"Doctor's father questioned the doctor's professional level" was swept up all over the Internet, exposing how much parents' ignorance
Recently, a father questioned the professionalism of doctors because a couple brought their 4-year-old child with congenital heart disease to the hospital.
After seeing the results of the child's examinations, the doctor asked who was in charge of the family, and after learning that the child's father was in charge, he clearly told the father that the child's condition was "ventricular septal defect" with 7-8 mm, and the murmur was very loud with 3-4 levels.
However, the father relied on himself to be a doctor, read a lot of books, and collected cases about this disease on the Internet, and after seeing cases of self-healing, he thought that the child's disease could be cured on its own.
The doctor was also taken aback when he heard the child's father say this, and then said to the child's mother: "Your husband is a very thoughtful person. Unexpectedly, the child's mother proudly said: "He is a postdoctoral fellow and has read a lot of books." The child's father also emphasized that he was a university teacher.
Then asked again if there was any possibility of healing, and the professional doctor directly said that it was not possible, but the child's father kept asking if there was any possibility of healing, and the doctor said that it was too big to heal.
But the child's father thought that the child was very energetic, and still hoped to heal himself, and rushed to say that he had checked information on the Internet that the child's illness could be healed, and repeatedly talked about the topic of healing.
The doctor said directly and seriously: "No, it can't be." ”
At this time, the child's father questioned the doctor and asked, "What is the main reason, why can't it be healed?"
The doctor was also very speechless for a long time, how could he go back again? Then he said with a tough attitude: "Based on my experience of seeing 50,000 patients and doing 12,000 surgeries, I am a professional, and I said that he cannot heal, so surely he will not be able to heal." ”
The child's father still wanted to question, but the doctor interrupted him, so he stopped the topic of "self-healing", and then told the child's father: "Leave professional things to professionals, don't use your so-called ideas to harm your child." ”
At this time, the child's father questioned the doctor again, saying that if the operation was to be performed, how much impact would it have on the child, and the doctor said that it was to turn a child with congenital heart disease into a normal person!
But the child's father was still hesitant, and kept asking what level he could achieve after the operation, and asked about the risk probability of the operation.
The doctor confidently said, "The success rate is 99.5%, and he also reminds my father to do surgery as soon as possible."
As a result, the child's father began to worry that the operation would be worse than the normal healing, and the doctor said very firmly: "There is no evidence, where did you come to the conclusion?"
After talking to the child's mother, the doctor learned that the child was the only seedling in the family, and she doted on the child very much and did not want the child to be harmed.
The doctor also wanted to ask the mother's opinion, but the child, the mother directly confessed: "His strength is too strong, I can't help it." ”
The doctor's subsequent sentence directly addressed the child's father's problem: "You are too loving to let you lose your way, don't harm the child because of your doting, hesitation, and stupidity." ”
After listening to the doctor's words, the child's father fell into deep thought, and netizens couldn't help but complain after watching the video: "A doctor is actually the same as my old man, I believe in Baidu's conclusion." ”
"This doctor is China's top expert in treating children's heart valves, and he is internationally renowned, so why would parents prefer to believe the little information they find on the Internet rather than trust a more authoritative doctor?"
Some netizens said: "Isn't it normal to go online to learn about the condition, I don't think this father has said anything excessive, it's just a normal consultation."
Another netizen replied: "The normal consultation is a question and an answer, not a question and a question repeatedly, this is not a consultation, it is a question, you have found such an authoritative doctor to come and see, and repeatedly questioned, a little unclear."
The doctor has a saying: "If the child needs to do it, I will do it for him, and if the child does not need to do it, I will resolutely not do it for him, and I will maximize the interests of the child as my standard!"
For children, every parent should want to protect him (her) very well, love them very much, but excessive doting, will bring negative effects to the child, if you really love your child, keep a clear head, look at things rationally, do not let ignorance blind the eyes.
Here, I hope that every parent can take this as a warning and give them a better future.
