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I remember that day, I was in a very good mood. Because my sister-in-law had her birthday, I specially made a big table of dishes to entertain her. I hurried home from work and started preparing dinner in a hurry. The dishes are nutritious, colorful, and flavorful. I think my sister-in-law will be very happy, and tonight's dinner will be very pleasant. However, things turned out unexpectedly.
"Hmm, what's going on!" I pushed open the door and saw my mother-in-law and sister-in-law already eating with relish at the table. My mother-in-law looked at me and said with a look of disdain, "Oh, it's such a coincidence that you're here." We just finished eating. I was a little stunned, and I secretly complained in my heart. I have worked hard to prepare this table, how can I let their mother and daughter finish it.
"Crying bitterly" click is really a good thing!" the sister-in-law said with a smile on her face. I felt a rush of anger rushing through my head, and my eyes went black, and I almost exploded.
"Have you forgotten that this table is for you?" I shouted with some anger.
"Oh, yes? I don't remember exactly. The sister-in-law said indifferently. I glanced at my mother-in-law, who shook her head disdainfully and didn't apologize for eating too much.
I couldn't help it: "You guys are too much! I worked so hard to make so many dishes, I thought that I could have a cheerful dinner today, but you mother and daughter finished the dishes. My voice grew more agitated and tears welled up in my eyes.
"Oh, you don't have to be so excited, we're just hungry, so we just ate more. My mother-in-law said disdainfully, turned her head to look out, and did not look at me again.
I couldn't believe their attitude, I felt as if I had been wronged. I cried almost sentence by sentence, "I don't cook these dishes for you to eat, but for my sister-in-law's birthday, how can you be so selfish!" I said, very emotional. It was as if my body, which carried a lot of emotions, suddenly gained a few hundred pounds of weight, and I was suddenly breathless.
My mother-in-law looked at me, her eyes full of disdain and disgust: "It's all a family, how can you say that it's like this, that is, aren't you troublesome? The mother-in-law's tone was full of impatience.
I couldn't stand them anymore, "I'm not going to do it!" I suddenly shouted, and I felt like my whole body was exploding. I felt the hoarseness of my voice, overflowing with a deep sadness. The feeling of being destroyed by the hands of one's own relatives is truly heartbreaking.
I picked up my shoes and was about to leave, when my sister-in-law ran out: "Sister-in-law, don't be upset! Why are we still eating at the table, I haven't eaten yet." ”
"You haven't eaten enough?" I felt my emotions slowly calm down, although I still felt an inextricable grievance in my heart: "What are you talking about, I made so many dishes just for the sake of your face." The two of you are fine, and you have eaten all the dishes cleanly, and there is not even a single grain of rice left. ”
"Sister-in-law, I'm sorry! I know you've worked hard, I really didn't mean to. Look, I've got you a new napkin!" said the sister-in-law, holding her chest out and not caring about it.
I looked at a napkin in her hand, although I was not angry, but the loss in my heart could not be dissolved for a long time. For the happiness of his family, he often hurts himself, which is really wronged.
I slowly calmed myself down, as if our relationship had eased. I know that when facing these relatives, I still need to keep a normal heart. After all, there is nothing in life that we cannot understand and understand each other. Yes, life is not easy, and we should all be more understanding and tolerant. There will always be such and such things happening in life, and the only thing we have to do is to learn to accept and resolve them. After all, we are all family.
My sister-in-law looked at me and said with some embarrassment, "Sister-in-law, I'm sorry, I didn't realize this at the time. I know you've worked so hard to prepare so much delicious food for me, how can I be so ignorant? I'm sorry, I'll remember. ”
I looked at her somewhat hurt expression, and my heart softened a little. "Okay, don't talk about it, it's not good to treat your relatives like this. I took a deep breath, wiped away my tears, and tried to calm down my excitement.
The mother-in-law also came over and said, "Okay, okay, don't be angry, everyone." Today is my sister-in-law's birthday, so let's have a happy meal together. ”
I glanced at my mother-in-law and felt that her attitude seemed to be somewhat relaxed. "Yes, let's have a meal together. "I try to defuse the awkwardness, after all, in life, getting along is the most important thing.
