In 2017, a young man in the countryside spent 100,000 yuan as a bride price to marry his wife home, but the two have never had the same room, and the wife has always rejected the young man, as long as the young man is close, he will immediately stay away, and his wife is still like a jade after four years of marriage, what is going on?
(Reference source: "Looking for Love", in order to improve readability, the details may be polished, some views of the article are only personal opinions, please read rationally)
The protagonists of the story are Guo Bin and Tan Beibei, who met through a blind date. At that time, Guo Bin was thirty years old, but he was still a bachelor, which made his parents anxious, so he arranged a blind date for him and met Tan Beibei.
The two of them are not very good, so they decided to get along first and try it, so the two got along for two whole years, Guo Bin was also very satisfied with Tan Beibei, and the two decided to get married and spend the rest of their lives together.
Guo Bin's parents were very happy after learning about this, and they made great efforts to hold a beautiful wedding for their son. The bride price was 100,000 yuan, and they also bought more than 20,000 yuan of three gold, and spent nearly 100,000 yuan on the banquet, and the savings in their hands were basically spent.
But Guo Bin's parents did not regret it, but felt extremely happy, because their son finally got married and started a family, looking forward to being able to hold their grandson and granddaughter as soon as possible, but what the two never expected was that this wish waited for four years and failed to achieve their wish, and the development of things was unexpected by the two, making them feel painful.
On the night of the wedding, Tan Beibei proposed to sleep in separate beds, this request made Guo Bin feel very puzzled, he didn't understand why the two had already become husband and wife, why they had to sleep in separate beds, but in order not to make his wife angry, he could only endure such a request silently. Just this bed was divided for four whole years, and Guo Bin felt painful and helpless.
During this period, as long as Guo Bin touched Tan Beibei, he would be beaten by her, and over time, Guo Bin did not want to ask for hardship anymore. During the marriage, Tan Beibei asked Guo Bin to pay 4,000 yuan every month before he was willing to give Guo Bin a child. And Guo Bin's salary was only 4,000, but he still chose to listen to his wife and handed over his salary for several months.
Guo Bin thought that his wife would be a little closer to him, but the result was still the same as before, as long as he was close, he would be reprimanded and abused by Tan Beibei, and Guo Bin's face was scratched by Tan Beibei several times, which made Guo Bin feel very angry, but he still chose to endure it.
Guo Bin's parents have been looking forward to the stars and the moon, and they want to become grandmothers soon, but they have waited for four whole years and have not seen any movement from their son and daughter-in-law, and they feel very puzzled. Once, Guo Bin's mother found a reason to enter her son's room, but unexpectedly saw two beds, and her heart was even more suspicious.
Guo Bin's mother pulled her son aside after the meal and asked if the two had a conflict? Guo Bin shook his head, and Guo Bin's mother went straight to the point and asked Guo Bin why there were two beds in his room.
At this time, Guo Bin's inner grievances gushed out, and he trayed out what he had encountered over the years, Guo Bin's mother felt very angry, so she found Tan Beibei and asked the reason. Who knew that Tan Beibei did not respect Guo Bin's mother at all, and bluntly said that Guo Bin was dirty and didn't want him to touch him.
These words made Guo Bin's mother feel very angry, so she argued with Tan Beibei, Tan Beibei went directly to her parents' house in a fit of anger, and blocked Guo Bin's mobile phone number.
Guo Bin felt helpless and aggrieved, so he and his mother came to Tan Beibei's house with the mediator, Tan Beibei ignored it when he saw this, and sat on the sofa and played with his mobile phone intently. Before the mediator could speak, Tan Beibei's sister-in-law reprimanded loudly.
Guo Bin handed over his salary after the two got married, and did not let Tan Beibei do any housework, let alone do anything to her, but Tan Beibei often punched and kicked Guo Bin. The reason why Tan Beibei has been reluctant to let Guo Bin touch her is that she still feels that Guo Bin has no money and can't give her a happy life.
But Guo Bin has been very motivated since he got married, taking various certificates, just to get a higher salary, give Tan Beibei a happy life, let her look at herself differently and live a warm life. It's just that it backfired, and Guo Bin has not been able to warm Tan Beibei's heart.
In marriage, it is right for two people to pay together, and only if one party pays, the marriage will have problems sooner or later. Only by supporting each other, encouraging each other, and making progress together can we build a happy marriage.
