodded solemnly and said, "Thank you, I'll do my best." ”
The mother-in-law asked with concern, "You won't feel tired on the way home, will you?" Come, sit in the living room and take a rest, and I will pour you a cup of tea. ”
In the living room, my wife and I felt the warmth of our family. At this moment, I deeply realized that the blessings and love of family are priceless.
"Thank you for giving us so many blessings and support, making us feel the warmth of home. "I said to my in-laws from the bottom of my heart.
My mother patted my hand and said, "Child, this is what we should do as parents, and when you have children in the future, you must also educate well and be a good parent." ”
When I heard my mother's words, I was moved. My wife and I decided that no matter what happened in the future, we would respect our in-laws and take good care of them.
In the days after we got married, my wife and I took the blessings of our in-laws as motivation to welcome our future life together. We deeply understand that marriage is not just a matter of two people, but the connection and integration between two families. This family affection and the strength of this family will become the most solid backing in our lives.
Only in the warmth of this family will our love bloom more and our marriage will be more firm. This is the emotion behind the bride price, and this is the beauty that we need to cherish all our lives.
After the wedding, my wife and I decided to visit our in-laws to express our sincere gratitude. Our in-laws welcomed us and welcomed us with hospitality.
The parents sat in the living room and looked at us kindly, and the mother smiled and said, "Son, you are here, sit down." Have a cup of tea and talk slowly. ”
I took the teacup and said to my in-laws, "Thank you for your blessings and support, without you, our wedding would not be so beautiful." ”
The father smiled kindly and said, "Son, this is our responsibility and obligation. Our daughter still needs to be treated well by you. ”
I nodded solemnly and said, "Don't worry, I will definitely take good care of her." ”
The wife took out a beautiful gift and handed it to her in-laws: "This is the heart of our husband and wife, please accept it." ”
The mother of the family took the gift, opened it with joy, and found that it was a beautiful painting, and she said with emotion: "Child, what a precious gift, we like it very much." ”
I deeply feel that this mutual heart is the most sincere. This painting is not only a gift, but also a sincere gratitude to our in-laws.
My father patted me on the shoulder and said, "Son, in the future, our family's affairs will be your family's affairs, so be more concerned." ”
I solemnly agreed, saying, "Thank you for your reassurance, I will do my best." ”
This visit made me deeply appreciate the responsibility and affection behind marriage. After that, we kept in touch with our in-laws frequently, and our mutual care and greetings increased our closeness.
In my interactions with my in-laws, I realized that marriage does not exist in isolation, and that family harmony is very important. Only then can we take care of each other and truly have a warm and happy home.
As the days passed, my wife and I gradually got back on track. Whether it is laughter or tears, we all deeply understand that family harmony and blessing are the most important treasures in our marriage, and we must cherish the fate and family emotions with our in-laws with a grateful heart, so that this emotional fire will burn forever.
The days were spent in laughter, and my wife and I felt deeply that the connection and understanding with our in-laws would make our marriage even better. It was through these exchanges that we learned the ideological and emotional inspiration that our in-laws gave us, and we gradually understood the importance of mutual tolerance and understanding.
Once, I took my wife to visit my in-laws, and my mother-in-law prepared a beautiful hometown dish. My eyes lit up and I said, "Wow, this table looks so delicious!"
The mother-in-law smiled and said, "Son, this is all made by your wife, she has learned a lot of delicious hometown dishes." ”
The wife smiled shyly and said, "These are all taught to me by my mother, or is your dish the best." ”
My mother-in-law looked at us and said kindly, "Child, marriage is like cooking a dish, you need to work together, be considerate of each other, and grow together in life." ”
These words touched me deeply, and I nodded silently. As the in-laws said, marriage needs us to take care of it with our hearts and tolerate it with love and understanding. This is also a precious revelation from our exchanges with our in-laws.
Getting along with my in-laws also made me understand that marriage is not a closed system, but requires support and encouragement from family and friends. It is this family affection and the strength of family that makes the marriage stronger.
From my in-laws, I also learned about the importance of family and the combination of traditional and modern values. My wife and I decided that we would also inherit the family culture in our lives and let the ancient values permeate our married life.
Marriage is a long-distance race, and the communication with my in-laws has made me think more. I deeply understand that the trust and blessing given by our in-laws is one of the most important supports in our marriage. This blessing will always remind us to cherish each day and manage our marriage with heart.
In contact with my in-laws, I not only realized the meaning of family, but also learned how to better understand and tolerate each other with my wife. My wife and I have come to understand that the care and support of our in-laws is an asset that keeps our marriage together.
Once, my wife and I decided to cook a home-cooked meal for our in-laws. In the kitchen, my wife and I were busy in full swing, and my mother-in-law came to understand the situation and said with a smile: "The children have worked hard, and it is really happy to see you so affectionate and cook together." ”
I smiled and replied, "It's our care, I hope you can try our craft." ”
The wife added mischievously, "I hope you don't get too picky." ”
The mother-in-law smiled gently: "Don't worry, I will definitely taste it." ”
At dinnertime, we set our home-cooked meals on the table. The parents tasted each dish happily, and the mother of the family was full of praise and said, "This dish is so delicious, and I can feel your intentions." ”
My wife and I looked at each other contentedly. This little cooking show not only won the praise of our in-laws, but also shortened the distance between us. In the process, we also understand better that marriage is not just a matter between two people, but the common growth of two families with mutual understanding and support.
Since then, we have often maintained close contact with our in-laws, visiting them from time to time to give feedback on our lives. In my relationship with my in-laws, I have gradually learned to care for and respect my wife, try to accommodate her as much as possible, and understand the values of both families. This is inseparable from the earnest teachings and careful care of our in-laws in our married life.
On the road of marriage, we will stick to our original intention, and take care of our marriage with the blessing and understanding of our in-laws. No matter what kind of wind and rain we encounter, the warmth and support of our in-laws are the driving force and shelter for our growth. Let us join hands to spend the ups and downs of life and go hand in hand to our journey of happiness.