I am an ordinary urban white-collar worker living in a bustling metropolis. Working from 9 to 5 every day, like many young people, I work hard and live in this city. When it came to marriage and childbearing, I never thought I would be on this path that few people have taken. However, before I knew it, I was already at the threshold of thirty years old, and I still didn't have him by my side.
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Once upon a time, I also fantasized about entering the palace of marriage with my beloved, having a warm little family, and maybe a cute little baby. But the reality is always cruel, once the sea is difficult to water, except for Wushan is not a cloud. On the emotional road, I have experienced too many twists and turns. The failure of my first love made me doubt love, and the next few times I fell in love, I always couldn't get to the end for various reasons. Over time, I lost faith in my marriage.
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And when it comes to childbearing, I don't think I'm ready to take on the responsibilities of motherhood. Modern society has higher and higher requirements for women, and the dual pressures of work and family make me feel overwhelmed. I don't want to sacrifice my career and life plan because of the presence of my children.
Of course, I also understand that not getting married and having children does not mean that I am an incomplete person. Everyone has the freedom to choose how they want to live their lives. Some people like the warmth and stability of marriage and family, while others enjoy the freedom and independence of being single. The world is pluralistic, and we should respect everyone's choices.
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But I also know that not getting married and having children means that I will face more loneliness and stress. Whenever I see my friends posting happy wedding photos and baby photos, I can't help but feel a little envious. And when my family and relatives are worried about my marriage, I also feel an invisible pressure.
On this issue, I sometimes get tangled and confused. Am I awake or not? Can I really stick to this path that few people have taken? But every time I think of my dreams and pursuits, I have a firm belief that I want to live for myself and live my true self. Even if the road ahead is full of thorns and challenges, I will continue to walk bravely.
Although I am still alone, I believe that there is always someone waiting for me in this city. We will understand and support each other because of similar experiences, we will fight side by side and survive the wind and rain together because of the common goal, we will watch the sunrise and sunset together, enjoy the flowers and bloom together, and we will create our own happiness and beauty together.
As for fertility, I will not give up my career and life plan easily. I will strive to realize my own value and contribute to society, and I will use my efforts and struggles to tell the world that women are not only married and have children.
Of course, I also understand that my choice may face some doubts and confusion. But I firmly believe that life is my own, not someone else's. I want to live for myself and live my true self!