So, we sat down around the table again. The empty plates on the table seemed to tell the quarrel and emotion just now, and I felt a little uneasy. At the same time, I am glad that I stopped my emotions in time, otherwise I would have regretted it.
The sister-in-law took the initiative to pick up the kitchen knife: "Sister-in-law, you taste my cooking skills, and I will cut a few slices of meat for you." ”
"Okay, I'll try it. I smiled slightly, and didn't care about the argument just now. I took the cut meat, and the sweetness between the meals reverberated slightly in my heart, and I no longer had the grievances just now.
After the meal, we sipped tea together in the living room and chatted about homely things. I watched everyone talking and laughing, and my heart was also warm.
"Sister-in-law, I really like the food you cook, will you make a table for me next time?"
"yes, I will. I had a smile on my face and a little sweetness in my heart.
"Also, sister-in-law, you are so capable, so many dishes can be prepared at once. The mother-in-law also complimented.
My heart warmed and I felt recognized and supported by my family. This is the most beautiful moment, and the understanding and tolerance between relatives is the most precious.
In life, there will inevitably be friction and unpleasantness, but as long as you can communicate openly and tolerate with gratitude, everything will be fine.
"I'm so sorry, I was angry just now, I'm sorry. I suddenly realized that my words and actions were a little excessive, and I couldn't help but say a little embarrassed.
"It's okay, it's all family, and it's normal to be emotional sometimes. My mother-in-law waved her hand and signaled that I didn't have to care.
I felt inexplicably happy, because the tolerance and understanding between my family members finally resolved the embarrassment and grievances just now. I silently made up my mind to be more patient and tolerant in the future, after all, home and everything is prosperous.
The dinner was not perfect, but it was warm and satisfying, full of warmth and understanding between the family. It was also a great learning and emotional journey for me.
"Sister-in-law, I didn't expect you to prepare for me so hard. The sister-in-law looked at me gratefully, "This dinner is really delicious, thank you." ”
"You're welcome, I'll make you another table if I have time in the future. I replied with a smile.
At this time, the mother-in-law also came over to join in the fun: "Yes, we live as a family, we should be considerate of each other, don't make trouble between the two of you." ”
"Yes, although there were some twists and turns today, we still had a delicious dinner together. "I looked at my mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and I felt a little warmth in my heart.
After a short night, the family gradually returned to its former tranquility. Thinking back on this day inadvertently, I have a deeper understanding of my family's tolerance and understanding. All the warmth and touching are surging, and I deeply know that the meaning of home may be to feel the sincerity and preciousness of family affection in these ordinary lives.
A few days later, my sister-in-law dialed my phone: "Sister-in-law, I want to invite you to dinner, this time I will treat you and give you a return." ”
I smiled, "Okay, but I'll invite you next time." ”
During this simple dinner, I learned that mutual understanding and tolerance between family members is the most important thing. Perhaps we will encounter many setbacks on the road of life, but only with gratitude and tolerance can we truly have a harmonious family. And all of this comes from the strong love of family affection, which is the most indispensable warmth and the most sincere emotion.
After returning to that dinner, I had a different experience in my heart, and I felt a little more tolerant and understanding, which may be the beautiful conditions that a family should have. Everyone has their own thoughts and emotions, and relatives should embrace each other with love and tolerance, because the meaning of family is far more than reunion. With this understanding, I believe that in the days to come, we will be able to live in harmony and be warm and happy.
Time flies, and the atmosphere of the family is slowly improving. I found that the communication between us became smoother after that dinner, and we were more willing to listen to each other, more tolerant and understanding.
Once, I made a great dinner for my family again. The table was full of delicious foods, and I watched it all with satisfaction.
"Wow, what a sumptuous one!" exclaimed the sister-in-law excitedly.
"Yes, sister-in-law did a really good job this time. The mother-in-law also gave a thumbs up.
My heart warmed, "Thank you for the compliment, in fact, this is all for our family to live in harmony." ”
"Sister-in-law, you have worked so hard, how can I not show it. The sister-in-law said with some embarrassment.
"Yes, next time we'll treat you to a big dinner, okay?" the mother-in-law offered.
"Really?" I was a little surprised.
"Of course, if you are so good to us, we must be good to you. The sister-in-law said with a smile.
I felt the warmth of my family, and it turned out that tolerance and understanding are the eternal strength of family. The understanding and support of my family has become my driving force, and I firmly believe that as long as there is a loving family, it can withstand the ups and downs of the outside world.
"Yes, no matter how many difficulties we encounter, as long as we work together, we will definitely be able to overcome them. I say it from the bottom of my heart.
In this family united by love, everyone feels warm because of forgiveness and tolerance, and this warm flowing power also makes me more determined to yearn for a better life. Only by understanding and tolerating can we truly feel the happiness that family brings.
In this family reunion, I also learned how to get along better with my family, and the importance of love and tolerance. Because only when the family is in harmony can we truly have a happy life.
There may always be some friction and unhappiness between family members, but as long as we uphold love and tolerance, harmony and happiness will become the norm in the family. I am convinced that this experience will make me appreciate what I have even more.
We had dinner together, laughter and happiness echoing. This dinner has become a new beginning, and we have become more tolerant and understanding. Since that day, our family relationship has become more harmonious, and all this comes from more understanding and tolerance between each other.
A few days later, it was my sister-in-law's birthday. When I woke up in the morning, I had a special surprise for my sister-in-law. I carefully prepared a delicate breakfast with fragrant cakes and flowers on the table. When the sister-in-law walked into the restaurant, she was fascinated by the surprise.
"Wow, what's going on?" asked the sister-in-law in surprise.
"It's a birthday surprise for you, happy birthday!" I said with a smile.
"It's so touching, I really didn't expect you to be so attentive. The sister-in-law said excitedly.
"It's what we should do between our families. I looked at her affectionately.
We had a wonderful morning together in a warm atmosphere. My sister-in-law's smile and grateful expression also made me feel extremely satisfied.
With the tolerance and understanding of our family, our family has become more harmonious and the relationship between us has become closer. In this way, we realize that the home is a warm harbor, and tolerance and understanding are an indispensable part of the family relationship.
We may have our own lifestyles and character flaws at home, but as long as we are grateful and tolerant, the family will be full of love and warmth.
This also made me deeply realize that no matter how disturbed the outside world is, home is the real safe haven and eternal happiness on our way forward.
After that family dinner, I learned the great meaning of inclusion and understanding. Only by understanding each other's difficulties and being grateful, can we get along better and build a warm and happy family together. This is a continuous transmission of family power, and it is also a deep reflection and experience of family values. May our family, with each other's support and understanding, create more beautiful memories together and move towards a happy future together.
With the understanding and tolerance of my family, I feel that my life is better. Since then, our relationship has become more harmonious, and everyone has become more considerate and understanding.
"Sister-in-law, we've all been fine lately. The sister-in-law quipped.
"yes, the atmosphere is really much better now. I replied with a smile.
"I think it's all thanks to your tolerance and understanding, sister-in-law. The sister-in-law said.
"In fact, the most important thing for family members is understanding and tolerance. I said with deep feeling.
Over the past few days, we have learned more about each other, and we are more willing to tolerate and understand. In this warm and inclusive family, every member can find reliance and peace of mind.
On this day, I propose to take the family out on an outing to relax and have a relaxing and fun time. Everyone happily agreed.
On the way to the outing, we had a small barbecue party and played to our heart's content in the lap of nature. Everyone had a lot of fun, talking and laughing, and the scene was joyful.
"Sister-in-law, this outing is really happy!" The sister-in-law said excitedly.
"yes, hopefully our family can still hold events like this more often. The mother-in-law also said with a smile.
In this outing, we got closer to each other and felt the warmth and happiness of family. Mutual tolerance and understanding are the secrets of true family harmony.
Just as this outing brings us closer together, the power of understanding and inclusion will also make families happier.
With the tolerance and understanding among family members, I deeply realized that understanding and tolerance are the cornerstone of family harmony and the strength for us to grow together.
In life, family is the harbor of our return, and only through gratitude and tolerance can we truly have a harmonious and warm family.
With the tolerance and understanding of our family, our family has come closer and understood the importance of family harmony. May our family still be able to live in harmony, understand and tolerate each other in the days to come, and continue to move towards more happiness and beauty together.